shawshini

Anyone had any recent contact?  Meeting him tonight and now all the sudden nervous!!

On 10/7/2023 at 12:19 PM, Vin_Marco said:

Being I'm relatively new to the forum again,  which I've enjoyed with much delight  probably because without social media's voracious cacophonies my heart  can hear the anthem's of the universe... simply put,  nothing about social media holds my interest. 

I'm not so sure where providers can post photos.... that said I've posted the most recent photos in existence of me in the forum "Any Other Muscle Addicts" for anyone curious as to what physical condition I'm currently in. I have 10 more days before target 🎯 date. This is the first go at it in years that there's no photo shoot attached to the target 🎯 date. When I come home from Europe I'll be really turning it up and putting the pedal to the metal 🔥😎 I invite anyone interested to have a look see 👀 

You look stunning!  And judging by your posts, you seem like a super nice guy as well, I hope we can cross paths at some point!

As someone who has met Furry_wolf, I can report that he was a total gentleman, both in person and through text messaging. 

Lots of pics on his Twitter.  He has A LOT to offer…

I’ve met him and he’s a very nice guy and 100% professional.  I didn’t bring up any of this forum talk as I figured it’s not a good subject for him and I didn’t want to sour the experience.

On 2/15/2023 at 10:51 PM, Danny-Darko said:

Because for some of us IT DOES MATTER! I at least don't expect an "Alpha Top that l loves being worshiped and dominating bottoms" to do drag or anything "feminine". For you and others obviously it's not an issue but for some of us it would be a major turn off and damper. Not everybody is attracted to drag queens/transexuals or effeminate men! And if you've been following any of these threads for any length of time you might have noticed. Why do people in the LGBT "community" feel the everybody must and should like what they like and think is politically correct?? It's just not my nor everybody's cup of tea! For those that like that, well ENJOY! You and others probably don't like many thinks I do like. And should I call you out and get judgmental and feel morally superior because you and others don't agree with my tastes?! "YOU BIGOT and RACIST YOU" for not following my ideas and the current PC trends?! 😲 How many times do we need to have this conversation on this forum and others for crying out loud? I shouldn't even have to explain myself because you happen to like drag queens and don't care and I don't and do care?! Get off you high horse and learn that different people like different thing in this world and it's perfectly fine to say so and not everybody is going to share your tastes!! 🙄

Wow.  It seems like I’ve struck a chord.  
Nobody is judging you.  But just because a guy wears makeup or drag doesn’t make them effeminate, or less than a man.  Nobody is saying you need to be attracted to them.  Calm down. 

2 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

Anybody else notice pic #4 shows a full makeup bag and false eyelashes kit in the background? Let's hope they aren't his and just took the selfie while borrowing somebody's bathroom. 🤔

Even so, why would that matter?  I’ve seen some really hot guys that do drag. 

I’ve met him and had a wonderful time.  Very friendly and accommodating.  I can’t speak to the name changes, I didn’t bring it up. 

He’s looking for a sugar daddy.  

23 minutes ago, RealAvalon said:

A primary number year. Something significant is going to happen in your life this year.  One of my few superstitions 

Ooh interesting, I’ve actually had two so far, major job change and cross country move…  but I’ll take more.  (Only two months left) 😀

2 minutes ago, nycman said:

Don’t be ridiculous…..we’re gay men. 
You know damn well, anyone over 29….is ancient!

I figured at 43 I was in that population! 

Just curious as to how we are defining “older”? 

Highly recommend, HOT and super nice guy!

His ig is @str8flexn_87

Anyone have any good recs for Tampa?  I like dominant and aggressive tops that will cuddle after…

thanks!

First of all, I love that you are posting here @Romani.

Secondly, it would be an honor to be inspected by you. I brush and floss and have never had a cavity, so I’m hoping I’d pass!

6 hours ago, Romani said:

I kiss people who have good breath. If I haven't known them long enough to determine their standards, I inspect their mouth beforehand.

If anyone's offended by this, bear in mind that you're not the only person I'm connecting with. If you don't want someone who's careful, and considers how his choices could potentially impact others, you can always hire someone who's careless and rely on luck

18 minutes ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

My therapist knows.  Hiring or getting paid for sex is not an insecurity for me or a hangup for my therapist.  It is a part of who I am and what brings me joy.  He also rightfully agrees that we all pay for companionship in one form or another.  My therapist has helped me mentally deal with things that I wanted to change such as alcohol consumption and my work performance.  For example,  he'll bring up how I don't need alcohol to talk with an escort, so I should be able to talk with strangers at a bar without alcohol as well. 

Thank you!  This response is so helpful. I’m not insecure about hiring either, I’ve actually used it as a tool to become more comfortable in my own skin, and this is what I’d like to explore further with my therapist. 

I’ve been in therapy on and off for most of my adult life, dealing with depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, to name just a few…

Although I feel comfortable bringing my full self to therapy most of the time, one thing I haven’t discussed yet is hiring.  Just coming upon a year doing this and I have some feelings. Would there be any legal ramifications for myself or the therapist?  I assume no because the activities are between two consenting adults over 18, and I’m not causing harm to myself or others, but still not sure about bringing it up.  My therapist is extremely inclusive and we’ve discussed many other scenarios.

Any thoughts or experience with this?

I joined his JFF a while back and it was mostly older content, rarely updated.  I also tried to message him there but no response.   

There been discussion on him before, but does anyone know if he still escorts?

https://rent.men/Jax_official
 

thanks!

He checked ALL the boxes for me too, hope we can find him!!

Update!  He had a totally understandable delay and all worked out, I ended up having a great time.  Some things are worth the wait.  Thanks for all of your feedback, I am truly grateful for this forum!

7 minutes ago, sincitymix said:

If its beyond the agreed upon time, I would reach out.. the least he could do is a courtesy im running late..

hope he doesnt ghost you.

 

Yeah I reached out and heard nothing. Guessing it’s a no go at this point. Just surprised because he’s been super responsive thus far. 

I love this guy. He’s sexy, sweet, and very nice.  I’m a bottom but I think he gets into a lot of scenes.  Feel free to PM me.

Hey All,

I’m not sure this is the right section for this question, so mods please feel free to set me on the right direction.

Just looking for an opinion-because I’ve learned so much from folks on this forum so thought it would be an ok place to ask.

I’ve been hiring for less than a year, and all my encounters have gone well, luckily I suppose.  
 

Currently waiting to meet a provider, texted location and we’ve had great communication so far. However, he’s 27 minutes late and I haven’t heard from him.  Was going to reach out at the 30 minute mark but don’t want to seem annoying- of course the “mom” in me is worried something happened to him.

Just wondering if 30 minutes is too soon, should I wait?

Bumping this one more time to see if anyone has had any recent contact. 
 

thanks!!