KensingtonHomo

This is pedantry. Most doctors will charge you for a missed appointment if you don’t cancel with sufficient notice, same for dentists. Electricians, landscapers, etc, are coming to your house. So if you don’t pay, they don’t do the work. They’re not sitting in a hotel waiting for you to show up. if you were to do extensive landscaping work, remodeling your home, etc, you would likely pay a deposit before work begins. You would also have a contract. if you don’t want to send a deposit to a new provider, then don’t. But if I were in their business, I’d probably insist on it.

He’s vaccinated and boosted as am I. So it didn’t come up.

I will join the minority of client opinions here in saying to ask for a deposit. Even if it's $25. While I realize some clients want extreme anonymity, those who don't need or want that shouldn't have a problem with a small deposit. We put deposits down for services all the time outside of escort work. If we're seeing someone for the first time, sometimes we even offer. That makes me feel like we've secured the time. Generally, once we've met a provider they do not ask for a deposit again.

He was great. Exactly as I remembered. He said he's not planning to run his ads all the time but if you've been a previous client, keep his number. I know I will.

Seeing him today. I haven't seen him since pre-COVID. He's always been a favorite.

"The typical gay lisp?" Maybe you're lonely because you have internalized homophobia. JFC, femme phobia in this day and age.

I have zero desire to pay a straight man so I can "service" him. If that's your thing, great. But I remember when I was in my 20s I had a bunch of friends who were into "turning" straight guys and it always blew my mind. I want to be desired or at least be convinced I'm desired. LOL

Here are some of my faves. A couple are vers but I'm a bottom so it's based on my experience of them as tops. https://rent.men/Dominus (lives in DC but in NYC frequently) https://rent.men/NYWolfman (great in bed and awesome guy) https://rent.men/drtynycman https://rent.men/TommyColeXXL

Yes. And I understand that some clients are uncomfortable so this is just my own way of handling it, but I don’t want it to be taken as me saying everyone should.

As a client, I offer to send a G-rated pic. Some providers like that. I feel like it’s only fair. Plus my husband and I hire together for massage and other things. We prefer to host so I like to give providers a sense of who we are. I’m a sexual assault survivor. I think the idea that an escort is entering the home of two men could be anxiety provoking. I realize not everyone has the ability to be this forthright. But since I am able, I like to do it.

I co-sign Samy. He’s really hot and skilled and very sensual.

I saw in in P-Town last summer. He's a bit older than his pics, but very fit. The massage was entirely therapeutic, no extras. It was good.

DM Me.

I saw Jordan tonight and he’s wonderful. He’s much better looking in person, leaner, beautiful upper body with gorgeous tattoos. Great massage skills with lots of body contact. He does a great job of blending the massage with sensuality so it’s seamless and not like massage then HE. He’s very welcoming and a nice guy. Just great energy and engaged with me throughout. I know some people think $200 is too high but I’ve had less engaging and less skilled for more. I definitely recommend. DM if you want more details.

Yes. It's a visa thing. He can only be here for so long without returning to Brazil.

This was my experience too. I was waiting for it to "go there" but it never did. Maybe he only goes there with people he finds attractive. I think that's understandable but I wouldn't advertise as "sensual" or "erotic."

Do you make appointments for this place or just show up? I haven't been to one of these in the US before.

He was just "meh" for me. I think I found the "extras" to be not what I enjoy, so he's off my list.

We met Kai yesterday. He did look exactly like his photos, kind of a Baldwin brother vibe. His body is ridiculous. Kai was very kind and welcoming. Very adept at all the things we like. In terms of the "weird" vibe. he just has a very deadpan sense of humor, which I generally appreciate. But if you don't realize he's kidding, I can see it coming off a bit odd. If we see him again, we'd probably have him over to ours. We couldn't this weekend. DM if you want more details.

We've considered him. Didn't realize he was charging that much. I agree that he's not exactly a 9 or 10 but he's a certain type of white boy that some guys are into.

Hey Friends, We're considering hiring Kai Johnson: https://rent.men/KaiJohnson. He has some good reviews on RM and we (a top/bottom couple) love us a vers guy. I'm curious if others have had the pleasure. Feel free to DM me if you have "gory" details. I did a search but couldn't find anything.

My ass is nicer than that and I'm twice his age.

Saw him and his boyfriend today for a 4-handed erotic massage. They’re very sweet and handsome. The massage is like a B if you like it strong, and they’re all over you. Lots of body contact. Lots of fun MT and HE. His place in HK was a bit tight but very clean.

What's an SA provider? You can private message me if it's "no go" word.

That's close to me too. I haven't been to one of these in the US yet. Is it accepted that men will fuck around? I don't know the culture.