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    RuffLeatherPig reacted to former lurker in Provider that asked me.....   
    That seems pointless and petty. If you're not comfortable (I'm not) sending that stuff, move on. No need for game playing and time wasting.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from + IronMaus in Grab your passport... and a blood test????   
    As long as you financially compensate the time to fulfill these request it is perfectly reasonable
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from Luv2play in Escorts, How Do You Maintain Stamina?   
    I feel it is really a mental game. For me I look at, why am I hear? It is to provide a service and do my job. There is a desire to be good at and really perform. There is financial motivation as well but you are really entering as a service provider.
    As long as I am not being pressured/forced into something I am dud not agree to or in an unsafe situation I am glad to play the role of the Happy Hooker
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from Walker1 in Escorts, How Do You Maintain Stamina?   
    I feel it is really a mental game. For me I look at, why am I hear? It is to provide a service and do my job. There is a desire to be good at and really perform. There is financial motivation as well but you are really entering as a service provider.
    As long as I am not being pressured/forced into something I am dud not agree to or in an unsafe situation I am glad to play the role of the Happy Hooker
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from + Yellowrod in Birthday Blues   
    Always happy to offer a birthday cam show to the Birthday boys:) just hit me up
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from + Pensant in Birthday Blues   
    Always happy to offer a birthday cam show to the Birthday boys:) just hit me up
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from PetetKsfo in Birthday Blues   
    Always happy to offer a birthday cam show to the Birthday boys:) just hit me up
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from Luv2play in Birthday Blues   
    Always happy to offer a birthday cam show to the Birthday boys:) just hit me up
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from + 7829V in Your youngest and oldest client...   
    Oldest client was 77
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from Tristatedude in Porn stars I wish I could hire   
    This is who I would enjoy!
    https://rent.men/CodyWinter
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from NikoLeto in Facial Hair Question   
    I have a moustache(mustache) and I Iove it. However, I would say that everything is a possibility for an experience.
     
    Dont skirt around the issue, be direct. “I like men clean shaven, would you be willing to arrive clean shaven?” Is an appropriate question. Just be willing to compensate the person if they are removing a significant amount of facial hair, big mustache or long beard.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from LivingnLA in Facial Hair Question   
    I have a moustache(mustache) and I Iove it. However, I would say that everything is a possibility for an experience.
     
    Dont skirt around the issue, be direct. “I like men clean shaven, would you be willing to arrive clean shaven?” Is an appropriate question. Just be willing to compensate the person if they are removing a significant amount of facial hair, big mustache or long beard.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from Bluefin in How expected is it to "tip" masseurs?   
    I think a tip for an escort is truly at the clients desire. Fees can go up with things such as fetish request, etc. However, a nominal tip of 5-10 percent is greatly appreciated.
     
    I believe that full payment covers the whole transaction. A tip should be considered for going above and beyond.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from + Pensant in Donation on Arrival or After Service?   
    Pay up front, always. Tip at the end and only if warranted. This is a transaction. It is not tacky to count the money, it is just a verification. There are two parts of the transaction and that’s all it is. I am sure that you are trustworthy and a trusting individual, but there is nothing tacky about counting out the money, especially if the price has been set before hand. I think we all need to get over our hang-ups about how we deal around money.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from thomas in Overnight   
    No need to be embarrassed. I think you should be in full communication with this person. You should clearly lay out what you expect, what you want, and ask what can be delivered on. For an over night I would expect hang out time and at least 6 hours of being present and attentive.
     
    Twelve hours together minimum with actual sleep involved after your request have been met
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from orville in Your Favorite After Sex Food   
    A joint and pasta!
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    RuffLeatherPig reacted to + peterhung85 in Overnight   
    First of all, I completely agree with every poster before me. Overnight is like Las Vegas = it is what you make out of it! ;-)
     
    As previously written by others, it is your responsibility to articulate your needs and desires during a period of time you use to hire a companion. That way your companion can decide whether that is something he is willing to do or not. Discuss it in advance rather than have expectations that may not be met. It is completely up to the two of you to discuss what an overnight session is going to entail.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from + IronMaus in Overnight   
    No need to be embarrassed. I think you should be in full communication with this person. You should clearly lay out what you expect, what you want, and ask what can be delivered on. For an over night I would expect hang out time and at least 6 hours of being present and attentive.
     
    Twelve hours together minimum with actual sleep involved after your request have been met
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    RuffLeatherPig reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Overnight   
    If you search overnight, you'll see a plethora of this exact question, asked and answered (and argued).
     
    Bottom line, overnights are a block of time that's yours to manage. I wouldn't recommend asking a group of random, faceless internet posters... Talk with your escort about your needs, wants, fantasies and what his own experiences have been like in an overnight situation. What you're really not going to find here is the end-all, definitive answer as to what an overnight constitutes.
     
    The only thing I can say with some certainty is that in terms of time, an overnight is usually in the 12-15 hour range.
     
    This should definitely be a dialogue between the two of you. Good luck out there!
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    RuffLeatherPig reacted to + RJD in Overnight   
    It all depends what you work out with your guy. Typically, an overnight will start early evening and go until morning. The exact times, what you do, what you want, his expectations for sleep, etc., should be clearly communicated with the provider before you schedule.
     
    I do overnights with a regular because I hate feeling rushed. Mine usually start around 6PM, we have a glass of wine, make out, have some fun in the bedroom, shower, eat, more making out and fun, sleep, wake to some more fun, shower, breakfast, and he leaves.
     
    Again, each provider is different and has his own idea of how many hours defines an overnight. If you want an entire night of “fun” you need to communicate that as well upfront.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from thomas in Porn stars I wish I could hire   
    This is who I would enjoy!
    https://rent.men/CodyWinter
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from Smurof in Roll call: real profile pics   
    That’s me!
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    RuffLeatherPig reacted to + Charlie in What does "Nasty" imply ?   
    Cultural drift: forty years ago, BB was considered vanilla in the gay community, and now one can argue whether it is nasty or a fetish.
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    RuffLeatherPig got a reaction from thomas in What does "Nasty" imply ?   
    For me...nasty implies the ability to engage in extreme fetishes. I use the word pig to imply WS, spit, and BB. All things I am open to but you as the client set the scene.
     
    I believe nasty is a way to convey that extreme services are available
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    RuffLeatherPig reacted to Daverwr in What does "Nasty" imply ?   
    It’s certainly not a given and, as everything, needs to be negotiated between provider and client, but yes, I would consider it “normal”.
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