Save yourself a lot of aggravation. Wait until he comes back to wherever you are in 6 to 8 weeks & decide then if you want to see him again. It doesn’t make sense for you there to see him for only one day. If you do go down there, place an ad in the area you are in for a few days & see if you can find anyone to see within a 70 mile radius. If it’s dead & you are up to it go to SA or Houston & forget about going back to see him. Sounds like if you do go down there things are going to get ugly real quick. I am very close to saying: This relationship is over!