Tygerscent

I am not at all opposed to changing the laws around Prostitution, Escorting, Massage Therapy, Sex therapy, Sexual Medical Advocacy, etc., so that these issues of business operation, taxes, wages, retirement, health care benefits, expenses, etc, can be better addressed~

On a purely sexual level… What I find to be a completely wonderful experience is how a persons scent overall, (and in specific places on their body), blooms with a sex scent throughout the experience and how those different flavors waft out, melt/infuse together to create a very unique signature on any given episode. I can often taste and smell my partners sexual bloom and general sent on me for hours and sometimes days after we have played. It’s also entertaining and fascinating for me when I can smell sex on other people… It is at times possible to pick out who they’ve played with when you can recognize their scents individually otherwise~

That’s a very good point that you bring up regarding cultural differences… And if I may also include not only cultural differences abroad between different cities in different countries but, the same holds true from state to state in “America”~ The demographics and how people view/operate/navigate the profession is very different in New York City than it is from Florida or California or Texas or Montana or Utah or Idaho or Ohio or Wisconsin or… or… or… my experience leads me to think that each region has its own structure, organization and mentality regarding Prostitution and Escorting, (and others related Service Provider specialist careers like masseuses, sex therapists etc…~). Some of the things impacting all of that are: local economy, local law, local mindsets/religion/belief systems, Proportion of ethnic diversity, the poverty to affluence ratio… and more~

Insurance that is structured into your profession is one of the things that allows for your “completed reimbursement” for all your services. That is not the case in either Escorting or Prostitution in this country. Neither physicians nor lawyers exchange with their clients/patients on the same degree of intimacy as Service Providers~ In an obvious example: I’m guessing that you don’t have sex with your patients. That alone is a game changer if not in theory, by law. Imagine if a physician had no insurance structured into their businesses and charged each patient exactly the same amount each time. It would absolutely change the demographics of being a physician and a patient. Imagine if sexual relations was part of that job. Imagine if being a physician was limited by laws the way prostitution is. Escorting is limited by laws in its own way but, actually different than prostitution. It is not an uncommon theme that Prostitution is legally recognized as the exchange of sex for money, (etc), while Escorting is seen as an exchange of money for time and not for specific services rendered. Some of us service providers have been with our clients when they passed away… We’ve sat with them just like maybe you have. While some things we do in our professions operate on the surface similarly, they are very, very different professions operating on a very different level in so many other ways. While I can lump Physicians, nurses, lawyers, wait staff, restaurant owners, teachers, armed forces, corporations, LLC’s, landscapers, surveyors, Escorts and Prostitutes all as service providers, they are by nature not the same as don’t operate on a single business modality.

I think the rate schedule comes into play here as well… I mean if a Service Provider is asking for $250 for one hour and their transportation fee to get to their Client is nearly $100 round trip and 3 to 6 hours travel time and the parking is another $30+, there’s a cost effectiveness concern~ Service Providers are not making lawyer and physician salaries and the workflow is different. The liabilities are different for each. The overhead is different for each. They are very different professions and each are run differently. I’ve seen the situation where a patient is charged for not showing up an appointment… The patient can be billed directly or through the insurance company. That is not an option with a service provider . While physicians and Lawyers both charge for time on their own merit and way, they also have insurance companies involved. The financial burden is not exclusively on the patient. The tax structure for these jobs is different as well… Some Service Providers are “providers beyond borders”, a physician with a clinic is not a “doctor beyond borders” and operates differently than ones who are. While tipping doctors, lawyers, office and factory jobs isn’t appropriate, tipping waiters, chefs, cab drivers, Uber and Lyft is expected~ All of those jobs have retirement plans, bonuses, tax structures, raises, overtime, etc built in~ Escorting and Prostitution do not~ I think it would be awesome if some of those things were structured into the escort/prostitution profession~ Maybe that could happen if the laws around that profession changed or if there were service provider unions. I personally don’t ask for my Clients to pay for my Ubers and Lyfts. I never ask for a “show up fee”, (some base rate just because I’ve arrived), I’ve never put Clients on the cafeteria plan where what I charge them for is based on what we do. I’ve seen all of those things in places like London, california, some places abroad and notoriously Florida~ I’ve seen things where providers charge different rates depending on their clients age, physical appearance and health. I don’t do any of that myself, but I’ve seen that~ In fact, physicians and lawyers actually do that sort of thing just by the nature of their business… both lawyers and physicians operate on a cafeteria type fee schedule: There was an office fee, and then whatever incidentals might accrue for whatever malady a patient is being seen for. I’ve also seen service providers charge their Clients similarly and including transportation to and fro. I think what they’re trying to do is offset their overhead~ They may also charge exorbitant fees or extra for their specific or specialty services, (and include additional fees for prep time for the same reasons… Since I don’t operate my own personal business that way, I don’t know the exact reasons they do this but, I can see why in some instances paying for transportation makes sense and other times it does not. Obviously, a physician running their own clinic is not charging each individual patient to drive that physician to and from his office per patient visit but, Also, each patient is not being charged exactly the same price for whatever their visit is about. Imagine how different the scenario would be if the patient was expecting the doctor to do house calls a vast percentage of the time instead of operate out of an office and the house calls were I different counties, states, countries~ Imagine if a physician could only charge a single fee to their patients for services rendered. in my mind… The idea of comparing the business modality of physicians and lawyers to Service Providers seems problematic and potential for inaccuracies~ It might make a difference if prostitutes, Escorts etc we’re able to formulate their businesses as corporations, LLC’s etc~

