KensingtonHomo

No, you chose to differentiate in order to suggest trans women are actually men, which is a) not true and b) really awful coming from what I assume is a queer person.

Good looking is subjective. I have friends falling over for 23 year old twunks and I'm over here like "What's Christopher Meloni in these days?"

Oh really? I guess some people do. For us, it's really more about convenience. We can meet guys on Grindr or Scruff, but it's a bit more difficult for a couple. Some guys aren't into it. Some guys are only into one of us. And some guys are offended by the idea of a couple of who plays together. Hiring eliminates all of those issues and probably saves hours of scrolling and "sup?" conversations. And as a couple in our 40s, we get approached a LOT by much younger men (18-25) who have a daddy fantasy, which really isn't our thing. We prefer 35 and up, as well as guys who can carry on a conversation. So there are a couple in NYC who are younger but they're like "old souls" or something.

Trans women are women. No need to differentiate.

Some people like a thick guy. I prefer a little thickness over 2% body fat.

I didn't claim 40% of people who get COVID are dying. I was responding to the claim it was the same as the common cold.

I have some guys who PM me about SS. I don't mind responding if they seem serious. But I always try to search the forum before I reach out.

The Delta variant was far more virulent and deadly than the Alpha strain. Omicron seems to be AS deadly to the unvaccinated as Alpha was, and it's far more transmissible. I'm vaccinated and boosted and had COVID-19 last month. It was certainly worse than a cold. The claim that COVID is moving inexorably toward being less virulent is just a narrative made up in the heads of people who want the pandemic to be over. It's not based in science at all. Also, 40% of all the people dying from COVID right now are vaccinated. The common cold doesn't kill 40% of the people who get it.

LOL, the "Orient." Is this 1870? Zoonotic diseases can and do emerge all over the globe. Falling for divisive claptrap from politicians does nothing to stop pandemics. It just prevents the majority of us from demanding better public health measures.

It has nothing to do with the number of people on the planet. Zoonotic viruses crossing over is due to humans entering spaces we don’t live; disrupting ecosystems; and climate change adds to that by disrupting migration patterns, deforestation ruining habitats, and bringing us into closer contact with bats, mammals, etc. The scientific consensus is quite clear.

There is no evidence that the virus is less deadly. The country is mostly vaccinated, which is what is making it less deadly. The virus is becoming more transmissible which - coupled with removing all the mitigation measures- is allowing the virus to mutate very rapidly. The next variant could be more virulent or not. It’s not sentient and doesn’t care what we want. The utter failure of western countries to properly manage this pandemic is a very bad precedent bc with climate change, we’re seeing more and more viruses jumping from animals to humans.

Also, it's Pride Month so the gays may be doing a little extra.

Ask yourself why you're asking this question. I sincerely doubt that any trans men on RM are trying to trick cis guys into hiring them. That would be potentially quite dangerous as cis people use transphobia to explain away their violence against trans people. This reads as a fear-mongering hypothetical to me, which is in particularly poor taste as trans people are facing unprecedented violence and political attacks across the country.

I wear nail polish at times. Having well-manicured nails is wonderful and should be encouraged. And if the polish puts you off, maybe examine your internalized misogyny and femme-phobia. Nothing irks me more than gay men policing other people's gender expression. If you're a man who fucks men, you've already crossed the Rubicon, so why not enjoy the perks.

We've mostly been getting $300-$350, but Montreal was cheaper before the exchange rate.

I'm good, boo. I was making a generic statement that most providers won't get into details over those mediums because of potential entrapment.

Yeah, "fool me once shame on you..."

Maybe it's that the first picture is of a double penetration, but their ad puts me off. It's just like "here's HUGE cocks" and relatively few pictures of them. And the text is very staccato.

We set a date with him when we were in Montreal last month and he flaked on us. After the set time, he responded to a text I had sent saying his roommate was having a crisis, and asking if he could come by when he was done helping him. You know, it's impossible to say whether or not that was true, but even if it were, he could have texted us to let us know he was unavailable or running late. It's a shame because we were really into him.

This is where communication is very important. If you're in the US, you have to keep in mind that most sex work is illegal in the US. So providers may be reticent to get into details over text or email. Read reviews or ask people who've seen providers about their experiences. Then, either by phone or when you arrive, talk to the provider and ask what to expect.

I'm not sure you can. I do think there are some younger guys - Nick Halden, Aaron Oaks, Southernjock in NYC - who don't rush. So I think it's a matter of choosing the right masseur.

Someone should have called me.

Not simply because i have tattoos, but I've always been surprised when they're a turn off. I can see if someone is covered in them but a few tasteful ones dont' even register for me. And my husband doesn't have any. I have four.

He's not muscular but fit and SUPER fun: https://rent.men/GingerBeard

I'm just a little younger than @Rod Hagen but my husband is older. For the most part we gravitate to providers in their 30s and 40s because we find them more attractive, more likely to have shared interests and references, and have mostly had great experiences. We've also had some good experiences with guys in their 20s but - also - most of our bad experiences were with younger guys. I think that the age gap has something to do with it, but also their relative lack of experience. With some. younger guys, it's like they have an erotic massage or sex script in mind, whereas older guys are more flexible, adaptable and in tune with us as clients. I don't know if we'll continue to see providers in our 60s and 70s but I would think so. We do try to stay in good shape and I see men at that age all the time that I find attractive. So, I think older man can and should expect good experiences.