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    Swazca got a reaction from carp86 in Setting up a meet or appointment   
    Really? @xyz48B 
    Stop with the victim card.  With hundreds and thousands of other escorts out there who would gladly take your cash — why are you self-loathing and wasting energy on this one escort in particular?  Does he remind you specifics of a boy you had your sights set on from your youth?  Just move on from him.  He obviously doesn’t want or need the business.  
     
    As any other savvy consumers would do — move on and ask someone else.  You’re wasting your time and good energy; not to mention reaching for the opinion of various clients on here who are a vast diverse group of personalities who are so different, you will never achieve a unanimous vote of approval for how you should or should not have approached this situation.  
    Personally I don’t believe there is a right or wrong way to ask for the services of an escort or masseur.  I ask, lay out a specific — if they respond, they respond.  If they don’t respond I chock it up to them not wanting the business and find someone else.  It’s not worth my time and energy letting them have free rent in my head as to why they didn’t respond.  Not everyone thinks alike.  
     
    In the end we receive what we project out to the universe.  If you want your Grindr or Rent.men experiences you start off bad then you’ll attract that.  
     
    But don’t ever let someone steal your energy over a one worded response.  It is not worth your time!  
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    Swazca got a reaction from carp86 in Setting up a meet or appointment   
    My two cents (For whatever it’s worth…)
    You point out a straight offer of a wanted BFE, then tell him you want a [dominant] top and wrap up with asking for a price estimate.  Not a provider here, just another paying client; but, I wouldn’t know how to respond either.  
    Perhaps being more concise about what you expect out of three days.  Nights out doing what? The entire weekend fucking? Out of town trip? Daytime excursions?  Does he get some off time within 72-hours?  
    He know zero about you.  If you’re in town, our of town, a description of what you look like.  If he’s a young escort starting out he may not know to ask these thing so you need to take the lead.  I think it is much easier to ask for longer periods of time with someone you’ve met and been with rather than ask this of someone new and new to the profession.
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    Swazca got a reaction from + Pensant in Setting up a meet or appointment   
    My two cents (For whatever it’s worth…)
    You point out a straight offer of a wanted BFE, then tell him you want a [dominant] top and wrap up with asking for a price estimate.  Not a provider here, just another paying client; but, I wouldn’t know how to respond either.  
    Perhaps being more concise about what you expect out of three days.  Nights out doing what? The entire weekend fucking? Out of town trip? Daytime excursions?  Does he get some off time within 72-hours?  
    He know zero about you.  If you’re in town, our of town, a description of what you look like.  If he’s a young escort starting out he may not know to ask these thing so you need to take the lead.  I think it is much easier to ask for longer periods of time with someone you’ve met and been with rather than ask this of someone new and new to the profession.
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    Swazca got a reaction from rn901 in Setting up a meet or appointment   
    My two cents (For whatever it’s worth…)
    You point out a straight offer of a wanted BFE, then tell him you want a [dominant] top and wrap up with asking for a price estimate.  Not a provider here, just another paying client; but, I wouldn’t know how to respond either.  
    Perhaps being more concise about what you expect out of three days.  Nights out doing what? The entire weekend fucking? Out of town trip? Daytime excursions?  Does he get some off time within 72-hours?  
    He know zero about you.  If you’re in town, our of town, a description of what you look like.  If he’s a young escort starting out he may not know to ask these thing so you need to take the lead.  I think it is much easier to ask for longer periods of time with someone you’ve met and been with rather than ask this of someone new and new to the profession.
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    Swazca got a reaction from MscleLovr in Setting up a meet or appointment   
    My two cents (For whatever it’s worth…)
    You point out a straight offer of a wanted BFE, then tell him you want a [dominant] top and wrap up with asking for a price estimate.  Not a provider here, just another paying client; but, I wouldn’t know how to respond either.  
    Perhaps being more concise about what you expect out of three days.  Nights out doing what? The entire weekend fucking? Out of town trip? Daytime excursions?  Does he get some off time within 72-hours?  
    He know zero about you.  If you’re in town, our of town, a description of what you look like.  If he’s a young escort starting out he may not know to ask these thing so you need to take the lead.  I think it is much easier to ask for longer periods of time with someone you’ve met and been with rather than ask this of someone new and new to the profession.
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    Swazca reacted to expensible in Mr.Big(NYC)   
    Tried him out a month ago and it was pretty good. His massage was strong and he was very attractive in person. Extras did cost me a bit but it was worth a try. 
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    Swazca got a reaction from GTMike in Mr.Big(NYC)   
    Saw him when he visited Phoenix.  He actually does know what’s he’s doing with the massage work.  He does do extras and they do cost, seems that his bad reviews may be due to the added charges, but that’s to be expected and not cried about when revealed.  Communication is key with any provider. 
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    Swazca got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Mr.Big(NYC)   
    Saw him when he visited Phoenix.  He actually does know what’s he’s doing with the massage work.  He does do extras and they do cost, seems that his bad reviews may be due to the added charges, but that’s to be expected and not cried about when revealed.  Communication is key with any provider. 
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    Swazca reacted to + sam.fitzpatrick in Mr.Big(NYC)   
    (Please read in the sarcastic tone intended.  😉)
    What?  Certified massage therapists are celibate?  
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    Swazca got a reaction from harlow in Suggestions for Phoenix   
    Yes
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    Swazca got a reaction from shay in Suggestions for Phoenix   
    https://rentmasseur.com/Omrii
     