Nom nom nom…

Not a simple topic… I mean we use words every day that given the context and intention can be either supportive and endearing or damaging and critical. Words like babe, boy, Liberal, conservative, you name it… You can take just about anything and what really initiates an impact is the intent and the context… Sometimes people will misunderstand the intent if they are outside of the context. That in itself can be damaging… You never know what another persons past experiences are or how they intend themselves to interpret something they’re seeing or hearing. I could say this word: “bijnibipple ChA~!” without really knowing what it means… It could mean anything and be applied to anything depending on how one uses the word and what the intent is for using it. I could call somebody that out of anger and that’s what it would mean. I could call somebody that because I think they’re just the cutest thing in the world and it could mean that… I could call them that in a really cute way but my intention might be to say it out of anger and it would mean that. Part of getting to the reality of the situation is trying to understand things objectively and perhaps not reacting to them so quickly. I’m not saying that race play is either right or wrong, good or evil… It really depends on the circumstance, the context and the intent. It also involves the viewer who may love or take offense at something. There seems a strong likelihood that one has a responsibility for one’s actions and words when then can be misinterpreted by the people around you. Not that a person is, (persons are), responsible for interpreting things for other people but, understand that they may not understand the intention and they may not see the context which some words, actions, sensual or sexual acts take place… If you know that something is going to be said or done and probably taken the wrong way, how responsible is the delivering party~? I’m wondering if that is the question here… Comedians deal with this frequently~ Are they funny or damaging… and to whom and how~?

Nice toes…

Oh yeah… That’s absolutely true. You can smell meds on people. Sometimes it smells like seawater… Kind of salty, like salty air. Antibiotics smell like sulphur and metallic. Not in an offensive way… just different from a body without those. With women… I smell the iron. I really pick up on minerals in things. I can smell zinc, magnesium, iron and tell if things are acidic or alkaline… You know my 23 and me says I have a larger share of Neanderthal. I’m pretty certain that’s true~ In recent years up until 2020, I found myself spending about four months out of the year in the UK… The rest of the time I was traveling around Asia and India and Eastern Europe while only dipping into the states maybe four months out of the year total intermittently. The great thing about the UK is that their air index is somewhere between one and two at any given time… These people have some pretty clear air going on.

What’s that cologne you’re wearing~? Says I as I plummet face first into the ass end of someone in their underwear

I took my gifs down because I need to read the guidelines to see what is it acceptable and what is not…

I am especially attuned to the scent of ass… Can’t get enough

I am very scent oriented… I can smell a woman on her period If she’s walking by me and going through that at the time. It’s the iron that I smell in the blood… I also can smell that in veterinary offices and hospitals. I can generally smell a persons forearm and tell you what they ate within the last 24 hours. I can tell you if they eat meat, fish, salad, dairy or a lot of citrus. I can usually pick out different kinds of fruit and vegetables and berries on their skin as well. That being said… I can also smell the scent of sex, fear and other hormones on people. It’s actually a skill I rely on and can be very hot for me. I’m sure others can remember times when I have gotten close to their face so I could sniff their beard, their ears, their neck, their hair, their skin and make my way down sniffing them like a dog… I can generally tell you if there’s somebody out in the woods when I’m hiking because, I can smell the difference between a human being and other animals. Moths have a different scent then butterflies. When it comes to scent, for me it is less about something being offensive or attractive but, more at the “balance” of whatever it is that’s giving off the scent… The scent itself is information and what I access from that information is the balance of whatever is omitting the flavor. (They was so redundant… wtf). My sense of smell, taste and touch as well as night vision are somewhat over the top.

It would also decrease the financial burden that is already being placed on the service provider. You can accrue a lot of overhead by being a sponsor, a platinum boost, a gold member, escort of the day, interview of the day… All of those things they all cost money and can be very expensive especially if you’re traveling to multiple cities

I think that maybe some of the Flake issue could be resolved by not allowing as much access by non registered users to provider’s profiles, pictures and info~ A small annual fee and a privately secured credit card number would decrease the number of malicious acts by stalkers, scammers and others~

Moving my home base is exactly how I got trapped into paying for two profiles. Rentmen would not allow me to move my homebase back into the country if I moved it out. I tend to spend a lot of time abroad… A few years ago, Rentmen wouldn’t allow me to move my ad out of Croatia. It took almost a month to remedy and I had to pay for that while we were sorting it all out~ I know what you’re talking about as it applies to the states though. I’m really happy for your input here and for taking the time to think about these things in different ways. It’s thought-provoking and I think these are things that need to be addressed. There aren’t many other sites out there and I think it’s very easy for people to just sort of give up because there is no other venue. It doesn’t mean that the venue that’s available is right or can’t be improved

What is stopping them from ever doing that is they can’t enforce 2257 compliance~ That requires Signatures, identification add files to be kept in a readily available file box in case the federal government or anybody else wants to check to make sure that everybody is legal age.

