seattlebottom

At the risk of returning to the topic... Quite an ordeal you had. Your trauma is real. And your body, finances, identity, and home are intact - so, now you have some time to heal, which ideally won't include any sexual partners until you feel you've addressed the trauma. 
If you can't host, and the provider can't host, consider the inquiry closed. Small market? Once every couple months, get yourself a hotel room in a big city to give you better options for hiring your type, in or out.
Only you can know what lessons to take away - both from the evening, and disclosure here. Best of luck. 

Come on. We both know what “thug” means in this context. It’s a racialized term. If the client said he wanted a “dom” or “rope daddy”, no one would he blaming his provider’s description for his encounter being bad. 

Gosh, these poor guys look like they've been in concentration camps.  Hopefully they're getting proper medical care.

You wrote: 
This is essentially blaming the client for the provider being abusive. "Roughed up" refers to physical violence, not psychological distress. 
Just a moment...
WWW.COLLINSDICTIONARY.COM Since you feel that hiring a "thug" means you should expect to get roughed up, I suggested a common, less racialized type that escorts advertise as, which, if followed to your conclusion, would suggest the client is looking to be sexually assaulted. This is all pretty basic analysis. 

Speaking of reality. The OP never said he was "roughed up." Many escorts identify as "doms," "daddies," "frat bros," or other role-play characters, where "thug" can also sit comfortably as part of a client's fantasy. Lots of women get raped and assaulted by Fraternity bros. So if I hire someone who advertises as a college guy, frat type do I deserve to get roofied and raped? 

I'll keep this post in my next time you vilify a religion, country of origin or race like you've done before.
 

This sounds like something the Phillies Karen would say. 🤔

This sounds like something the Phillies Karen would say. 🤔

This sounds like something the Phillies Karen would say. 🤔

Clear urine doesn't mean that no blood is present.  I've had a few kidney stones in my day and the urine samples contained blood even when the sample looked clear.

Just stay away. You should avoid creating trouble or causing issues in places that are important to you, such as your workplace. It's about maintaining boundaries and respecting the environments where you work to avoid potential conflicts and negative consequences. In other words, keep your professional and personal spaces separate and free of unnecessary drama or complications to ensure they remain pleasant and functional.

Was that a real person?  The interaction seems mechanical. 

Maybe they're reporting their height with shoes on?

I hired him for Memorial Day.  Nice guy, talked a lot about himself.  He asked that the lights be dimmed while he watched female chaturbate models.  Thick dick, stayed hard throughout.   Seemed to really get into it and gave a really good performance.  Asked for Uber to get to me which I obliged.  Although straight, I didn't find him obnoxious about it.

I hired him for Memorial Day.  Nice guy, talked a lot about himself.  He asked that the lights be dimmed while he watched female chaturbate models.  Thick dick, stayed hard throughout.   Seemed to really get into it and gave a really good performance.  Asked for Uber to get to me which I obliged.  Although straight, I didn't find him obnoxious about it.

https://youtu.be/0bGLrypcsjo?si=VOPWSpqw5Me_2QMD

I met Sirock_twelve.
 
Pros: He’s very handsome with an incredible body, all his pics are real and reflect his current appearance. Market rate for L.A. Doesn’t ask for a pic, a deposit or an Uber (unlike many of his peers). Performs well, great kisser. Huge endowment though not as girthy as some of the absolute biggest currently active providers (BigRansom, Malik_XXL). Seemed like a smart, shy type, which for me is 😍.
Con: short-changed me for time, entire session lasted 30 minutes from hello to good-bye, with maybe 20 minutes of action. 
 
Probably won’t hire again given the con.

I was sore once in 2005 with Juan from Vancouver, but that man had a fat cock and it was a good kind of sore.

IDK whether or not you are racist, but this statement is racist in so many levels. I have to leave it there, as we cannot discuss these topics.

I was sore once in 2005 with Juan from Vancouver, but that man had a fat cock and it was a good kind of sore.

This is a product of Japan being primarily Japanese. Virtually no poor immigrant class.
Exactly the kind of social environment that some people in the US call for ..and are being told they are racist for wanting lower crime rates.
 

Despite being a naturalized citizen for 34 years, that doesn't seem to mean much in today's America.  If I'm to be deported back to Chile I'd be more than happy to go back.  I'd pick either Vina del Mar or Santiago or Antofogasta.

The butterfly effect.
Let's tear it apart, and see where the pieces land.
Every stock I own, was puchased during a "bad downturn". Every piece of real estate I own, was snagged at the bottom of a market shift.
The best time to buy is when everyone's telling you it's the worst time.

Yesterday’s events in Washington showed how uncoordinated the Administration is on the tariff issue with various officials saying different things at the same time. I call that unplanned chaos. 

And you KNOW this how ?
Friends with Scott Bessent ?
Need I remind you that if it weren't for the valleys in the market, there would be no opportunity for investors to jump in. Every few years, the powers-that-be manipulate the market and scare away the amateurs.