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How do I add images to this thread~? Never mind… I think I’ve got it~

Mmmmmm… furrrrrr Was wondering where I’d left my N95~ I’d best put that back on immediately~!

I have a fondness for Edinbrugh and was considering a move there prior to the pandemic but, was waiting to see what way matters would fall with Brexit, (went on for seemingly ever). I was, in fact, en route to London and Italy to make the choice late Feb 2020 when the Kali Yuga made its global debuts~ I generally am home based in Scotland, London and Italy. It’s a bit of a choice what each I should choose to move to now that Brexit has gone thru~ One post Brexit. One one the fence and one firmly seated in the EU~ One Schengen, one not and all humbled to Red Crowned Queen Corona~ I’ve still fingers in the pie but, only one currency will make the clean up afterward a less messy ordeal~ That being said and to the topic: Cash and bank transfer but, I still fancy Bouillon~ There was an Escort-Client couple I knew years ago who suggested exchanging all cash currency to gold~ It was a brilliant suggestion that came to blossom around 2009 and forward~

Thank you for explaining that… I actually did not know much about it. It’s pretty fascinating really~ if Scotland should ever separate from the UK, do you think they’ll keep their own currency of the Scottish £ or Try to join the EU and take on the euro?

How about some furry ones…

Oh… It’s funny about the Scottish £~ I was in the UK and a busy boy a good four months out of they year prior to the pandemic~ (2012 to 2020). When I first started working there one of my Clients gave me a combination of British and Scottish £~ I hesitated~ They caught that and reassured me that there was no problem with the cash. I did ask if I could spend that in London and they said yes there’s no problem, they’re interchangeable. It was a little confusing for me but, I took him at his word~ In my complete ignorance, I actually was unaware that Scottish £ were a viable thing~ I don’t know why but, I think I had this idea that there was just the one currency. I think this idea came from the EU because, once those countries joined together, there was only the euro. You didn’t see drachmas, Lire and all that other stuff anymore. So some part of me was just a little bit cautious that maybe the Scottish £ were also obsolete~ They were, of course, fine~

Painpal is soOoOoOoO complicated~ I guess it works for some people. Years ago I heard that people could reverse the charges within a 24 hour period. I never encountered that during the few times I used PayPal but, on a couple of occasions, the transfer didn’t go through. Instead, it got sent to some holding account where it was sitting indefinitely. In order to change that, we had to call customerservice and wait on the phone for an hour or so… after that we were told to call back. We did: more waiting… then transferred to somebody else… Then they had to “look into it” and there were some other complications… I had to call customer service separately… additionally, the client had to call customer service as well… The whole thing was just so uncomfortable for everybody. They also charge a fee… Zelle is my second choice after cash~ It works great and is so simple~ It’s secure, fast and doesn’t have any service fees~ I guess people worried about privacy will be worried about that but, if you’ve exchanged phone numbers, traveled with anybody, shared email addresses, gone to someone’s home you either have all that information anyway or you can get it if you really want it. There are phone services that take credit cards but, I haven’t actually used them. I’m set up for that though. I’ve also got a little tiny box that a person can tap, slide or dip their card into~ I haven’t used that either… It seems pretty simple. Credit seems to suggest device and service charge to me~ Cash is easy… I will except that over anything else. Some people have asked if I accept checks or paid partially with cash and partially with check but, that requires a period of clearing within the bank. It also may require me to wait until I arrive back home if they mail The check. This can some time to be problematic if I’m using some of my cash to also pay for expenses in other cities that I might be going to and there’s no chance of my cashing the check until I return home and have my mail service started again~ So, it’s the point there: a check isn’t necessarily readily available~ If something happens before the check clears and they are unable to process the check, that’s more time. There can also be fees associated with a check not clearing… Trying to go after somebody who has written you a bad check isn’t what anyone wants to do and just sends off bad vibes~ It’s too complicated~ So, it’s cash or Zelle~

Is this client looking for ownership~? Is it basically some form of indentured servitude~? Is that Client also being exclusive~? Is consideration taken for each other’s aging, individual needs and growth, personal likes and dislikes, social needs, family and friends or is this person asking you also to give up all of that for what basically amounts to financial support as long as that person wants to do that for you~? I don’t think it would be a snap decision… It seems like a very important decision that you would make with somebody you know well over time and experience shared somehow~ I try to imagine reversing the question... If somebody was a successful Service Provider and asked one of their Clients to move, be exclusive to them and in return that Client would be provided for, (whatever they broad term means), would they do it~? If I put myself into either one of these scenarios, I still end up with one collective summation: Paid Compromise~ The image that comes to mind with that summation is: 🚩🚩🚩