So much fun… I love careful attention to my nipples~ The feeling there is identical to the sensations I have in my cock~ It’s like having three penises~ Variable play on my nipples makes my hard cock harder and drip non stop~ I’ve cum in the past from guys playing just with my nipples~ I feel the sensation in my dick, my ass, my chest, lower back, fore arms and sounds of my feet… also the back of my neck and top of my head~ After I cum, they just wanna be left alone for awhile… after a short time, they are ready to go and it’s often the precursor to another hard on and fuck session~

I think we’re that is confusing for a client is that a provider appears to be in two cities at one time. So you’ve got a Client Looking at your profile and one city because it says you are there in a client in another city contacting you because it looks like you’re also in that city even though you’re only in one. And I the remedy would be to just let you overlap your dates. That way you can adjust for time zone changes that the site itself fails to do

The travel section also fails where you can’t listen to nearby cities at the same time on the same dates. If I’m in New York City and want to list for a particular date, I cannot overlap the dates that I am also available in New Jersey. I can’t list Milwaukee and Madison Wisconsin for the same dates even though I can easily drive to either city within a matter of 45 minutes. I do that frequently… I can’t list in Chicago and Milwaukee at the same time for the same dates but I do commute to both cities while I’m working. It’s super inconvenient and inefficient. They’ve basically taken on the format of the old rentboy platform. It’s just abusive to escorts and it’s not very supportive.

Thx, Mike~ 🙂

Well spoken~

You might think differently if you had stalkers or people trespassing on your property or you were subjected to property damage or violence… I’m all for that extra screening. I feel pretty confident When I say that being gay definitely does not make one immune to violence or discrimination.

Sex work might also be designated as essential work and the providers essential providers. It satisfies a demand as you say and also a need, (needs), within society itself. Intimacy and a safe outlet for the human condition is essential for the safety of society~ often times it seems that this industry is diminished to a microscopic singles element of “sex”… but, the industry has so much more to offer: intimacy guidance, relationship building, health management, emotional and psychological support… training and sharing in the arts, science, law/politics, provision of camaraderie as well as counsel… it’s a way to educate people about not only sexuality but sensuality, love, intimacy. There is the sexual Provider, Geisha Companion, Escort Provider… each are different but essential~ Not excepting this profession isn’t just ignorance, (actively ignoring its existence and importance), but, damaging to society. Historically in the past when oppression has been the modus operandi for service provision, sex crimes have increased, incidence of sexually transmitted diseases increased… It not unreasonable to compare statistics with countries that accept prostitution and escorting to countries where it’s oppressed~ It’s not unreasonable to strive for change~

You have a very good point when you say that what people typically think about this industry, about Clients and Service providers has a tendency to be both stereotyped and stigmatized~ Both of those things are additionally, conditional and specific to various generations. Different generations have grown up with different ideas about what service provision is and how providers as citizens and people are to be valued~ One generation grew up in a time where homosexuality was not only illegal but a mental disease… I don’t even mean disorder I mean disease. Another generation grew up after stonewall, after the aids crisis and enjoyed the liberties that the generation before them fought so hard for. Still another group of people have grown up with coronavirus. Sometimes we teach each other through mentorship other times we simply sport about with our own personal opinions. There is no right or wrong to that. I think that it’s simply reality to a certain extent. That’s not always the case but, I do observe it~ The industry really took on a new form when HooBoy started this forum and review site. It challenged previous beliefs about who we were as individuals and as a community… it challenged what we had to offer as providers, created a safety from street hustling and raised the bar on expectations for both Clients and Service Providers~ Thank you: HooBoy, Daddy and Current moderators for this essential and beneficial service~!!! When the previous administration changed human trafficking laws a few years ago, it effected not only the adult film industry but, also the Escort and prostitution industry, essentially lumping everyone together under a drug control effort and surveillance of potential trafficking of miners~ This also included how state and local agencies run sti clinics: some places diminished a person’s anonymity and now ask questions regarding whether the person being tested exchanges sexual services for cash and has any children~ This especially effects a number of the female courtesans. A number of agencies that female courtesans used to work through were forced to shut down. (Madison amd back page). Their privacy during screening for STI‘s was not assured and it made it more difficult for these providers to get sti screening~ When that happened, safety also decreased and some percentage of women providers went back to street walking. Our attitudes in this country have been challenged and evolving to greater and lesser degrees depending on the political climate… It is both my hope and pursuit to eventually have this profession of escorting and prostitution legalized. I’m fine with paying taxes. I would even like to see a union and some health insurance coverage and incentives for both Providers and Clients to get STI screening. We are sexual beings and people are not gonna stop having sex. It’s important that we advocate to make it legal and safe. Some of that will take sheer ambition, organization and strength… Some of that will take patience and understanding… And coming back to your original point, there is a great need to overcome the negative stereotyping and stigmatizing that is too easily excepted in this country