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In 15 years of hiring, I have gotten taken twice: As per Aaron James' comment above, a loan (in this case only $120 for "school books") from an adorable twink turned out to be the last contact I had with him. A little scarier was a backpage hire. He wasn't delivering (wouldn't kiss, wouldn't bottom, wouldn't suck dick) so I called a halt to the session and asked him to leave. He asked for a towel; when I returned to my bedroom he was in a different part of the room and appeared to have been prying. I later discovered that he had gone into my dresser drawer and lifted about $250 in cash. Ever since then, I have been careful with first-time hires to hide the valuables and keep the guys in my sight at all times.

To be clear, I'm not saying anything re the OP's obligation with regard to the fee. I just think it ridiculous that some still delude themselves with the "you're only paying for his time" routine. That can be your response to the vice squad (good luck with that), but around here it lacks credibility.

Do we really need to trot out the "paying for time, not for sex" fiction yet again like some sort of blanket excuse? Yes, I know that there is a legal fiction that some like to stick to, but seriously it's just plain silly to put it forward on these pages as if it was in any way relevant. Does anyone in this forum truly believe that with all of the discussion of sexual positions, appearance/endowment, kiss or no, raw or sheathed, cum or no, etc. that we are thinking about spending $300 an hour for someone's time? The OP was not paying for time, he had communicated a specific scenario which was agreed to in advance.

Reminds me of that classic old movie line: "I'd love to kiss ya, but I just washed my hair."

That's what I love about this site: the great questions are explored here, from "what is the essence of life - how do we define a living thing?" to "is his cock really that big or is that a photoshop job?"

I don't know how much of his perfect, glistening body is real, how much is make-up, and how much is photoshop (and bless him if it's all real) , but to me he is a little too-much like a mannequin -- too perfect, too plastic, too designed. Give me a fit, trim, natural-looking guy anytime.

Gee, I wish I knew when I was younger that getting someone else to pay my bills was a form of escort service. I missed my calling....

The 2-1-1 method is more commonly used and accepted outside of the US. Many folks abroad say that our use of the daily pill approach is just another example of big pharma making sure that they can sell us more pills.. Not being a medical pro, I can't weigh in on the virtues of one approach versus the other. But as someone who has sex infrequently (twice or three times a month is a good month), I struggle to justify the daily pill regime and required frequent doctor visits.

I know that it WAS a criminal offense, hence my tongue-in-cheek reference to Oscar Wilde (is tongue in cheek also sodomy?). My point is that I haven't heard of anyone being charged with it since Cade was a toddler.

Gee, the list of charges for Jeb of Sean Cody includes "sodomy" Is there someplace where that is still an offense? I mean, who with? Oscar Wilde?

You have wonderful taste. 2, 4, and 5 light my fire, but all look yummy

I think NY has the widest range of rates of any place. Yes, the uber-wealthy Wall Streeters and lawyers can provide a market for the uber-expensive providers, but there is also a wealth of under-employed wanna-be actors/models, blue collar guys looking for a little extra cash, and boys off the bus from Iowa sleeping on their buddy's couch in the Bronx. I for one don't go for the perfectly-worked bodies and the pristinely-coiffed hair at $500 an hour when I can get the boy next door look or the pizza delivery man at half that rate : )

There was a young latin guy I saw regularly in NYC (more than 15 times over two years). He was an NYU student and he had some pretty significant mood disorder issues (deep depressive swings) and a tough life over all. He used to hang out post-coitus and we had lovely long chats, and sometime he just talked and talked and cried (and no, he didn't charge me for the time - I should have charged him LOL). One day he texted me that he was in desperate need of about $200 for some school books, and coupled it with saying that he was no longer going to escort but that he wanted to see me from time to time just to hang out. I venmo'ed the money and he immediately stopped returning texts and phone calls. It wasn't a big financial loss, but it stung. I felt foolish. Lesson learned.

Thanks so much. Another reminder of the value of this community ; )

I hate the name, but the pics look lovely. Any experience or insight would be welcomed! https://rentmen.eu/scruffypuppy/

Agree with both xyz48B and StLouisOct above. There are few things that kill my boner faster than the realization that the guy I am with is genuinely not enjoying himself (over the years, I've sent a few 'scorts packing when it was clear that they didn't want to be there). Although some providers find it annoying, I am definitely one for up-front transparency: "this is who I am (age, weight, height, looks) and this is what I like to do. Is that something you can get into?"

Thank you Orville. I have been chuckling all day at that image of Kermit.

As a small business person with an hourly rate, I have no right to be pissed off if I ask a client "what do you want to pay?" and they come back with a lowball offer. If price is an issue and I want the business, I can choose to offer a discount: "my normal rate is $250 per hour, but I will offer you a 20% discount for our introductory session." Once you invite negotiation, that's what you get: a negotiation.

Thanks for this. I have been stunned by the vitriol from some of the prolific posters who decide that they alone are the arbiters of, well, everything, which gives them the right to label, libel, belittle, insult, and accuse. It takes much not to stoop to their level and fling the poo back at them.

Before each meeting, I strip off the good sheets and put on the shag sheets. Even though I launder the shag sheets diligently after each, um, "use," they bear the scars of encounters past. Heck, looking at them now I see that they're starting to resemble a Pollack painting LOL. Time for a new set of shaggers, I guess.

And your point is? The word "covid" is a bit redundant, don't you think? It would have to appear in every thread on this site, in that even providers who only see one client a day would carry substantially more risk than your average guy. I have chosen not to see any pros since March for just this reason.

Recently? A nice guy, and he really is well hung, but caveat emptor: some of those pics are the ones he was using when I hired him in NYC 15 years ago (and no, that is not an exaggeration). I'd ask for a recent selfie before taking the plunge.

The performance issue is a big one for me. I have been in several situations over the years where the pro refused to cum (especially when hiring early in the day -- gotta save it up for the long night ahead!) or was drained and couldn't cum more than a micro-drop. This is frustrating, especially since I make clear that a nice splash is close to the top of my wish list.

2003. I was about 38, and in a long-term relationship that had gone sexless. Problem was that I still loved the guy. So I convinced myself that hiring a scort could help me scratch the itch without the risk of it turning into a competing relationship. My first hire was this adorable latino named Kenno from Rentboy, located in a large shared apartment in Queens. He was probably 20, with a beautiful body, smooth dark skin, and sweet demeanor - my ultimate fantasy. I was so nervous I was almost shaking. I filled three condoms that afternoon lol. Funny enough, newly-emboldened me soon found another adorable latino on rentboy and decided to give him a shag. Turns out he lived in the same apartment, in a neighboring room. I asked him if we could get kenno to join us, but he said that they were friends and didn't have sex with each other. Oh what might have been.....

I can't find any substantive input on these guys. Just wondering if someone has taken a ride? https://rentmen.eu/TysonW/#platinum https://rentmen.eu/Yungkingsonn https://rentmen.eu/Caramel_Drizzle https://rentmen.eu/bXoXyL