It's one thing to "want" something, and another to hire, seek out and actually get what one wants on occasion! Some more often that others! 😉 Shout out to all of those that like to travel to Brazil for the "Garotos" who mostly identify as "straight"! (Chongos in Argentina, Jineteros and Bugarrones in Cuba, DR & PR, Mayates and Chichifos in Mexico, and so on). I've yet to meet a flaming queen or very out gay guy among them. And I doubt gay men go there for the "Bonecas" (transvestites & transexuals). Just some food for thought. Argue amongst yourselves, but I have nothing more to add to the subject. The original question/comment has been more than answered, while others just want to convince us why we are "wrong" and "self-loathing" and that they are absolutely right. 🤔