asianmusclebttm

I think my definition of a time-waster does not align with other people's. If someone is approaching me for a service, I recognize that there's no guarantee that they're going to hire me. Up until "the fun part" of the meeting begins, I don't have any expectation of being paid for my time. Someone could feel unwell, have a bad reaction to food or drugs, a minor emergency could come up, whatever. There's a billion reasons that a person could genuinely want to book with me, set up a time and fail to meet.
 
It's the people who have no intention of ever meeting that are time-wasters to me. One of the friends I mentioned earlier in this thread is hounded by this fellow that will use different numbers to reach out to him and he sets up appointments and has never met once, and since he wants my friend to bottom, my friend is making those preparations and is understandably incensed when this guy falls silent. [edit: my friend and I have come to the conclusion that this guy just gets off on the idea of my friend preparing to bottom - if anybody else has any explanations, I'm all ears]
 
If you reach out to me and you're reaching out to a bunch of people at the same time and I'm the last one to return your message, I completely understand if you don't end up hiring me. I'm still happy to carry on a conversation with you, because like most living, breathing humans, I'm going to continue to exist in this city that you're visiting (and are likely to visit again). Maybe you'll hire me in the future. Maybe you won't. But if I'm rude, or cut you off for "wasting my time", you definitely won't.
 
Besides, why not just be nice? It's just as hard as being rude only fewer people are angry at you at the end of the day.

Each week is different. Some cities are more seasonal than others, for example in DC summers and winters are slow compared to fall and spring but maybe the escort got an overnight during that week.
 
Did the escort take a trip?
 
It's an unpredictable business, there are slow days and busy ones.
 
Most escorts save on a monthly basis but bad months happen and they break even or they might use some of their savings. What if someone had a great week and later on not much during the rest of money? Can he save any?
 
If done consistently, without falling on PNP, and picking the right cities to visit while on a budget when it comes to hotels and flights, escorting can create generational wealth and I'm not talking about someone getting lucky and inheriting a house from a sugar daddy.

Don’t fight the daddy label. I was NOT eager to cross over. To my surprise, it’s a GREAT gig. Guys who seek out daddies find us appealing, whereas trying to find the average 38 year old who’d be interested was not easy!
 
And, if you are an above-average looking daddy with some skills and sex-appeal... life is GOOD.(So I am told.?)

@Lucky Thank you Sir!
 
@muscmtl Thanks! I feel like I'm filling an underserved niche ?
 
@DDad4ynger Thank you Dad. Better to stay safe than... horny? ?
 
@BicepAddict Thank you for the compliment! Especially from the bicep man. I don't know where to start with travel logistics (will have to consult fellow escorts), but I will mark you down. Not to mention, I love Charlotte!

Wow, when are you visiting NYC?

Welcome, wow you are the TOTAL package. I am not hiring now due to COVID, but when I am, you would definitely be high on my list.

So, Aaron, are you selling hot or cold snacks?

Welcome and can’t wait to meet in NYC.Feel free to ask some of the forum members for travel advice.

Welcome to the forum. Me, you and Dane Scott would make a hot night. ?

I'm thirding the New York suggestion...

Welcome to the forum! I’m also in Palm Springs. I’m not a provider but rather a client. Unfortunately, I too am a total bottom so I doubt we will have a business relationship. But your pics are hot and great quality. Hope you have fun here on the forum.

Well you have my interest, hopefully we can meet up in the future.

Hey! I used to get eczema like @BnaC because of gluten. Some years ago it up and vanished. Treatment for me (while I had it) was corticosteroids (like hydrocortisone cream) and 2x dose of Zyrtec.
 
I think its best for him to be honest. Its a tough situation to be in but trying to hide it may come off negatively. Something like: "Hi, I've got psoriasis/eczema, its non-contagious. I just need to be careful with touching / rough activity in those areas."
 
I hope most providers are non-judgmental... but if not, on the bright side, he'll have weeded out the ones with less-than-great attitudes.
 
I'd be excited if he were my client ? It'd be a great opportunity to provide kindness and affection when he's experienced otherwise.

Hey guys!
 
I've been a lurker on these forums for awhile and now my ad is finally up!
 
You can check me out at rent.men/AsianMuscleBttm
 
I am as the description says - Asian, muscled, and a bottom! Some quick facts about me: I'm based in Palm Springs, I love older men, I love to kiss, and I love to cook. You can read more about me on my painstakingly written ad ? .
 
I'm a green pea in escorting so I'm hoping I can make some friends and ask some questions. Feel free to ask me anything or message me, I'm a chatterbox.
 
- Aaron
 
 
P.S. I keep running into an error when trying to add my link to my signature. Can anybody help me?
 


 
My Butt
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@Muscle Lover 2

 
Its a red icon with a big RM

 
Makes an indiscriminate alert sound, nowhere near as conspicuous as Grindr's

@marylander1940 Oh if you insist ?
 
