Storm4U

Mutual touch for me meant they could touch me all over. They just couldn't finger me.......unless I was very attracted to them.

Me too! When I think about the parts of the business that I miss… that is one of the things I miss the most!

When I did overnights, I was expected to spend the night, wake-up with them the next morning and give them one more "send off," and sometimes even have breakfast with them before I left.

I left the business when the things I liked about it no longer outweighed the things I disliked about it. The pros no longer outweighed the cons.

I left the business about two years ago. If I had clients that I knew were suicidal or severely depressed I would’ve continued to see them. If I had clients that were literally crazy with mental disorders (which I did encounter a couple of times) I cut them off. They are too dangerous.

When I used to advertise, I used to include “long sessions” in the ad. It was literally to let them know that long sessions were an option. It was not code for anything else.

For any Black American masseurs or providers reading this, take it from me: do not charge less than white providers are charging. If you are in a territory where most of the hiring demographics are racists, (which if they would try to pay you less because you are melanated, then they very much are) you aren’t going to book much in that location to make it worthwhile anyway no matter how much you lower your rates, so it’s a bad business decision to lower your rates. You are better off moving to a territory where men hire hot men regardless of race. ALSO, there is an abundance of men who will pay you top dollar BECAUSE you are hot AND Black! Those are the clients you want! Work smarter not harder! I have never accepted less than I deserved, and neither should you. Do not sell yourself short (pun intended) This is my last contribution to this forum but I wanted to leave this behind.

Same!!!!

I am Black/mixed. Im only speaking for myself, but I have never charged below market rates, and I have not, nor would I negotiate my rates. My philosophy is always if someone want to pay a lower rate, they should go for the guy with the lower rate. 🤷🏽‍♂️

I don’t tour at all anymore, but if I did, I would avoid a city with a big sports event. I can’t imagine that it’d be worthwhile.

I have no age limits. When I decline to take a client, it’s never due to age.

I have not hired any, but there are a couple of providers who have hired me, so it definitely happens

I do not date clients.

This!

This!

Im flying from Los Angeles to see a client in Ohio soon for a weekend. The last time I traveled by plane a few months ago, all of the flights were delayed by several hours on every airline to the point that I almost got stuck in Chicago on my way back to LA. If you have traveled by plane recently, are there still extreme delays?

“Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil”

For me, the most challenging part was filtering through the time wasters and flakes. Some cities have a higher concentration of that than other cities. I don’t have an active advertisement up anymore specifically because I did not want to deal with that part of the business anymore. When you don’t advertise and only see regulars, you know the regulars are reliable and you know they aren’t interested in wasting your time.

No.

It is not rude at all. Go for it!

Everything is better in Europe.

Swiss Navy

The cops (John Balcerzak and Joseph Gabrish) eventually did get fired for negligence, but they appealed their firing, and then Judge Robert Parins reinstated the 2 cops in 1994 because he felt that firing them was “too harsh” of a punishment, so they were rehired AND given a year’s salary in back pay. $55,000 each. Balcerzak eventually became president of the Milwaukee Police Association and eventually retired in 2017….…sooo…no…there were no real consequences for them at all. At a minimum, they should never have been able to be police officers ever again. That boy (Konerak) would still be alive if they hadn’t returned him to Dahmer.

Not only that, but the boy was bleeding, drugged, and obviously underage according to the neighbors who called the police, and the police escorted the boy back to Dahmer where Dahmer went on to kill him shortly after. And those cops were never held accountable. Absolutely Infuriating!

Not amazing, but it was okay. I think it’s still worth a watch if for no other reason than to show why he was able to get away with it for so long, and it tells the stories of his victims and the witnesses.