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He will not necessarily tell you the truth, but I think it's completely fine asking if another person has been vaccinated. We have lived in a pandemia, it is getting better, but still people die every day. Also, you have to take care of yourself, family members, and people you care and hang out with.

Yes, I would but it depends the situation. I would have to have some connection with my client. I was "invited" to quit and move in with a client whom I've never met before. I just think that it was a little weird. We had only video chatted but never met since we live in different states. He got upset because I said "no."

I rather get cash but not a big deal with the client prefers to pay using venmo, cashapp, or Zelle.

I only stop replying to clients who are rude to me. I reply to every single message and I'm cool with chatting with anyone even if he's not planning on meeting soon. But once they do not respect my time or me, then it's over.

That has never happened to me. I only take payments at the end of our time (unless I'm driving more than an hr and have never met the client before - which I ask for an advance). I think one of the reasons why I have had only good experiences is because I always try to chat and get to know clients before meeting. This way, we can get more comfortable with each other and I can also set expectations. I let them know my limits, so this way they also know what they can expect from me.

12 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

You have a rational, empathetic and approachable character in how you express yourself

Thank you! I appreciate the words.

I always bring an extra pair of clothes ,extra underwear, a towel, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, cologne, condoms, and lube. 

I have never contacted another provider regarding a client who messaged me or wants to meet me. However, it does help me so much to know what he likes and the type of guy he is attracted to seeing/reading his reviews. But I would never contact a provider to ask such questions. Every single meeting/relationship should be considered particular and I really respect discretion.

The overnight hours really depend on the provider you are hiring. I have seen providers stating 8 hrs as considered overnight, etc. For me, an overnight start anytime in the evening and goes until the next morning. I am not a clock watcher. The dinner will depend on what time you two are meeting. If you are meeting before 8pm, I would check with your provider the dinner options. After 8pm, I always expect that my client has already had dinner. But anyway, I was talk to my client in advance to set expectations from both. About the fun time before, during and after bed time, there's no right answer to that. I am okay with all of them. Just make sure your provider has a good amount of sleep and check with him if he does have a regular job and what time he needs to be up the next day. I work for myself and remotely, so I never have the problem but it is always nice to check with them.

Please feel free to message me if you have any questions. I am new to this but trying to share the little knowledge and the stories I have heard from my clients.

Honestly, I think things like this will always happen. It will happen in this type of business and will happen in any other type of business. It can be annoying sometimes but remember "good customer service" drives more clients. I have got calls and messages 2am, 3am, 5am, etc. At that time, I was sleeping and never saw the calls or texts because I leave my phone on mute. I do not meet clients in the last minute. I need notice but I also understand that guys might just get "excited" at unplanned times and that's why they contact us. What it really bothers me, it is the fact that some clients are not considerate. They message or call you, they think their time is valuable, but sometimes they do not care about cancelling appointments without notice or simply not messaging at all. But this is 10% of the business. We have to focus on the 90%. 

Hopefully, I helped the post somehow.

A tip is something very nice and it shows the client really enjoyed our time together, at least it is what I think. It does not mean that the clients who do not tip do not enjoy the time together. However, the favorites clients are going to be the ones who are very sweet, kind, understanding, and the ones who care about the provider also having a great time. 

Gabriel Macht from Suits!

If you feel somehow uncomfortable with your weight, I suggest to be upfront with the provider and see how he reacts about it. If he is not okay with your weight, he is not worth your time. As a provider, I would never reject a client because of his weight. The things I expect from a client are respect, politeness, good hygiene, and being std clean.

On 5/26/2021 at 5:09 PM, Unicorn said:

I'm sure some of us are wondering how the weekend went, assuming it's happened?

Good morning, guys! Sorry I did not get back to you all before but as soon as I came back from the trip, I spent almost 2 weeks packing and just finished unpacking. I moved from one city to another. I am glad everything is fine now.

