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Not Connected at All Why not? As I am now firmly considered 'middle aged' (48yo - the gay elderly years), I look at things like Instagram and the 'gay press' and feel no connection to being gay anymore. Gay bars and clubs, if even still in business, have lost their appeal. Dating at this age, mostly feels a competition for consolation prizes. Where do we derive our 'gay identity' from anymore? I feel adrift. Part of me feels like it is too late. I always felt ostracized by the 'mean girl body fascists' in the large cities I lived in my gay youth - DC, Philly, SF, NYC. Looking down the road to my 50s, 60s, and hopefully 70s, I have a sense of fear and dread being alone or relying on my straight relatives for companionship. I'm coming off of a COVID 16 months of living with Mom in rural NC and its been wonderful connecting as an adult with her, but my return to the city looms. For the first time in my life, I'm moving to the far suburbs to give something new a try. It will be likely be harder to find other gay men, but I will give it my best try. I've read so many news stories about the epidemic of gay loneliness especially for gay Gen X men. I apologize for the melancholia here, but just searching for like souls. This forum is one of the few places, albeit small, where I find some connection still.

How 'connected' do you feel to the "LGBTQ+ Community"? Very Connected Connected Somewhat Connected Not Connected at All "I don't consider myself to be a member of the LGBTQ+ Community" Why or why not?

Who needs CBD when you can now use THC infused lube! https://www.siranaturals.org/purient-bedroom-cannabis I'm VERY curious to get high.... in the ass..... and I can't wait to hear the snark and teasing about getting high.... in the ass!

I will be PMing you for that RM ad.

I don't know about a rom-com, but I wish there were providers that would set up a great vacation getaway spot/private home where I could bring another provider / friend with benefits / fuck buddy / boyfriend / whatever and have a wild sex weekend without worrying that the owners are going to freak out that I spilled silicone lube on the mattress (which you can get out with baby shampoo by the way!). I've used two Airbnbs and the owners definitely 'telegraphed' that I should NOT be getting pounded while visiting. I started another thread about this in The Lounge I think. Someone recommended Misterbnb. I did check that out, but I wasn't sure if I should send an email to the listing owner - "Hi, can I rent your place so I can smoke weed and get fucked by a bunch of guys?". If I was comfortable with the listing owner, I don't care if they are in the next room....getting assumptive on whether they try to join.... let's keep those lines clearly drawn for now...... Sexbnb needs to be launched.....

https://rent.men/TommyColeXXL He's very sweet.....

I find that our community values bodies over faces. Just my opinion.

Yeap... I got one of those down.... the healthy eating.... but I have been very limited with lifting and cardio because of an ankle injury/surgery and torn rotator cuff/shoulder injury.... so we do what we can @azdr0710 !! I'm not asking for miracles here....

Any thought or feedback on which medical and/or cosmetic procedures are actually worth it? I'm coming off of 18 months of not doing much during COVID and feeling kind of down about my appearance. I have a ton of cash saved and some bonuses coming between now and March. I will spend some on boys, but thinking I should consider spending some on myself, literally. I've been a 5 year user of Botox and love it. This Mo will gettin' back his Bo next month. I'm curious about Sculpsure and liposuction to help me shed some of the COVID 19, pounds that is. Anything else you guys would recommend? Other facial procedures? Weight/fat loss help?

This thread has also inspired me to plan a three way with eyes on a four or five.... For the 3 or more scenario.....Don't think I want them all at once.... My favorite (and most caring guy) will be there the entire time watching over me and helping things along... the other tops will likely be two hour sessions overlapped so I have a constant supply of hard dick in both ends....one guy, two guys, three guys, two guys, one guy....Pyramid timing! Recovering from ankle surgery, moving back to the northeast in August has given me plenty of time to think and plan this! Thanks for the inspiration.

If you feel like this is a serious threat, get legal advice. https://money.usnews.com/money/personal-finance/articles/find-legal-help-when-you-cant-afford-a-lawyer Just ensure they are willing to extend Attorney-Client Privilege to your conversations, then you can tell them anything! Get advice on how to handle.

Thank you..... Who were the, ahem, shall we say the 'big boys' of the weekend? The hung ones?

Damn... gimmie.

Which one is Bentley?

Geezuz.... how do I get on the secret referral list?!?

https://rent.men/TallMuscle

Stop talking about politics here. Move it to the Politics thread. @RadioRob - Could you please close the thread?

TommyCole HungMatt CaliforniaBoi

https://rent.men/Quarterback_XXL

Sorry... what is the story with the marbles?

I'd like to see some hung ones too....

I've only done Airbnb a few times, and I feel like there is a shortage of SEX houses where I can come, stay, and not feel paranoid about pissing off a host. I like to smoke weed and have sex and would love to do it in a private space with amazing amenities!

https://rent.men/Dadstoy Currently in FL

Wow.... he even rented a LIMO BUS!? Wonder where they are going!? I can only imagine the bus driver..... 'WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?' Scratch that.... 'Out to the house'. My bad.

How's it going @Coolwave35? Enjoying yourself? Everyone enjoying? That hotel room and shower look amazing.