EastCoastBtm

https://rent.men/Exxxlenttop

I rented a place in VT summer of '20. Cameras all over the outside - some that could potentially see inside the windows. Just made me self-conscious and ruined a FwB weekend for me. A rural house to smoke outside would be ideal.

I've only done Airbnb a few times, and I feel like there is a shortage of SEX houses where I can come, stay, and not feel paranoid about pissing off a host. I like to smoke weed and have sex and would love to do it in a private space with amazing amenities! Send me a DM if you have a place or know someone who does.

Bumping.... If you have a house to rent... preferably, private, rural setting.... please DM me. I'd rather be upfront about what I will be doing in the house then keep it a secret!

And this may be a weird observation, but the picture in the bathroom mirror.... Look at the toothbrush in the lower left hand corner.... I may not be remembering correctly, but I don't think we had those fancy colors and tongue scrubber models back when I was a young 20-something in 1993. I want to keep my hopes alive that this guy is legit. Wish someone would take the plunge! @Hung_Cody - I'm talking to you.

Any recent experiences? BUMP. Coming to NYC in Feb.

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Since another thread referenced him coming out.... John Travolta was fuckin hot in 1985. He's still hot, but damn he was cute and could move his body. Damn. I stumbled upon this trippy EDM Music overlaid on to exercise scenes from the movie 'Perfect' with John Travolta and.... Jamie Lee Curtis? She look damn good too. That is some serious spandex she sportin'! I didn't realize.... The exercise class has some very sexy boys. I may develop an 80's look fetish. Those tight nylon shorts and white trimmed cotton shorts.... I grew up in small town Michigan and definitely missed this one in '85, but I was only 12!

Duh.

Definitely turned on by uniforms, super heroes but lately fascinated by what a gay society would have developed for religion in a polytheistic society. Who would we have worshipped....and how? I know there are real homosexual love and sex stories in most early religions, but there all still very hetero-centric! Imagine a mythology built around a gay Eros instead of bisexual Zeus..... I'm exploring, but feel free to share/direct to links. I used to love guys who wore black wings.... 'Fallen gods'.... WOOF. Thanks. Funny responses welcome as well.... I'm talking to you @Benjamin_Nicholas <wink>.

If you're comfortable discussing, please do....how does it work? It is exclusive or are there other semi-exclusive relationships..... doesn't have to be what you want or would be interested in....just situations you've seen, or heard about it.

It would appear that Scott is an 'Angel'!?

Happy Thanksgiving all... Holidays have become almost unbearable in the last few years. I'm approaching 50 and, other than my family, I feel utterly alone - no boyfriend, no friends. Holidays always bring out the worse feelings of loneliness and melancholy. I find myself ruminating on it to the point of tears. I have found it's worse than usual this year and think I need to do something about it. Does anyone have any gay male therapists either online or in person (that you could ask if they would be willing to offer online) that you could recommend? I really need to talk about gay sex, dating, body image, and other issues I feel like are best understood by someone from the 'community'. Feel free to DM if easier to talk about this in private or post resources in public. I live in the Philly suburbs if that matters. Thank you.

I just think he's a cutie.... https://www.instagram.com/dan_the_cobbler/ He's also a body builder for those who like that... https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCO03MD0T_Vv1cTf3rCWgT3Q

Cancelled my membership.... I don't think I have the financial minimum requirements for Seeking.

Is it ironic that I think that guy messaged me.....

OMG.... the memories.... this song, this video, JR's in DC..... video bars were such an important part of my gay youth.

XXL? 7.5c.... Mmmmm.....

I do think its interesting that we are talking appropriate terms to call each other and the sanctity of the word 'love' in context to what amounts to transaction based sex. Society has placed taboos on words like 'love' and that it should only be used in very rare cases. I think that is shortchanging the vast types of 'love' that exist out there. I have told some providers and hook-ups that I 'love them' (including the first time we have sex) in the context that - DAMN - these guys make me absolutely LOVE gay sex and remind me how much I love men. They are the rare reminders of why I love soooo many things about men - their bodies, their minds, their sexuality. Why not tell someone you 'love them' with appropriate context? I explain why I 'love' them and they LOVE it. If talking about forms of love in any relationship - providers, hook-ups, friends, friends with benefits, lovers, boyfriends, husbands, whatevers - enhances the experience (especially for the guy paying for it), I say use whatever terms you want and tell them you love them! ENJOY YOURSELF!

They can call Pope John Paul or whatever the hell they like if it makes them pound me that much harder! In all seriousness though.... I usually have a conversation with providers on how we refer to each other - in and out of where we fuck. I like tops who use 'terms of ownership' without being totally BDSM. I don't mind 'babe' if the vibe is right. And I have a top, younger than me, that calls me boy and it drives me WILD!

I saw someone else use 'BFE' as 'Body Fluid Exchange' and I was like... say whaaaaaaaaaaaaat? Is it Boyfriend Experience or am I just a complete dunce?

I'm just having AMAZING luck lately with awesome, talented, kind providers lately....its only two, but I definitely don't think I will be looking for anyone else for awhile........ With Gingerish It was other worldly for me. DM for details.

Bump - He apparently is back in NYC for the winter, or at least for the moment. Any recent experiences here?

Ensure mutual expectations on safe sex, drug use, behavior in public places, sexual dos and don'ts, and travel costs are conversations that happen BEFORE any meeting.