Danny-Darko

Sergey Yesenin (1895-1925). The Russian poet is a classic, had stormy affairs with both men and women, committed suicide at the age of 30.

Nick Bosa

For decades now since Jeff Styker and maybe even before, Gay4Pay men have been the top selling porn stars. A gay man that says he hasn't fantasied ever in his life about a hot pop idol or movie star is lying (and yes some celebs are closeted, but most are straight as far as we know). Who didn't have crushes on the straight guys in school when we started to become sexually aware? Who hasn't wondered about a hot guy at work in a sexual way? Transvestites pride themselves on being able to pick up "straight men" too! I've never seen or heard of one going out with a flaming queen. I could go on and on with examples. Yet for some reason to admit to this reality isn't politically correct in the "all-inclusive and embracing" LGBTQ+ "community". Yes, there are some men that enjoy soft, passive and even effeminate men, and nothing wrong with that. But to asume or suggest that we that prefer our men "straight" are in a different world or category is fooling themselves. And yes, maybe some of us actually do fetishize straight men more than others do. But if you think about it, it's almost normal and natural for a homosexual to be attracted to masculinity and manliness and most things about men. And most men out there in the world are straight/heterosexual and to different degrees. Us homosexuals/gays are a minority no matter how visible we now are. And finally, if most gay men who hire weren't attracted to straight men, why would so many escorts lie about it or even state that they are straight or bi on their profiles as a marketing ploy? Just some food for thought. We all like what we like even if different than what the next guy likes!

Nick Bosa

So that means everybody should or would mention every provider brought up here for any reason their personal political views among other ones, to make members aware of them so to make sure they align with theirs views and values??? Maybe you should suggest it to RM to make it a profile option! Though I suspect most would make theirs as "ask me" since "none of your business" probably wouldn't be an option choice.

Good luck living your life like that!

So I asume you question and scrutinize all people or businesses you purchase any kind of services from or buy from to make sure they are full aligned with your "values"? 🙄 That reminds me of when we as gay men were told we don't want or service "your kind" here.

Why would anybody care about a provider's personal life or politics??! 🙄