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There are a few escorts I am considering to hire. They have been around for a while but have very few reviews. I reached out to them and they responded with their availability so I don't think it is due to them turning down potential clients. Perhaps their clients just do not provide reviews? Maybe I find them attractive but not many others? I am trying to determine if the low number of reviews may be a red flag. Any thoughts on this topic?

It is more concerning to me if the provider repeatedly changes their name or constantly gets their account deactivated. I would not automatically classify providers with low number of reviews as red flag, perhaps yellow? Before I found this forum, my due diligence mostly revolved around talking to the previous clients that have reviewed the provider, cross-referencing against other service sites to see if there are other reviews that may be contrary or prove to be consistent with said provider. And at the end of all of that, if I am still motivated to meet, and say there is nobody else in the area that I am more interested in meeting, then I would listen to my gut (or lower than my gut) and take the plunge. I would have to say I have had hits and misses with that approach. What is great about this forum is if you find that the provider does not have that many reviews and is not discussed yet on threads in The Deli, there are some brave and courageous members of the forum that are happy to "sacrifice" and take the plunge for you if they also find the provider appealing or will just tell you like it is depending on things they observe on the provider's profile. Either way, this place is a great resource.
 
As far as reviews go, I tend to provide a review on RM, mostly for me to keep track of who I met and when. However, if I met with a provider at least 3 times, I may stop providing additional reviews unless the provider still prefers I continue to do it.

Taking this line of thought to the extreme.... Why are you even having sex, ever? I would assume it is because you have calculated your acceptable risk threshold and are willing to participate in some level of activity that you feel comfortable with.
 
Has COVID changed my behavior? Absolutely. Are there people that I trust enough to still engage in sexual activity even during a pandemic? Yes, very few, but yes.
 
COVID could be with us... FOREVER. New norms and risk equations are being redefined. Let's let people make up their own minds with no unfair judgements, OK?

Anyone have any info on this guy:
 
https://rentmasseur.com/AliThani
 
Looks like his profile was created in March of this year.

If you actually care about the topic of racism you would do the research on your own. Otherwise you're just being complacent - which really was already established with your previously response.

If you actually care about the topic of racism you would do the research on your own. Otherwise you're just being complacent - which really was already established with your previously response.

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.
 
However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001
 
"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.
 
However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?

I've had several massages sessions before. I never initiate anything during the massages. I just lay down with my arms to my side and let the masseur drive the situation. They usually start as massages and progress into other full on good activities. I think this is great. However, there are times when I just want the time spent on the non-massage good times. This has lead me to consider escorts.
 
I have never engaged an escort before. I had a few questions I was hoping to get some inputs on from those with experience. I'd imagine some of these answers would vary based on the escort but was hoping to get general answers or what the general etiquettes are.
 
1. Is it common to book an escort for just an hour?
2. Do the escorts usually require you to send them you physical stats and/or photos before agreeing to meet up?
3. If you tell them you want just an hour do they keep track of the time or would they just charge you based on when the session is considered over?
4. Is the goal to have both parties finish or just the customer?
5. What happens if they cannot "perform"?
 
Thanks in advance for your responses!

If you actually care about the topic of racism you would do the research on your own. Otherwise you're just being complacent - which really was already established with your previously response.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001
 
"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.
 
However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?

If you actually care about the topic of racism you would do the research on your own. Otherwise you're just being complacent - which really was already established with your previously response.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001
 
"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

How can one claim to not be racist while defining their "preferences" by race? Own it.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001
 
"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

That is usually the tactic used by those who have been cornered.

You must've been lucky to catch him on a 28.57% day.

That is usually the tactic used by those who have been cornered.

That is usually the tactic used by those who have been cornered.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001
 
"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-30734-001
 
"In May 2011, 2177 gay and bisexual men in Australia participated in an online survey that assessed how acceptably they viewed online sexual racism. Although the men sampled displayed diverse attitudes, many were remarkably tolerant of sexual racism. We conducted two multiple linear regression analyses to compare factors related to men’s attitudes toward sexual racism online and their racist attitudes more broadly. Almost every identified factor associated with men’s racist attitudes was also related to their attitudes toward sexual racism. The only differences were between men who identified as Asian or Indian. Sexual racism, therefore, is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference."

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.
 
However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?

I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.
 
However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?