Yeah some of those translator services can be wonderful. There is actually some apps that translate things for you in the moment. You talk in English and your phone kicks it out in the other language. It’s pretty real time. Then the other person talks into your phone and it translates it back into English. It’s actually kind of fun. I am fairly skilled at understanding things in a number of different languages but, I’m not always as fluid answering back. On several occasions, I met with somebody where our language barriers were extreme. So, I resorted to pieces of paper and stick figures. That led to a lot of fun plus a lot of surprises. It was actually really fun and funny all at the same time and it worked really well as who doesn’t love that~? I have a number of clients who are deaf. They’re better at reading lips than I am and their communication style is really concise and compacted. That’s my impression anyway. It’s a lot more efficient to communicate through ASL especially when it includes body language communication~ The one Client I had that was mute was an incredible texting communicator and what this person could convey thru touch, breathing, eyes was beyond beautiful~ The experiences were esthetic ones I would liken to Listening to some moving music, tasting a delicious bite of food or smelling a fragrant flower. In some kink/pervy/BDSM situation… Well… there may be limited ability or opportunity to talk anyway, (either on the restrained partner or the unrestrained partner). If other sensory dep is part of the play, then timing, touch, sensation and being aware of the undulation of emotions, psychology and energy exchange define the communication style~ My general rule of thumb whether the same language is spoken or not at all, is to let your eyes, kiss, touch and heart do the communicating for you. People generally understand and respond to that language. Sometimes, words can just complicate things.

Yes… I also sense that there is some truth to what you are saying regarding the vitality and profitability of the industry being correlated with travel and hospitality industries. Airfares, hotel prices, those kinds of things. In some instances the hotels have better availability and more affordable pricing. Cars on the other hand can be more expensive depending on where you go. Airfares have increased significantly. Availability of restaurants and their safety is a variable factor. Obviously, the types of things that done outside of “Play Time” have changed: where are we used to frequent dining places, movie theaters, sports events, music events, festivals and that sort of thing Arnell were often occupied by private and intimate canoeing trips, kayak adventures, romantic interlude‘s for a weekend or week in a log cabin… Climbing mountains and hiking. I’m finding there’s still a lot to do and we are able to be super active if we want or romantically private too~ While hotel guest services had become limited in some instances and it’s hard to get extra towels and trash pick up, I really like that the hotels and facilities that I stay at usually have very good cleaning protocol and allow 24 to 48 to 72 hours between guest visitors in any given room. In someways, it makes hiring for longer engagements more cost effective because there’s not quite as much money going out towards entertainment venues. On the other hand, some peoples income has been affected by the pandemic and some peoples ability to get away for some private time is more difficult. There’s still people working from home and unable to travel as much or unwilling. People may be a little more tied to their families since they’re not out moving around in the world as much. Personally, I lost more than a hand full of clients to Covid in 2020 and S’more in 2021 prior to the greater advent of vaccines… we are still learning about this very new virus, we are still undergoing changes and along with that comes growth as well as a bit of fear of the unknown and misunderstanding. I think we’re still traveling along the learning curve with this one and it’s different for each individual. It seems that there is more of an emotional and psychological and even spiritual component to the reasons people are hiring now… So, I’m personally finding myself engaged in those aspects more than usual despite really being engaged in those particular things to pretty high degree anyways even prior to covid. I have always really loved kissing and I still do. I’m really loving that embracing, kissing, intimate bonding that’s happening now. Prior to the pandemic, it was slightly different. Now that intimacy as a need has taken on a new meaning and importance. I’m intimacy-based and so, I’m really enjoying exchanging that at its new level~

A client once told me that I should get the vaccine for stupidity. I told him I was down for that but, I didn’t want the live VAX~

Nope… it all stays on the site in the chat.

