Danny-Darko

Well, there goes the cruising ground in that park!

You obviously didn't read my posts or cared understand them. Giving you the benefit of the doubt, I'll say you have poor reading comprehension shills. 🙄 P.S. And you proved my point! People will believe whatever they want to believe be it true or not. And the truth is seldom believed, so why bother!

So, what kind of "kind gesture" that "shows true integrity" does the customer get when the escort cancels on us or does a no-show?! In many cases after even booking a hotel and/or traveled to another city?! I feel an apology without too much detail should be enough. And without the too much detail simply as others have state, it might not be believed even if it's the truth. Plus, a casual random person doesn't need to know your personal business to begin with. Life happens to all of us and all parties will eventually get over it. Why are these "business transactions" with escorts always for the most part so very one-sided? They take as much as they can and give as little as possible as if we the customer owe them everything, and them nothing or at least hardly anything. Is the escort now going to send flowers or make a donation to a charity in your deceased relatives name to show a kind gesture as well or integrity?! It's a two-way street like all business transactions. Yes, we do do things just to be nice sometimes, but how often does the receiver of our kindness reciprocate the feelings and gestures??? Rebooking him at a later date if you're still interested and he's still willing to accept the booking and go through with the date in more than enough of a gesture on top of an apology!

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"If you're canceling within 24 hours of your booking, you might want to consider offering a cancellation fee as a gesture??!" WHY? Had the escort canceled because they do do this too and even stand up potencial customers up with no shows, would the escort be offering any such gesture?! And I'm not saying no escort has never offered anything to make something up to a client, but chances are very slim and those that do would be very few and far apart. And even I'd be skeptical because these men have mastered the art of future promising and never delivering. And yes of course there are some, or I'd say few left these days that are truly gentlemen and taken the craft of courtesanship to an art form. Those are a bit older and a dying breed. Once again, a brief apology as awkward as it might be, is all you owe. I strive to be a man of my word, but nobody is perfect, and the world goes on.

Some people won't believe the truth even if you tell them it! You don't need to justify yourself and go into deep personal details. YOU are the customer, and you just decided you needed to cancel. That's all! Now that said, it would be considerate of you to cancel within a reasonable time frame unless something urgent impeded you to do so. And they do happen and anyone who can't understand that isn't worth your time or money. I do realize there are a lot of flakes who have no considerations for the escorts time, travel or his scheduling, and I do empathize with them. And because they have been so burned they can be jaded and unbelieving despite you telling the truth. That is not your fault either. If at a future date you still wish to meet up with him (and not because you feel obliged to make it up to him), reach out and let him you're interested and once again mention you're sorry it was unable to work out last time. If he's open to the meeting, then great! If he's not, or maybe blocked you or written you off as just another flake, well so be it and move on. One can't control other people's feeling or emotions. Other than your initial apology and behaving ethically, you own him nothing. It was a paid business transaction and not a date during a serious relationship, family engagement or other situation where you would be more obliged to rectify the situation. Sometimes we hurt people's feelings or piss them off, and there is nothing one can do to fix the situation. I can understand both sides frustration and annoyance but ultimately you need to do what you need to do and the escort also. There are other escorts and there are other clients and so life goes on.

When us gay men get old!