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    A reminder to clients: Be careful when in the company of companions

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    Damn... there's some preachy/judgey people on this forum!  Everything in moderation, but occasionally human beings do slip.  I can count on two fingers the times I have been 'sloppy drunk' and probably an embarrassment to the people I was with and obnoxious to those around me.  Over indulgence happens to some people some of the time; it doesn't mean everyone is an addict.

    In any relationship, friendship or commercial, if a person shows a pattern of negative substance behavior over time, they may be an 'addict'.  Whether you choose to tolerate it, try to help the person, or just walk away, is entirely up to you.

    I have found a great deal of irony in some of the contributor comments on the forum.  We're here, on a site, talking (mostly anonymously) about an illicit activity that society has deemed 'inappropriate' - the commercial sex trade - and people are getting sanctimonious about substance use?  Really?

    Addiction is no joke, but not all behavior is 'addictive behavior'.  Sometimes you just fuck it up, hopefully learn from it, and move on.

    A reminder to clients: Be careful when in the company of companions

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    A question for Providers - in the off chance you think things are so bad a client may require medical attention, what do you do?

    In my own paranoia, I get worried that something could happen to me and the guy just.... leaves me.

    I know the question will come....'What are you doing that could put yourself and that provider in such a position?'  I don't think anything, but I did have a couple incidents with marijuana usage as a data point.   

    I like to smoke weed with sex and if the vibe is right, like to hang with a provider who is a 'smart' weed user as well.  I smoked a vape cart once and it must have been REALLY strong and I ended up a paranoid mess.  To his credit, the non-pot smoker provider was a total angel.  He used pot in the past, had friends who use pot and knew just what to do.  He basically held me, distracted me, gave me water, took a shower with me, put on some relaxing music, gave me massage...within a couple of hours, I was fine and embarrassed.  I gave the provider a huge tip and he checked on me the next week.  He was amazing!  His attitude was - You told me up front you wanted to use weed, so I agree to take on some responsibility if things go poorly - Probably not the norm, but I was lucky.  He could have just left me there.

    Conversely, I was with a provider, we both used weed, and same thing happen, but the provider got super paranoid.  I ended up holding him, talking to him, ensuring him that I wouldn't let anything happen, I would take him to the emergency room if he was that worried, etc.   And again... within a couple of hours, we were both almost 100% sober and fine.

    I'm sure providers and clients both need to deal with occasional issues, not just substance excess issues, like emotionally unstable people.

    Is there an overarching message here?  When in doubt, if absolutely necessary, you're better off calling the ambulance, going to the emergency room, calling the police, etc.?

    Hints from Whore-elise: Cum/Lube stains on comforter

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    OK Gentlemen.... In my eagerness to consummate the end of my COVID sexual sabbatical, I forgot to pull back my brand new, flax/linen, hand sewn comforter before we...ahem...got busy.  Needless to say I have 'marked' my new comforter with cum and spilled a little silicone lube on it.

    The label says 'DRY CLEAN ONLY' - I'd rather not.  I used to remove silicone lube using baby shampoo.

    Any resident 'Whore-elises' who can offer a suggestion on how to clean? I'm thinking putting the comforter in the bathtub, use the shower sprayer attachment and spray the spot from behind with COLD water.  Then a little baby shampoo on the silicone lube spots.

    Thoughts? 

    Does a provider with a ton of OF/JFF content turn you off?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Its weird.  I like seeing a provider with a few videos on RM; its like a demonstration of skills.  Recently I've had a 'crush' on a few guys and stumbled on to their OF pages some with some hardcore kink that isn't my kind of kink.

    I know its a bit naive of me, but I guess I like a bit of mystery or the guys who lead 'double lives' - one kind of professional by day and a different by night.

    Yes, I know... its like sleeping with a 'classic' porn star in many ways - but I've never been with a porn star.  For any guy in a video, watching them take two fists up the ass just kills it for me in my desire to have them top me.  Also watching guys openly participate in PnP sex is a huge turn off. 

    I don't mean to be judgey here, just my personal preferences and curious how others feel about OF/JFF content in the context of a provider.

    Looking for the biggest cocks (monster's only)

    in The Deli

    Posted

    7 hours ago, Talented said:

    Only looked at the last couple of pages for what was most recent and my dick is bigger and nicer looking than any of these guys. I’m surprised there aren’t any really massive ones! Almost makes me want to come out of retirement to show you guys what a real man looks like 😉

    I volunteer Sir!

    Hung??

    in The Deli

    Posted

    5 minutes ago, Beancounter said:

    I totally get where you’re coming from.  I enjoy dicks of all sizes but when an exceptionally large dick presents itself I consider it a gift to be relished.  And I’ve said it before.....MidwestHungJock is huge.  Hopefully one day you’ll have the pleasure and satisfaction of experiencing him.  Really nice guy.  

    I'm seeing TommyColeXXL this weekend.  I think he can definitely scratch an itch.

    Hung??

    in The Deli

    Posted

    On 9/11/2021 at 5:50 PM, pubic_assistance said:

    Something I find strange about gay men is their obsession with penis dimensions. I have had guys hit me up on Grindr and after sharing a full body shot with my dick they still want to know "how big is that " ? Am I crazy or does that seem a bit weird to ask for dimensions when you're looking RIGHT AT IT !!

    Uh..... well.... damn this is going to sound like a know it all size queen...but what can I say, I like a big dick.

    Pictures may need context.... People use different angles to make it look bigger.  There is also the size - height/weight/build - of the person in question.  

    Case in point.... https://rent.men/MidwestHungJock - People doubted he was 10"+, but the guy is 6'6".  Just saying...

    As for obsessed with penis size, yea... for me it's a definite fetish.... sorry for being stereotypical.  I also have had several experiences where I have cum without touching myself while getting fucked.... and almost all of those were with a bigger dick.  Could be mental or could be bigger dicks have more real estate to hit that prostate - but I know what I like. 

    People get very judgey about this.... fascinating.... when those same people discriminate on age, build, race, masc/fem and hundreds of other factors.

    Weed and sex..... any recommendations?

    in Men's Health

    Posted

    I'm more intrigued by the store in Great Barrington - https://letsrebelle.com/.  Also currently staying in northern CT and MA is a short drive.  I don't think NY has recreational yet.

    @lonely_john - Thank you!  That is some of the most comprehensive advice I have gotten!  I agree the bud is best, but I live in an apartment with a super uptight management company and I am worried about the smoke smell.  They apparently have terminated leases over weed.

    Probably go for vapes and gummies.  Rebelle looks like they have quality vapes.

    Maybe tinctures are the way to go?

    Thank you again for the advice!

     

    TS/CD/Fembois - When did this become such a thing?

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    Over the last year, I feel like there has been an explosion of top guys on hook-up apps (e.g., Grindr) exclusively looking for TS/CD/Fembois.  Maybe I didn't notice it before?  Maybe because I am spending more time in very rural areas vs gay ghettos?  Or I am missing something?

    As an older, mature gay bottom, it feels like I have less and less choices and more and more tops that aren't interested in my demographic.  Part of the doom of being a bottom in a world of bottoms - another reason for tops not to be interested.

    And nothing against TS/CD/Fembois.... everybody should have the opportunity to get what makes them happy and satisfied.

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