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Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

7 years?! I think you just have sex with him for free and find a new masseur for erotic massages.

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

7 years?! I think you just have sex with him for free and find a new masseur for erotic massages.

Can’t you just communicate to him that you’re not looking for more?

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

Can’t you just communicate to him that you’re not looking for more?

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

He actually sent me a recent picture after I discovered a time stamp on one pic from 2016! He looked very weathered, I was very disappointed.

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

I greatly appreciate you explaining your earlier remarks. At first I did feel personally attacked by your comments, but I whole-heartedly agree with you about therapy. It was through my therapist that I came to the decision that hiring an escort to fulfill a fantasy did not make me desperate or less than, and it will be through my therapist that I will work through the failed experience ? When I posted this, I was looking for a simple yes or no, but I’ve gained so much more knowledge about client expectations. I now believe my escort did everything right by me, possibly above and beyond. That already makes me feel much more at ease. I’m sure had I listened to him and stayed, we could have worked through it. However, just as he is human and could not finish the deed, I acted human and let my emotions take over in that moment. While it’s a shame he and I will probably never get to make up that session, I have removed my negative review, as I was getting several DMs about my review and I do not wish to cost him business. I’ll be seeing my favorite masseur this weekend and with time will start to seek out a new escort to live out my fantasy...with new expectations.

I posted this from recent experience and wanted to get feedback. This was my first escort experience. I don’t have any trouble finding sex through buddies or Grindr, but I started getting massages that would turn into more and this started to thrill me. Eventually I thought, why not hire an escort that is really going to dominate me and is more attractive then any guy I could normally obtain? So I did my research, found someone I was incredibly attracted to, had great reviews, and a reasonable rate. I reached out to RM users that had rated him, they all said he was insatiable. I booked him almost a month in advance. It was going to be a great night. I drove from Orange County to LA. I arrive on time, he’s more handsome in person, in great shape. The session begins exactly how I imagine it would, and while we’re at the best part, he loses it from one position to the next. I tried to assist in any way I could but it wasn’t gonna happen. I immediately felt it was because of me. In my embarrassment I quickly started to dress. He said I didn’t have to leave but all I could hear was a pounding in my ears. I reached for the money in my pocket and place it somewhere, I can’t even remember, and let myself out. As I walked away all I could think was that I just paid to feel worse about myself. I understand this happens, and it’s happened to me as a top and a bttm, but I wasn’t paying or being paid then. I texted him my disappointment and he said he had a stomach bug earlier and it was still lingering. I asked for some of the money back, as it hadn’t even been 30 min and he returned half. From what I’ve been reading, he did the respectable thing but it didn’t feel that way at the time. The whole point of paying an escort was to leave there satisfied by this hot guy and not feeling humiliated and out $$$. While he could have been telling the truth, it ruined the whole escort experience for me. I think I’ll stick to Grindr and my favorite masseur.

I greatly appreciate you explaining your earlier remarks. At first I did feel personally attacked by your comments, but I whole-heartedly agree with you about therapy. It was through my therapist that I came to the decision that hiring an escort to fulfill a fantasy did not make me desperate or less than, and it will be through my therapist that I will work through the failed experience ? When I posted this, I was looking for a simple yes or no, but I’ve gained so much more knowledge about client expectations. I now believe my escort did everything right by me, possibly above and beyond. That already makes me feel much more at ease. I’m sure had I listened to him and stayed, we could have worked through it. However, just as he is human and could not finish the deed, I acted human and let my emotions take over in that moment. While it’s a shame he and I will probably never get to make up that session, I have removed my negative review, as I was getting several DMs about my review and I do not wish to cost him business. I’ll be seeing my favorite masseur this weekend and with time will start to seek out a new escort to live out my fantasy...with new expectations.

I greatly appreciate you explaining your earlier remarks. At first I did feel personally attacked by your comments, but I whole-heartedly agree with you about therapy. It was through my therapist that I came to the decision that hiring an escort to fulfill a fantasy did not make me desperate or less than, and it will be through my therapist that I will work through the failed experience ? When I posted this, I was looking for a simple yes or no, but I’ve gained so much more knowledge about client expectations. I now believe my escort did everything right by me, possibly above and beyond. That already makes me feel much more at ease. I’m sure had I listened to him and stayed, we could have worked through it. However, just as he is human and could not finish the deed, I acted human and let my emotions take over in that moment. While it’s a shame he and I will probably never get to make up that session, I have removed my negative review, as I was getting several DMs about my review and I do not wish to cost him business. I’ll be seeing my favorite masseur this weekend and with time will start to seek out a new escort to live out my fantasy...with new expectations.

Short answer is yes.
 
This exact topic was brought up last year and I’m sure previous years if you do a search,
Here is the link to last year’s discussion... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/do-escorts-hire-other-escorts.149706/#post-1735653

I greatly appreciate you explaining your earlier remarks. At first I did feel personally attacked by your comments, but I whole-heartedly agree with you about therapy. It was through my therapist that I came to the decision that hiring an escort to fulfill a fantasy did not make me desperate or less than, and it will be through my therapist that I will work through the failed experience ? When I posted this, I was looking for a simple yes or no, but I’ve gained so much more knowledge about client expectations. I now believe my escort did everything right by me, possibly above and beyond. That already makes me feel much more at ease. I’m sure had I listened to him and stayed, we could have worked through it. However, just as he is human and could not finish the deed, I acted human and let my emotions take over in that moment. While it’s a shame he and I will probably never get to make up that session, I have removed my negative review, as I was getting several DMs about my review and I do not wish to cost him business. I’ll be seeing my favorite masseur this weekend and with time will start to seek out a new escort to live out my fantasy...with new expectations.

I'm so glad to read that you are working productively toward your goals! As I'm sure you'd agree, it's trite but true that we can't control everything that happens to us but we can control how we understand and react. It can be empowering to do that. And from what you've said, it's clear you have approached this entire situation with care, thoughtfulness and integrity. That alone would make you incredibly lovable and attractive to many, many, many people.
 
Onward and upward!

I posted this from recent experience and wanted to get feedback. This was my first escort experience. I don’t have any trouble finding sex through buddies or Grindr, but I started getting massages that would turn into more and this started to thrill me. Eventually I thought, why not hire an escort that is really going to dominate me and is more attractive then any guy I could normally obtain? So I did my research, found someone I was incredibly attracted to, had great reviews, and a reasonable rate. I reached out to RM users that had rated him, they all said he was insatiable. I booked him almost a month in advance. It was going to be a great night. I drove from Orange County to LA. I arrive on time, he’s more handsome in person, in great shape. The session begins exactly how I imagine it would, and while we’re at the best part, he loses it from one position to the next. I tried to assist in any way I could but it wasn’t gonna happen. I immediately felt it was because of me. In my embarrassment I quickly started to dress. He said I didn’t have to leave but all I could hear was a pounding in my ears. I reached for the money in my pocket and place it somewhere, I can’t even remember, and let myself out. As I walked away all I could think was that I just paid to feel worse about myself. I understand this happens, and it’s happened to me as a top and a bttm, but I wasn’t paying or being paid then. I texted him my disappointment and he said he had a stomach bug earlier and it was still lingering. I asked for some of the money back, as it hadn’t even been 30 min and he returned half. From what I’ve been reading, he did the respectable thing but it didn’t feel that way at the time. The whole point of paying an escort was to leave there satisfied by this hot guy and not feeling humiliated and out $$$. While he could have been telling the truth, it ruined the whole escort experience for me. I think I’ll stick to Grindr and my favorite masseur.