Danny-Darko

I almost never share that I hire or pay strippers unless I have a rare friend or acquaintance that does as well. I've found the Gay "Community" to be far too judgmental and hypocritical when it comes to this subject. It does carry a stigma. Plus my father taught me "a gentleman shouldn't kiss and tells. private matters should stay private". So I tend to be discreet.

I miss those old days of "Tea Room" cruising and cheap hustlers!

I almost never share that I hire or pay strippers unless I have a rare friend or acquaintance that does as well. I've found the Gay "Community" to be far too judgmental and hypocritical when it comes to this subject. It does carry a stigma. Plus my father taught me "a gentleman shouldn't kiss and tells. private matters should stay private". So I tend to be discreet.

I’ve encountered this frequently ?

Model & Actor Spencer Neville

I talk about hiring only with you guys ?, escorts, and my partner (15 years together), who is very understanding ? and also hires occasionally, a lot less than I do, actually ??‍♂️
 
Although I am openly gay to family, friends, and co-workers, this hobby does carry a stigma and it is difficult to share.

Never - except on this board. Having said that, I have had in-person meetings with a few fellow clients from this board. Great guys. It was fun comparing notes with them.
 
I would advise against discussing it in your workplace. This hobby technically speaking is illegal in the USA. You could get in trouble.

I discuss hiring with one friend, someone I hung out with at the stripper boy bar; he also hires escorts and like me, has taken some of the boys from the bar home. I have another couple of good friends who wouldn't be shocked to hear it (one of them said once "I've paid for sex, and I've been paid for it"), but I think they'd let it slip to others, so I've never told them.

On our sexual behavior, I doubt many men share with their friends. We know that men masturbate, but how often do you hear someone in person talking about his activity?

Pictures courtesy of @Whitman
 

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He is in Costa Mesa. Asked for my photos. It’s ok, but I personally do not send my pics when I am looking to pay

A little bit too fem to my eye and taste
https://friendboy.pro/boys/CelestialTwink

a really, really, really unappealing ad.....in multiple ways.

I’ll post tonight