italianboyph

I think my only pet peeve is the flakiness and games that come with this.

Yes, but it can also be turned off.
You can also see if someone read your message with the double checks

Some might, but I've never ask for pics for the simple reason is a lot of men lien privacy and discretion, which I completely understand 

@purplekow That's a wonderful idea! I recall you know maturedmuscle who is in DC quite well, but he won't travel to the West Coast. If he is someone you can convince to join us in the celebrations, then I look forward to booking a session with him. As well as any other escorts you manage to convince to come.

I'm looking forward to renewing old friendships and starting some new ones next month. I've made twin Faustian bargains with Qantas and Inndulge for the weekend and can't wait to be on my way.
Thankfully, after hearing horror stories about Qantas shunting travellers to a different, higher priced page when attempting to redeem travel credits, I had no such problems. My credit from my aborted 2020 PSP flights was accepted seamlessly, and at face value, towards my trip this time.

I'm seeing younger clients do this....another reason I'm preferring, more and more, escorts who are at least 30 years old.
A few months ago, I hired some kid and we agreed to his price. When the appointment time came, he started whining, like a little baby, that he "deserved to see a picture of the man he was meeting."
I cancelled on the spot.

Some might, but I've never ask for pics for the simple reason is a lot of men lien privacy and discretion, which I completely understand 

Some might, but I've never ask for pics for the simple reason is a lot of men lien privacy and discretion, which I completely understand 

Once again I will be throwing my early bird Pool party stay tuned for details or just show up at my place on friday it will be a great time 
xo D

Just be honest and upfront about your desires that you wanna do with him, nothing wrong with that. 

Please mark your calendars for the Weekend – April 15, 16 and 17, 2023.  Specifics will not be posted here, in order to preserve confidentiality.  Therefore, if you are serious about attending this year’s events, please send an e-mail to me (if you know my address) or a “private message” with your return e-mail address so that I may send you the pertinent information as it unfolds.  Your confidential information will be respected, as I expect mine to be.
The first order of business will be Saturday dinner reservations at a local contemporary restaurant, followed by RSVP’s for the Sunday pool gathering at my temporary residence, followed by Monday morning reservations at a local popular breakfast restaurant.  You may prepay the dinner fee and the breakfast fee prior to the event via either PayPal or Venmo.
If you will be bringing a “guest”, please tell me who. That information will also be kept confidential, unless you say otherwise. Attendance by escorts (by themselves or as someone's guest) is greatly encouraged.
 
If you will be coming from out-of-town and need accommodations, you should arrange for those ASAP, if you have not already. There have been several suggestions put forth in previous threads concerning possible accommodations.

Again, the dinner will be early Saturday evening, April 15, the pool gathering will be in the afternoon of Sunday, April 16, and the breakfast will be Monday morning, April 17.

If you have any questions, please ask in your e-mail or message.  I look forward to renewing acquaintances and meeting new ones!  Come and enjoy!☺️
 

Just be honest and upfront about your desires that you wanna do with him, nothing wrong with that. 

Just be honest and upfront about your desires that you wanna do with him, nothing wrong with that. 

Just be honest and upfront about your desires that you wanna do with him, nothing wrong with that. 

Hey - I haven't hired an escort yet, but plan to mainly bc i legit want someone whi can get into dad roleplay - intense/love and all with verbal, eye contact and all and let me go down apath of this fantasy and all. Hard to find this description on the sites but thought id see if anyone knew anyone specific. Doesnt have to be a certain age (tho, I'm 40) so its more abt energy and all

Most if not all the clients are older men, if someone has hang ups on age then they shouldn't be doing this. 

I agree. It’s nice to know what they look like currently. Sometimes asking a provider a question like this signals (inadvertently) that you may not hire them if they answer the question in one way or another that doesn’t align with your preferences. It’s almost better to not have the contact at all than to hear directly from someone in so many words: “I would hire you if you looked x way right now, but you don’t, so I’m telling you directly to your face that you don’t get my business”. It’s kind of cruel, to be dramatic about it. At the very least it’s frustrating or annoying.
The best providers develop a thick skin. When this happens, I say to myself ‘whatever’ and move on. I can’t change myself for one client, for one appointment, so oh well, their loss. I stopped caring about it so much and it’s been freeing.
It’s tough. A provider can’t be all things at all times to all people. One day he may be shaved or trimmed, another naturally hairy. When you ask, it may help diffuse that bomb by mentioning that you’re just curious and that it’s not a dealbreaker.
If it IS a dealbreaker for the client, that unfortunately aligns with many other typical conversations that end up where the client isn’t interested based on the response. Clients should know and it’s ok to ask, and it’s ok to have the preference. It’s even ok to not hire based on the response.
From a provider’s perspective, it’s damned if you shave, damned if you don’t. The next client wants the opposite, the following client doesn’t care, and the following client after that prefers the reverse. That feeling of frustration is probably what set him off. True, he could have handled it much better, but reassuring the provider can help, especially if it’s not a total dealbreaker for you.
In general, I recommend providers pick a lane. Be naturally hairy, or be groomed in a certain way to establish your look, which is part of your brand. That way clients know what to expect and you attract the ones who like your look, whatever it is. Unfortunately you miss out on the clients who prefer the opposite, but that’s part of the biz. People are fickle and they have preferences, no matter how shallow or seemingly insignificant in comparison to other arguably more important factors that make a great provider. 

I don't think it's offensive to ask if they're shaved or natural, especially if they're presenting themselves in different ways. If someone is hairy in their pics and they show up completely smooth/shaved, when you're expecting them to be hairy, you'd be disappointed. 

I think when it comes to bottoming it always just depends on your body and how it's going that day.

That’s my thinking too - but apparently it wasn’t how one provider at least saw it 🤷🏼‍♂️ 

I don't think it's offensive to ask if they're shaved or natural, especially if they're presenting themselves in different ways. If someone is hairy in their pics and they show up completely smooth/shaved, when you're expecting them to be hairy, you'd be disappointed. 

That would be a big fat no to all of that from me - most especially shaving that body of yours! 😜

I’ve had “clients” straight up message me and tell me to shave everything and to hit the gym harder to get a six pack, that way I’ll get hired more often. I had another guy today messaging me to tell me to shave my beard cause men shouldn’t have those germ traps on their face. 😂😂

Thank you. And no I didn't

Thank you. And no I didn't