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Another one to the list of flakes. Reached out to him around 2PM, said he was available around 11PM, told him I'd text around 10. Texted him around 10pm saying "Getting ready, jumping in the shower and stuff, how far are you from me?" he replied "5 mins" "I said OK I'll hit you up around 10:40 to setup Ubers". Wrote to him at 10:40, received no answer. Wrote to him at 11 "Hey let me know please" no answer. He finally answers around 12:30 "Sorry I had to go out". Completely unprofessional.

I don't think I can post it here but you can PM

His hourly is almost double what goes for in LA so, you know I'm happy for him if he gets that regularly but oooof.

Sexy but 2hr min at the rate he asked is not what I'm looking for now.

Unless there's no menu 😛

Why make a booking first and then say what are you into and not into? So they can then say "I can't do that" and cancel the booking? I said all of that and said at the end "Is this something you're interested in? We can book right away". Your way is like booking a table at a restaurant, showing up and saying "I'm vegan" and the restaurant going "This is an outback we don't have vegan food". My way is calling the restaurant "Hey I'm Vegan, do you accommodate that?" so they can answer whether they do or not before making any reservation.

Exactly. The quality you're supposed to get in terms of professionalism at that Top rate is not there.

I was recently in NYC and did a sampler of providers and can highlight two: DinoLuca is a superstar. Fantastic stud, pricey but I cannot recommend his professionalism enough. TopMediterreanean was also hot, on time, and knew what to do. I highly recommend them both, I tried others and lets just say they were not it. Some flaked on me a couple of times or showed up high on something.

I thought by the rate he's asking for that he'd understand what being professional means and cherish that a client is spelling out all the expectations. It would've been fine if he said "Hi thanks but I'm not interested" which is perfectly fine, but "I don't have time to read all you sent" was a shocker really. Maybe as some have said here he's incapable of that BFE/connected experience if you're looking for that.

I texted him to ask for rates/availability. He replied back with it. I replied to him saying: "Great, my previous provider moved out and I'm looking for a new one as I am interested in a BFE experience, looking to book a few times a month maybe an overnight as quarter, here's the area I live in, here are the things I'm into (listed a few like kissing and the like), here are the things I'm not into (spit, slaps, aggression, drugs and others etc). Is this something you'd be interested in?" He replied with "I don't have time to read all you sent". I replied with Understood and left it at that. I'm literally spelling out all the relevant info right away but he won't even read it 🤷‍♂️ I know how much providers hate when people string them along so by the second message I like to make clear what I'm into, not into, the area I'm in and how many times I'd be looking to book just so they know immediately what's the expectation. He didn't even bother, which is fine, I want someone who can read.

He's rude af.

Stood me up and completely disappeared. We had texted and set up something for Saturday at midnight, wrote to him the day of around 4pm to confirm which he did, at 11pm I text him that I was going to shower and get ready and.. silence. Wrote to him at 12 a few times and never replied back. Another LA flaker.

I did a couple of times and it was like a 35 min thing. I also found his Grindr profile where he posts as a total bottom (which is good if that's what you like) but explained how mechanical and not into Topping he is when we got together. So yeah, avoid.

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No he hasn’t. I follow him on IG and he was in Israel a couple of weeks ago.

What do you mean working visa? Do you think providers who don’t have a greencard get a visa to do escorting work? Most traveling providers to the USA do this work under the table. While on ESTA or a visitors visa.

He’s a superstar. Some of you know from my posts this past week I was putting the feelers this week for a new NY regular bf and amongst the ones I met Dino is the real deal and absolutely worth the price. We spent 2hours which I extended by another happily. He’s a professional in every way. Being on time, conversation, prowress, make out skills and everything else he is a superstar and I think I may have found the perfect regular 😉 The ones charging 300 or less will stand you up, show up high, be rude, etc but at Dinos price point there’ll be no hesitation as to the pro he is, TRUST me

Yeah he’s the real deal haha. Sexy. On time. Ready and very professional would definitely hit him up again

Well if you have a personal relationship with him let him know he’s gotta step it up because he’s blowing his business with his tardiness and if he’s going through personal issues then don’t take in any new clients. It isn’t hard. I’m done defending myself for HIS unprofessional behavior.

When he told me that on Wednesday that he had overslept I had absolutely no issue and told him “it happens don’t worry about it, I rather have you at full energy so no problem. I’ll be free tomorrow at 7 before a 9pm dinner” and he said Yes. Then at 6:55 messages me again saying he’s 35-40 mins late again. and according to some of the SIMPS in here I’m not supposed to be upset about this and call his unprofessional behavior rude? Nahhhh

Yikes that’s not cool shaming people for their possible neurodivergence. Is there anything wrong with asking providers who work based on their time, to be ON TIME or to notify the client if they can’t make it to the agreed and confirmed time in advance? And to NOT doing it again the next day? ”Oh but he’s having personal issues! Have some empathy!” Don’t book new clients then? “Sorry I’m going through something and can’t see you” is perfectly fine. He did not. He acted completely unprofessional towards me (and others in this thread) and the fault is OURS? nah that is not it.

Yep and some of us also on this thread appreciate when providers are on time and if they can’t to let us know in advance. Not 5 mins before the appointment is about to happen. And doing it again the next day. It’s very unprofessional and reading of people justifying it here is just mind blowing. So if you’re OK with him being late to your appointments great for you. I and several others here don’t appreciate our time being wasted.

This is not the culture we are in NOR the business we are in and that people here are justifying a provider CONSISTENTLY being late and notifying clients at the last minute of being late is mindblowing.

I would’ve had no issues “shifting” it if he had told me in advance NOT when the session was supposed to start and from what you also read from others who have recently posted here it seems to be a normal thing for him now. It wasn’t just me and my “temperament” We agreed and confirmed times on TWO separate occasions and on both he had to “shift”. That’s extremely unprofessional. My time is as valuable as his.

He stood me up on the time we had agreed on and confirmed repeatedly. Push back of 45 mins when this business is based on an hourly rate and expecting NOT to be upset about is is ridiculous. He also didn’t ask to push back 45 mins a few hours before our appointment time, it was literally 5 mins before our appointment time. If he’s having personal issues I get it! Don’t book time with clients then. I don’t book providers when I’m having personal issues. Reverse the situation and imagine a client asking a provider to push back 45 mins a meeting, 5 mins before it’s supposed to start and not just happening once but also the following day. They would be livid and rightfully so Come on, there’s no excuses for this unprofessional behavior.