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I have mentioned this elsewhere on this site, but will repeat -- if there is anything you can do short of surgery to treat your 'roids, do it. I had surgery last year and it was the most god-awful painful and gross thing I have ever been through. Even with opioids, the experience was an agony that is impossible to exaggerate. Now I've done my community duty.....

I had that thought as I answered the question about multiple anonymous sex partners....the nurse asking the question looked at me like she was going to say "honey, your left hand doesn't count....."

BTW, I meant to include a thank you to Kevin Slater for his posts - it's largely thanks to him that I finally my shot. I may have to thank him in person ; )

Got my first dose in Brooklyn on Livonia Avenue on Sunday 29 Aug. Two things shocked me: 1. the number of health personal staffing the place: I was asked the list of qualifying questions four different times by four different people, it took five to escort me to my seat, and three to observe me as I "recovered" from the shot. 4 other teams of three people each sat at desks and observed...no one. 2. Which brings me to point 2. There were at least 60 folks in white coats and surgical gloves there at the clinic, mostly reading their phones, and at most three gay men there to get their shots. Come on boys, in NYC at least it seems shots are available.

Another reminder of the extraordinarily wide range of looks/styles that can be perceived as sexy. As per the old Yorkshire saying, “there’s none so queer as folk”

Bumping this thread. Anyone take a ride? Between his tusch and his cock I am obsessed.

I don't think you really get the whole "market/supply-demand" thing. It's not the vagaries of your personal preferences that matter to me. It's what matters to the provider: if he thinks there are enough people willing to pay $350 to get him in the sack, that will influence his pricing strategy. For most providers, their only vagary is $$. So those "useless" data points actually matter.

Bingo. For me, there are certain things that have to happen in order for me to enjoy: We gotta really kiss, I need to get into his ass, and he needs to cum. And hopefully, he will at least appear to be into it. I have twice paid guys half the rate and sent them packing when they clearly weren't into honoring what they had agreed (i.e., turning their heads instead of kissing, or refusing to open open up down below). I've given them half their fees and told them to leave. Neither was happy but they left (it helps that I'm tall and "burly").

I care about what other people are willing to pay because it informs me about the market and helps me to set -- or re-set -- my price expectations. It lets me know if I should stick firm to my own guidelines, or readjust them, ie if consensus is that everyone is prepared to pay $350 per hour, I guess I gotta adapt. It's just one more data point. This site seems less bitchy than it used to be (thankfully), but I still don't understand why you felt compelled to pick on Luvfurrytops for sharing his perspective.

Umm, this is a site about 'scorts. I think discussion about rates is completely within bounds. Why would it not be of interest?

Well, I don't charge, if that's what you mean... ; )

Good question. Once I am fully back in the saddle I will know. Though for the amount of pain involved, my tuchus better look like Brad Pitt.

Honestly, I didn't feel even remotely sexual for weeks. It's only after 4-5 weeks that the old levels of horniness started to reassert themselves. It's tough to think sexually when almost everything you do -- sitting down, standing up, walking, laughing, jerking off -- is painful. And in these days of the opioid epidemic, it's awful tough to get pain meds from your doc, so there is a great deal of gritting teeth involved.

After 7-10 days of agony (even with pain meds) the pain starts to subside gradually. Six weeks later it is just mere discomfort. There are other aspects beyond just pain (not appropriate to detail here) but suffice it to say it is a lot to deal with. I try to find humor in even the toughest things, and there was one thing that made me laugh: on my way out the door, the nurse warned me not to have sex in the first 72 hours. If you had any idea of just how debilitated (and gross) one is even a week later, this warning would seem nothing short of ridiculous. I don't think I even got an erection until about 3 weeks in.....

The only real chance for getting that sort of rate is to do the "wink wink" dance on Grindr or Scruff - you can find guys there who are more flexible because they don't think about themselves as pros, and sometimes you can have a good experience that way. Of course, one must be careful and discrete when going down that path.....

"What incentive do I have to unlock my pics for these people?" If you have enough business already, the answer is: none. No incentive. But if you are looking to win business (the purpose of most ads) the answer is: lots Speaking as a potential customer (and with all due respect), I find the idea of paying to see private pictures in an advertisement to be completely unacceptable. It is an AD. You are putting it there to try to get business. I am looking at it because I am contemplating paying hundreds of dollars to get intimate with you. Before I commit to a meeting, I want to see as much as possible so I know we are a match. I think it is better for both the provider and the customer if I am better educated about you before we meet. And yes, a customer may be 500 miles away when we make the request. Guess what? Customers travel. I always try to line things up before arriving, and that includes looking at the pics of potential hires. A guy won't show me more pics? Simple. I don't hire him. Next. Finally, the option to click “this user has requested to see your private pics” was added by the site to make things easier. I used to write lovely messages of interest, but they NEVER got any reply or acknowledgement, so now I just click the button. I am in a client service business, too. My customers are often demanding, unreasonable, and occasionally I fire them. But at the end of the day, they are my customers, and I do what I can to accommodate them. That's business

At the risk of sharing too much, I will offer this -- I recently underwent a hemmorhoidectomy, and it was BY FAR the most physically painful and unpleasant experience I have ever been through. Ever. Picture a medieval torture dude in a mask with lots of scary implements. I did it for primarily for cosmetic reasons and had I understood what the experience would be I would not have done it. As this is a family site I'll not detail, but PM if you are curious and have a strong stomach.

Yeah, I saw him. I think his name then was something like "Medjock" A year or so later, when a discussion about him came up in this forum, he joined the conversation and took umbrage at my comments. He was not pleasant. I'll leave it at that. Caveat emptor.

Of course it's a thing. I often need to meet during daylight hours, and it used to surprise me how often guys would give the Meg Ryan routine with moaning and panting but have nothing to show for it. A favorite trick is to "cum" into a tissue and then drop a little of spit to make it look wet. They are saving themselves for another appointment later that night.

He was quite the self-promoter in his posts; yes, the pros are not here out of the goodness of their hearts, but he was just a little more blatant than most.

Beautiful body and hole, but caveat emptor... PM me for details.

Whether or not anyone here has any insight, experience, warnings, etc. regarding this guy. You know, the usual stuff one would discuss in this forum.

https://rentmen.eu/Justin_b/#platinum This guy really pushes my buttons. Any experience/insight? I tried search and got nothing on his full name, but then thousands of hits on the name "justin" so that didn't help. Thanks!

You are spot on with the miles/distance. And what I love about those guys is that they clearly are thrown by our old system of weights and measures - look at their stats and you will see people who say that they are 6'6", 130 lbs, with a 42-inch waist LOL

Yes, they open their pitches by announcing their desire for life-long love, and specify their interest in men over the age of 40. I feel for the guys who get taken in by these creeps.