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If you choose the solo route I would suggest getting your feet wet with a 1 hr session. IMHO the older guys (over 35) are better to start off with. Usually they are better communicators and more relaxed. For a first experience have a few clear objectives to accomplish and just get comfortable….and enjoy.

Think of all the money you’ve saved on escorts over the past year… I’ve upped my tipping lately because it seems like the right thing to do

I feel a sense of comfort when an escort I’ve contacted looks at my profile and shows up on the “who saw me” list….it shows at least an above average degree of engagement

Nice enough guy- I tried him once several years ago. You can PM me for details.

Aneros…my favorite

A friend of mine is on immunosuppressive therapy for a kidney condition. He went off his meds and got the full Moderna vaccine. After that he had an antibody test many weeks later and found that he still had no antibodies to Covid. Healthy people need to get vaccinated to help those who are vulnerable through no fault of their own

Really nice guy. I’ve seen him a bunch of times. He’s a lot of fun

I think you are overthinking things. Sometimes it's just nice to have a stranger come in and let things flow organically and see how things lead.

Every time I've agreed to pay a deposit, I've regretted it. There is no upside for the client. Even if they tell you that you are reserving a specific time for you, there is no assurance that they will honor that. It's now my policy to never agree to pay upfront. I've never stood up an escort appointment but I have been stood up by escorts many times for a whole host of reasons. Those requesting deposits are very much in the minority. Despite the strong economy, there are plenty of others out there who still don't require it.

Indirectly he is letting you know that he doesn't want to spend time with you....he just wants your money. Especially heinous for a repeat customer Find someone who really grooves on you- the experience will be even better. You've already let him know how you feel so you already have one foot out the door. Take the other one out and move on.

I spent a few days in NYC a few weeks ago. Stayed at the POD hotel in Times Square at 9th and 42nd. Inexpensive and the room and bathroom was spotless if not a little small. I would definitely stay there again

When any escort quotes me a rate that is out of line, my new policy is to simply respond with “Thanks- I’ve booked someone else” and leave it at that.

A rate doubling is a bit out of line. He is indirectly giving you permission to move on. Take it.

Then you will probably enjoy him

I saw him in Portland earlier this year. Nice enough guy and his pix matched his profile. Things went off the rails when I asked him to top me with a condom though. Needless to say, I didn’t get topped. If you like it BB then you will likely have a better experience than me. Not inclined to arrange a rematch even though he is in my city now

Go with you gut on this one. I’ve also found that curt responses are harbingers of disappointment

I saw him a week ago. Send him a note via Rentmen Messenger.

If you are in a position where you are worried about your weight then it should be a wake-up call to better spend your hard earned money in the gym and take it off. I speak from personal experience in this having shed close to 100 pounds over the past 10 years in multiple attempts. Sorry if I offend anyone but that’s my personal view on this. Health trumps pleasure.

Nothing says “I love you” like a dumpster. My partner is a serial slob hoarder. On my 50th birthday I received a 15cuyd dumpster. We had the best time filling it up and getting rid of the junk. We had such a good time that it got repeated the next year

Don’t do anything...let it go. People have all kinds of things going on in their lives and it’s not an issue that you need to fix. He will contact you when he is ready to engage and if he doesn’t, then find someone better.

I’ve encountered this a bunch of times. Look for escorts that specify safe only. It increases your chances

Life is too short to overthink things. There are no right or wrong answers. Go with what makes you feel good. You won’t die from jeopardizing one relationship. Just be honest with your client.

Personally I prefer the element of surprise meeting someone new. And quite often even with a pic they can look very different in real life depending on their hair situation. Go with what works for you

I’ve seen Patrick as well. Great guy and a wonderful massager. Very clean setup too. Well worth the visit. He is by far the best I’ve experienced in PDX out of about 5 that I’ve tried there

I wish I had put more money into my Roth IRA when I was younger and had a lower income. Now that I’m retired my income is higher than it was when I made a lot of that money. Taxes are likely to go up in the future and all that Roth money grows tax free. Interest rates are at all time lows and there has never been a better time to finance things like houses and education. If medicine is your calling then go for it. Don’t beat yourself up trying to maximize return on every dollar- diversify your risk by trying lots of different things. Some will be winners and some will be losers...that’s life. Worry more about your happiness than your bank account