I don’t know… Right now some of their change includes tightening up what images you can post on your profile. On the public profile you can only post images that have the profile owner in it and what they are doing in those images is now being regulated. You can post images with other people in them in the private gallery but, there are also conditions evolving around what is acceptable there as well. The irony of all of that is, you can post videos of porn movies that you’ve been in that show all of the same stuff. The viewer can see that content by either being a premium member or by asking the profile owner for access. Where I see something problematic is, content that is seen in the videos is sometimes exactly what is not allowed to be shown as still photos even in the private galleries. There are plenty of paid sites, (even things like Apple Apps etc.), that require all members to provide a name, birthdate and credit card… It is held securely and not open to the public. They are not billed anything unless they purchase a specific service and so it doesn’t show up on their credit card statements. Rentmen could do this with non-prescribers as well. It doesn’t mean that they are or have to purchase anything but, it’s effectively decreases the number of scammers, users making multiple profiles and others who are abusing the site and service providers on it. I often contemplate what the eventual result is if the site continues to fractionalize the various types of service provision into separate sites… again, it’s something I wonder about not something I have the answers to~ ?Are service providers then going to have to register and pay for multiple ads in each area so that they are fairly represented in what they market as a service~? If a person is a masseur, a stripper, an escort and Porn Star… Will they now be charged for four areas~? I definitely think you are onto something when you say that some of the financial burden on service providers on RM, can be offset by fairly and duely charging some sort of fee for accessing specific content… As long as some of that goes back to the service provider and not all of it to Rentmen. ?Does the site’s liability change if they are doing something to assist the service provider in earning income~? One part of me wonders if that would be a legal concern for them but, I don’t know. You could incorporate something like “onlyfans” into it but, I think they already have live camming and I’m not are about the “onlyfans” ran into legal issues recently whatever those were about. Maybe, non registered users can get sneak previews of service providers public pix, “about me” and travel content but, must register at some basic discrete level to gain more access to other areas including “service provider off site communication info”~ They would still be able to communicate with service providers via RM email but, they would not have access to Chat or a service providers direct phone number or email address unless they became a registered basic user who has a secure credit card on file, name and address. Users could then use that secure credit card they have put down to gain one time or multiple viewing levels of access to privileged service provider media content~ I think overall, the situation needing address is safety for service providers and not “nickle and diming” service providers into additional extravagant operational costs to advertise with them~ RM could also utilize their nonservice provider advertising platform to a greater extent… let companies like Butt Brite, ox Balls. IML, Southern Decadence etc purchase more ad space from them~ Maybe have an ad and shop forum as per of their site or have an option/way for service providers to have their own e-commerce area on their profile where they can sell their underwear, leather, prime pix~ Non registered users would see the site with ads and registered users would enjoy the benefits of the site without ads

I am not at all opposed to changing the laws around Prostitution, Escorting, Massage Therapy, Sex therapy, Sexual Medical Advocacy, etc., so that these issues of business operation, taxes, wages, retirement, health care benefits, expenses, etc, can be better addressed~

On a purely sexual level… What I find to be a completely wonderful experience is how a persons scent overall, (and in specific places on their body), blooms with a sex scent throughout the experience and how those different flavors waft out, melt/infuse together to create a very unique signature on any given episode. I can often taste and smell my partners sexual bloom and general sent on me for hours and sometimes days after we have played. It’s also entertaining and fascinating for me when I can smell sex on other people… It is at times possible to pick out who they’ve played with when you can recognize their scents individually otherwise~

That’s a very good point that you bring up regarding cultural differences… And if I may also include not only cultural differences abroad between different cities in different countries but, the same holds true from state to state in “America”~ The demographics and how people view/operate/navigate the profession is very different in New York City than it is from Florida or California or Texas or Montana or Utah or Idaho or Ohio or Wisconsin or… or… or… my experience leads me to think that each region has its own structure, organization and mentality regarding Prostitution and Escorting, (and others related Service Provider specialist careers like masseuses, sex therapists etc…~). Some of the things impacting all of that are: local economy, local law, local mindsets/religion/belief systems, Proportion of ethnic diversity, the poverty to affluence ratio… and more~

Insurance that is structured into your profession is one of the things that allows for your “completed reimbursement” for all your services. That is not the case in either Escorting or Prostitution in this country. Neither physicians nor lawyers exchange with their clients/patients on the same degree of intimacy as Service Providers~ In an obvious example: I’m guessing that you don’t have sex with your patients. That alone is a game changer if not in theory, by law. Imagine if a physician had no insurance structured into their businesses and charged each patient exactly the same amount each time. It would absolutely change the demographics of being a physician and a patient. Imagine if sexual relations was part of that job. Imagine if being a physician was limited by laws the way prostitution is. Escorting is limited by laws in its own way but, actually different than prostitution. It is not an uncommon theme that Prostitution is legally recognized as the exchange of sex for money, (etc), while Escorting is seen as an exchange of money for time and not for specific services rendered. Some of us service providers have been with our clients when they passed away… We’ve sat with them just like maybe you have. While some things we do in our professions operate on the surface similarly, they are very, very different professions operating on a very different level in so many other ways. While I can lump Physicians, nurses, lawyers, wait staff, restaurant owners, teachers, armed forces, corporations, LLC’s, landscapers, surveyors, Escorts and Prostitutes all as service providers, they are by nature not the same as don’t operate on a single business modality.