Here's me guys! (And then check out my link in my signature, I compel you! ?)
 


https://i.postimg.cc/tJN9wdZV/IMG-0035.jpg

 
Xoxo
Aaron ?

Hey guys!
 
I've been a lurker on these forums for awhile and now my ad is finally up!
 
You can check me out at rent.men/AsianMuscleBttm
 
I am as the description says - Asian, muscled, and a bottom! Some quick facts about me: I'm based in Palm Springs, I love older men, I love to kiss, and I love to cook. You can read more about me on my painstakingly written ad ? .
 
I'm a green pea in escorting so I'm hoping I can make some friends and ask some questions. Feel free to ask me anything or message me, I'm a chatterbox.
 
- Aaron
 
 
P.S. I keep running into an error when trying to add my link to my signature. Can anybody help me?
 


 
My Butt
https://i.pixxxels.cc/1zJPv2yw/IMG-0587.jpg

Hey! I used to get eczema like @BnaC because of gluten. Some years ago it up and vanished. Treatment for me (while I had it) was corticosteroids (like hydrocortisone cream) and 2x dose of Zyrtec.
 
I think its best for him to be honest. Its a tough situation to be in but trying to hide it may come off negatively. Something like: "Hi, I've got psoriasis/eczema, its non-contagious. I just need to be careful with touching / rough activity in those areas."
 
I hope most providers are non-judgmental... but if not, on the bright side, he'll have weeded out the ones with less-than-great attitudes.
 
I'd be excited if he were my client ? It'd be a great opportunity to provide kindness and affection when he's experienced otherwise.

When I was in college I advertised on craigslist with the keyword "gen". I thought I was making bank by charging $100 and so did my friends ?.
 
In hindsight its probably why I attracted some strange clients.
 
Later I lusted after being a professional escort, which has finally happened. So here I am ?

Hey! I used to get eczema like @BnaC because of gluten. Some years ago it up and vanished. Treatment for me (while I had it) was corticosteroids (like hydrocortisone cream) and 2x dose of Zyrtec.
 
I think its best for him to be honest. Its a tough situation to be in but trying to hide it may come off negatively. Something like: "Hi, I've got psoriasis/eczema, its non-contagious. I just need to be careful with touching / rough activity in those areas."
 
I hope most providers are non-judgmental... but if not, on the bright side, he'll have weeded out the ones with less-than-great attitudes.
 
I'd be excited if he were my client ? It'd be a great opportunity to provide kindness and affection when he's experienced otherwise.

@marylander1940 Oh if you insist ?
 
Here's me guys! (And then check out my link in my signature, I compel you! ?)
 


https://i.postimg.cc/tJN9wdZV/IMG-0035.jpg

 
Xoxo
Aaron ?

Hey! I used to get eczema like @BnaC because of gluten. Some years ago it up and vanished. Treatment for me (while I had it) was corticosteroids (like hydrocortisone cream) and 2x dose of Zyrtec.
 
I think its best for him to be honest. Its a tough situation to be in but trying to hide it may come off negatively. Something like: "Hi, I've got psoriasis/eczema, its non-contagious. I just need to be careful with touching / rough activity in those areas."
 
I hope most providers are non-judgmental... but if not, on the bright side, he'll have weeded out the ones with less-than-great attitudes.
 
I'd be excited if he were my client ? It'd be a great opportunity to provide kindness and affection when he's experienced otherwise.

Hey guys!
 
I've been a lurker on these forums for awhile and now my ad is finally up!
 
You can check me out at rent.men/AsianMuscleBttm
 
I am as the description says - Asian, muscled, and a bottom! Some quick facts about me: I'm based in Palm Springs, I love older men, I love to kiss, and I love to cook. You can read more about me on my painstakingly written ad ? .
 
I'm a green pea in escorting so I'm hoping I can make some friends and ask some questions. Feel free to ask me anything or message me, I'm a chatterbox.
 
- Aaron
 
 
P.S. I keep running into an error when trying to add my link to my signature. Can anybody help me?
 


 
My Butt
https://i.pixxxels.cc/1zJPv2yw/IMG-0587.jpg

Hey! I used to get eczema like @BnaC because of gluten. Some years ago it up and vanished. Treatment for me (while I had it) was corticosteroids (like hydrocortisone cream) and 2x dose of Zyrtec.
 
I think its best for him to be honest. Its a tough situation to be in but trying to hide it may come off negatively. Something like: "Hi, I've got psoriasis/eczema, its non-contagious. I just need to be careful with touching / rough activity in those areas."
 
I hope most providers are non-judgmental... but if not, on the bright side, he'll have weeded out the ones with less-than-great attitudes.
 
I'd be excited if he were my client ? It'd be a great opportunity to provide kindness and affection when he's experienced otherwise.

Communication both before, during and even after a date/session with an escort will lead to the most fulfilling experiences. Most secure and sensitive people react well to an open and honest dialogue and a meeting of the minds along with a meeting of the bodies with open lines of communication is an unparalleled adventure.