Danny-Darko

My rule of thumb is I make people R.S.V.P. If there are no replies and/or any no shows, I don't invite again and scratch them off my invitation list. If people can't be bothered with manners and basic formalities, then I can't be bothered with them. I understand your frustration. I stopped trying years ago to make social gatherings and connections in the gay "community". It just never really worked out for me even if there were a gathering or two when most showed up once or twice. People really are such flakes and it is comon too! 😟

With any hope we might see the return of American guys to that market here in the USA after decades of being flooded out by foreign men. While I do like men from other cultures and ethnicities, if I wanted to hire them I'd go to their country and hire them there and at their prices! No fun in traveling to Europe or anywhere in North America to meet only Columbians, Brazilians and Cubans among others. One travels to sample the local fare. As I told my ex last time I was in Athens and went out shopping, "If I wanted to shop in the Bazaars of India, I would have gone to India instead!". I haven't been back since to Europe. We shall see. Fingers crossed, but I won't hold my breath. 🤞

Agree! And they always seem to be committed by people from a certain group that claims to be a "religion of peace" that ironically the lgbtq+ "community" in western countries is very supportive of despite their abismal centuries long worldwide track record and clear doctrinal ideology! 🙄

Male Prostitutes. Lower Manhattan. Early 1900s. (photo from Reddit)

Scanned from a 1974 issue of “The Barazoku,” Japan’s first gay magazine.

I miss the good old days!

Nick Bosa

Talking with dancers over a drink and then getting a private lap dance! 🤩