    Very warm and personable.  Clean studio.  Looks amazing.
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    Swazca reacted to Uwsguy8 in Suggestions for Phoenix   
    Was there extras? mT? 
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    Swazca got a reaction from + SK in SD in 411 on Joey_Austin in San Diego   
    He’s visiting Phoenix, glad I saw these.  Spared myself a few bucks to save on someone else.
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    Swazca reacted to + 7829V in 411 on Joey_Austin in San Diego   
    Looks like his pics. Good hands for massage. Used table. Makes a good effort, but clearly he’s not trained. Didn’t enjoy the massage overall. Some fun elements. But will not repeat. In my opinion better experiences out there at lower price points. Based on my experience cannot recommend.
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    Swazca got a reaction from jojolaca in Con artist beware!   
    For someone who supposedly had positive reviews had to reinvent himself as:  https://rentmasseur.com/JCMassageVisitor 
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    Swazca got a reaction from + Lucky in Con artist beware!   
    For someone who supposedly had positive reviews had to reinvent himself as:  https://rentmasseur.com/JCMassageVisitor 
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    Swazca reacted to BeefyDude in Masseurs soliciting on Grindr   
    WARNING:   MOST grinder massages are SCAMS
    They are not the real pics.  *IF* you book they send you a link for a "reservation" which I believe requires a credit card#
    Be careful with them
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    Swazca reacted to Chance in 411 - ERICCHARMMING. NYC.   
    Why not just go for it and use a crib as a reference 🤦‍♂️
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    Swazca reacted to Skip in 411 - ERICCHARMMING. NYC.   
    Do you pick him up at middle school or does he take the bus ? 
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    Swazca reacted to + Axiom2001 in Jake Ryan Straight 9" $1,500/hr   
    "Straight" does NOT interest me at all.  And at that requested fee?  Hell no, for sure.  I'd have four gay escorts to the tune of $300+ per hour before I would fork out what this supposedly straight guy's fee request.
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    Swazca got a reaction from Dr.Daddy in LorenzoCruz in San Diego   
    He’s one of my best experience. His pictures do him no justice. So much hotter in person. Worth every cent!
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    Swazca got a reaction from + EVdude in Can someone please offer me some (CRUSH) advice   
    Continue to find and try out other providers. Also, you should get out and date too. Remember you’re someone’s flavor.
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    Swazca reacted to Sidnerf in Can someone please offer me some (CRUSH) advice   
    I love that "REMEMBER YOU'RE SOMEONE'S FLAVOR"!!! Would love to meet someone. I think as the weather gets nicer and more things open up, it'll be easier to get out and meet. Thank you for your comment.
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    Swazca got a reaction from Redwine56 in Can someone please offer me some (CRUSH) advice   
    Continue to find and try out other providers. Also, you should get out and date too. Remember you’re someone’s flavor.
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    Swazca reacted to + glutes in LorenzoCruz in San Diego   
    He opened his private pics to me on RM, he's quite the POW. (Piece of Work)
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