I think the rate schedule comes into play here as well… I mean if a Service Provider is asking for $250 for one hour and their transportation fee to get to their Client is nearly $100 round trip and 3 to 6 hours travel time and the parking is another $30+, there’s a cost effectiveness concern~ Service Providers are not making lawyer and physician salaries and the workflow is different. The liabilities are different for each. The overhead is different for each. They are very different professions and each are run differently. I’ve seen the situation where a patient is charged for not showing up an appointment… The patient can be billed directly or through the insurance company. That is not an option with a service provider . While physicians and Lawyers both charge for time on their own merit and way, they also have insurance companies involved. The financial burden is not exclusively on the patient. The tax structure for these jobs is different as well… Some Service Providers are “providers beyond borders”, a physician with a clinic is not a “doctor beyond borders” and operates differently than ones who are. While tipping doctors, lawyers, office and factory jobs isn’t appropriate, tipping waiters, chefs, cab drivers, Uber and Lyft is expected~ All of those jobs have retirement plans, bonuses, tax structures, raises, overtime, etc built in~ Escorting and Prostitution do not~ I think it would be awesome if some of those things were structured into the escort/prostitution profession~ Maybe that could happen if the laws around that profession changed or if there were service provider unions. I personally don’t ask for my Clients to pay for my Ubers and Lyfts. I never ask for a “show up fee”, (some base rate just because I’ve arrived), I’ve never put Clients on the cafeteria plan where what I charge them for is based on what we do. I’ve seen all of those things in places like London, california, some places abroad and notoriously Florida~ I’ve seen things where providers charge different rates depending on their clients age, physical appearance and health. I don’t do any of that myself, but I’ve seen that~ In fact, physicians and lawyers actually do that sort of thing just by the nature of their business… both lawyers and physicians operate on a cafeteria type fee schedule: There was an office fee, and then whatever incidentals might accrue for whatever malady a patient is being seen for. I’ve also seen service providers charge their Clients similarly and including transportation to and fro. I think what they’re trying to do is offset their overhead~ They may also charge exorbitant fees or extra for their specific or specialty services, (and include additional fees for prep time for the same reasons… Since I don’t operate my own personal business that way, I don’t know the exact reasons they do this but, I can see why in some instances paying for transportation makes sense and other times it does not. Obviously, a physician running their own clinic is not charging each individual patient to drive that physician to and from his office per patient visit but, Also, each patient is not being charged exactly the same price for whatever their visit is about. Imagine how different the scenario would be if the patient was expecting the doctor to do house calls a vast percentage of the time instead of operate out of an office and the house calls were I different counties, states, countries~ Imagine if a physician could only charge a single fee to their patients for services rendered. in my mind… The idea of comparing the business modality of physicians and lawyers to Service Providers seems problematic and potential for inaccuracies~ It might make a difference if prostitutes, Escorts etc we’re able to formulate their businesses as corporations, LLC’s etc~

Nom nom nom…

Not a simple topic… I mean we use words every day that given the context and intention can be either supportive and endearing or damaging and critical. Words like babe, boy, Liberal, conservative, you name it… You can take just about anything and what really initiates an impact is the intent and the context… Sometimes people will misunderstand the intent if they are outside of the context. That in itself can be damaging… You never know what another persons past experiences are or how they intend themselves to interpret something they’re seeing or hearing. I could say this word: “bijnibipple ChA~!” without really knowing what it means… It could mean anything and be applied to anything depending on how one uses the word and what the intent is for using it. I could call somebody that out of anger and that’s what it would mean. I could call somebody that because I think they’re just the cutest thing in the world and it could mean that… I could call them that in a really cute way but my intention might be to say it out of anger and it would mean that. Part of getting to the reality of the situation is trying to understand things objectively and perhaps not reacting to them so quickly. I’m not saying that race play is either right or wrong, good or evil… It really depends on the circumstance, the context and the intent. It also involves the viewer who may love or take offense at something. There seems a strong likelihood that one has a responsibility for one’s actions and words when then can be misinterpreted by the people around you. Not that a person is, (persons are), responsible for interpreting things for other people but, understand that they may not understand the intention and they may not see the context which some words, actions, sensual or sexual acts take place… If you know that something is going to be said or done and probably taken the wrong way, how responsible is the delivering party~? I’m wondering if that is the question here… Comedians deal with this frequently~ Are they funny or damaging… and to whom and how~?

Nice toes…

Oh yeah… That’s absolutely true. You can smell meds on people. Sometimes it smells like seawater… Kind of salty, like salty air. Antibiotics smell like sulphur and metallic. Not in an offensive way… just different from a body without those. With women… I smell the iron. I really pick up on minerals in things. I can smell zinc, magnesium, iron and tell if things are acidic or alkaline… You know my 23 and me says I have a larger share of Neanderthal. I’m pretty certain that’s true~ In recent years up until 2020, I found myself spending about four months out of the year in the UK… The rest of the time I was traveling around Asia and India and Eastern Europe while only dipping into the states maybe four months out of the year total intermittently. The great thing about the UK is that their air index is somewhere between one and two at any given time… These people have some pretty clear air going on.

What’s that cologne you’re wearing~? Says I as I plummet face first into the ass end of someone in their underwear

I took my gifs down because I need to read the guidelines to see what is it acceptable and what is not…

I am especially attuned to the scent of ass… Can’t get enough