Yes, the trip happened and it was amazing. I was in Chicago for 5 days, loved the city, and everything. I used the advices you guys gave and thankfully everything went well. We spent some quality time together and also had our private times too. We did a lot of tour in the city, went to restaurants, etc. 

Again, thank you all for your time and kindness. You guys helped me soo much. And again, sorry for my delayed response.

Manchester City was on TV this weekend. I like Sergio Aguero.❤

I also follow LA Galaxy and Portland Timbers.

Yes, they lost to Chelsea but they will play the UEFA Champions league final on 5/29. Kevin DeBruyne is my guy!

I don't understand it or most other sports. But all of them seem to have lovely legs and are very athletic and the rugby folks seem to show their butts quite often.

 

I think I only know one soccer player by name-Maradonna -not Madonna!

Haha Maradonna was a great Argentinian player. Probably top 5 of all time. Pele, the Brazilian one, is considered the king!

I watch some soccer but more as an 'event' than for love of the game. I will watch world cup games on TV even at odd hours of the morning, something that's inevitable in this time zone most times, but I don't watch the A League games on free to air TV here (it's the national competition in Australia). I have been to an Australia game against France here one year, and in what is probably one of my most memorable sporting experiences I was at the final qualifying game Australia played in 2005 for the 2006 world cup. It was in the days when Australia was in the Oceania confederation and had to play the fifth placed team in South America for a place. We had lost 1-0 to Uruguay in Montevideo and after extra time in Sydney we were ahead 1-0 so the for and against had us level, and it went to penalties. I have never seen an explosion of joy, both on and off the field such as there was when John Aloiso kicked the decisive penalty that saw us qualify for 2006.

Oh nice! I do remember that game actually! I do watch it because I like the match event but also because I love soccer, especially when are good teams and players on the field.

I’ve flown escorts I’ve met to meet me for two days

I’ve also flown some to Vegas to meet me

 

overall its been great

 

trust the wisdom of the input you have above.

Thank you for taking your time to share your experience. I will definitely use many of the advices I got on here.

Hey OP!

 

Most of my trips to a client have been preceded by an interaction; either him visiting my area and staying in a hotel or me heading out there and staying in a spot of my own. For both the client and I, it gave us a bit of time to get to know our likes, dislikes and ironically it always led to talks and follow-through for another interaction.

 

I hope your trip goes well! ?

Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate it!

If I'm with a man for a long hire, I don't expect him to turn off his phone, just avoid answering it or texting while we're together, especially if we're at a meal or at shows. I like to be considerate of my man and realize he has a life. But if he texts while we're conversing or eating, he better offer a very good explanation of the nature of the emergency.

I agree with you 100%. I never ever text or do anything on my phone while I am eating or having a conversation with someone. I think it shows respect and that you are interested in the person. Thank you for your reply!

What about Peter Pan Airlines?

Right?? ??

I flew a fellow into Boston once. We’d never met but had chatted on AOL for five years. It was the second weekend of Brokeback Mountain. I last saw him in 2009.

 

He later met someone in the same medical field as myself. They are now happily married.

 

Long term communication isn’t always the answer. I had gotten into phone conversations with younger fellow for several months and I drove down to Jersey during Thanksgiving. We absolutely failed to hit it off in person.

 

Just an aside: A couple of years ago I went to Australia and New Zealand. I managed to get two First Class tickets on Emirates from Sydney to Christchurch on Credit card points alone.

Thank you for sharing your experience. I have been helped a lot on here. I am so much more comfortable about the trip.

Love Chick-Fil-A but refuse to eat there due to their homophobic owner. Same with eating at Papa Johns.

I respect your opinion!

I've never flown anyone in but I am curious what m

 

One plus about flying in economy is it's easier to cuddle!!!

It will be my first experience and I am excited about it. Haha you're right about that. Cuddles on the plane ? ?

If I am flying on the same flight as the companion; I will fly them the same class I am flying in. My own personal preference...

I like that. This way we can have some time together on the plane.