Jamie21

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

There was a straight dancer at the club that I hired for private sessions a few times. He loved, loved being rimmed, I remember one time I was rimming him and he was rock hard and leaking a LOT of pre-come. But he was adamant about "no penetration".

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

I always ask at the end. It’s important my clients get satisfaction before they pay. I’ve never had anyone refuse or ask for a discount afterwards. Just one guy who said he didn’t have cash and didn’t want to pay by card...so I think he was hoping I’d say “don’t worry about paying then because you were so hot”....
He wasn’t hot and he wasn’t going to have it free. So I said I would walk with him to the cash point which was about a 5 minute walk away. It was a very awkward walk and I half expected him to run. I’m trained martial artist so he wouldn’t have got far....Anyway, we arrive at cash machine and he withdrew the cash and handed it to me. Next time he wanted to book I was busy. I don’t need chancers like that.
Guys, have payment ready, cash, card or PayPal. It’s not difficult.

I answer the door in shorts and t shirt because there could be someone else at the door or I meet someone on the stairs. Then, once inside my studio I remove my top.
 
I give my client the choice of me starting naked or removing my shorts (or whatever I’m wearing...some guys ask me to wear a jock or backless pants or cycling shorts) during the massage. I always end up naked by the end of the massage so that they can touch me or suck me (or more) if they want to.
 
A lot of my clients like to feel my cock through the shorts and enjoy not knowing when or if they’ll come off. I’m extremely hung so it sometimes sticks out of the side or bottom of the shorts and they like to feel it as I massage them.
 
There are a lot of dynamics going on with massage that can be used to heighten the sexual tension for the client. Being part undressed is just one of them.

I’m on justforfans
https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim
https://rentmasseur.com/JamieW
 
I started it because the massage work declined during lockdowns. I had made massage porn previously for about 4 years but that was for a specialist site. I wanted to make my own films and control the production etc so I decided to use Justforfans over Onlyfans because Justforfans is gay owned by a sex industry worker.
 
It takes a lot of work to make good porn. We use proper lighting, 3 or 4 cameras and professional editing. If guys want to promote their work on fans sites and make some money I think that’s great, I know how much effort it takes. If you don’t like it no one is forcing you to subscribe.
 
I agree that there are some very amateurish efforts on the sites where guys are charging stupid amounts to watch them masturbate in their messy bedroom filmed on a phone....those guys want something for nothing but most of the masseurs are putting up good quality content. Please support them if you are able to and if you like what they do.

I always ask at the end. It’s important my clients get satisfaction before they pay. I’ve never had anyone refuse or ask for a discount afterwards. Just one guy who said he didn’t have cash and didn’t want to pay by card...so I think he was hoping I’d say “don’t worry about paying then because you were so hot”....
He wasn’t hot and he wasn’t going to have it free. So I said I would walk with him to the cash point which was about a 5 minute walk away. It was a very awkward walk and I half expected him to run. I’m trained martial artist so he wouldn’t have got far....Anyway, we arrive at cash machine and he withdrew the cash and handed it to me. Next time he wanted to book I was busy. I don’t need chancers like that.
Guys, have payment ready, cash, card or PayPal. It’s not difficult.

I’m on justforfans
https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim
https://rentmasseur.com/JamieW
 
I started it because the massage work declined during lockdowns. I had made massage porn previously for about 4 years but that was for a specialist site. I wanted to make my own films and control the production etc so I decided to use Justforfans over Onlyfans because Justforfans is gay owned by a sex industry worker.
 
It takes a lot of work to make good porn. We use proper lighting, 3 or 4 cameras and professional editing. If guys want to promote their work on fans sites and make some money I think that’s great, I know how much effort it takes. If you don’t like it no one is forcing you to subscribe.
 
I agree that there are some very amateurish efforts on the sites where guys are charging stupid amounts to watch them masturbate in their messy bedroom filmed on a phone....those guys want something for nothing but most of the masseurs are putting up good quality content. Please support them if you are able to and if you like what they do.

I always ask at the end. It’s important my clients get satisfaction before they pay. I’ve never had anyone refuse or ask for a discount afterwards. Just one guy who said he didn’t have cash and didn’t want to pay by card...so I think he was hoping I’d say “don’t worry about paying then because you were so hot”....
He wasn’t hot and he wasn’t going to have it free. So I said I would walk with him to the cash point which was about a 5 minute walk away. It was a very awkward walk and I half expected him to run. I’m trained martial artist so he wouldn’t have got far....Anyway, we arrive at cash machine and he withdrew the cash and handed it to me. Next time he wanted to book I was busy. I don’t need chancers like that.
Guys, have payment ready, cash, card or PayPal. It’s not difficult.

I answer the door in shorts and t shirt because there could be someone else at the door or I meet someone on the stairs. Then, once inside my studio I remove my top.
 
I give my client the choice of me starting naked or removing my shorts (or whatever I’m wearing...some guys ask me to wear a jock or backless pants or cycling shorts) during the massage. I always end up naked by the end of the massage so that they can touch me or suck me (or more) if they want to.
 
A lot of my clients like to feel my cock through the shorts and enjoy not knowing when or if they’ll come off. I’m extremely hung so it sometimes sticks out of the side or bottom of the shorts and they like to feel it as I massage them.
 
There are a lot of dynamics going on with massage that can be used to heighten the sexual tension for the client. Being part undressed is just one of them.

I’m on justforfans
https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim
https://rentmasseur.com/JamieW
 
I started it because the massage work declined during lockdowns. I had made massage porn previously for about 4 years but that was for a specialist site. I wanted to make my own films and control the production etc so I decided to use Justforfans over Onlyfans because Justforfans is gay owned by a sex industry worker.
 
It takes a lot of work to make good porn. We use proper lighting, 3 or 4 cameras and professional editing. If guys want to promote their work on fans sites and make some money I think that’s great, I know how much effort it takes. If you don’t like it no one is forcing you to subscribe.
 
I agree that there are some very amateurish efforts on the sites where guys are charging stupid amounts to watch them masturbate in their messy bedroom filmed on a phone....those guys want something for nothing but most of the masseurs are putting up good quality content. Please support them if you are able to and if you like what they do.

I’m on justforfans
https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim
https://rentmasseur.com/JamieW
 
I started it because the massage work declined during lockdowns. I had made massage porn previously for about 4 years but that was for a specialist site. I wanted to make my own films and control the production etc so I decided to use Justforfans over Onlyfans because Justforfans is gay owned by a sex industry worker.
 
It takes a lot of work to make good porn. We use proper lighting, 3 or 4 cameras and professional editing. If guys want to promote their work on fans sites and make some money I think that’s great, I know how much effort it takes. If you don’t like it no one is forcing you to subscribe.
 
I agree that there are some very amateurish efforts on the sites where guys are charging stupid amounts to watch them masturbate in their messy bedroom filmed on a phone....those guys want something for nothing but most of the masseurs are putting up good quality content. Please support them if you are able to and if you like what they do.

I always ask at the end. It’s important my clients get satisfaction before they pay. I’ve never had anyone refuse or ask for a discount afterwards. Just one guy who said he didn’t have cash and didn’t want to pay by card...so I think he was hoping I’d say “don’t worry about paying then because you were so hot”....
He wasn’t hot and he wasn’t going to have it free. So I said I would walk with him to the cash point which was about a 5 minute walk away. It was a very awkward walk and I half expected him to run. I’m trained martial artist so he wouldn’t have got far....Anyway, we arrive at cash machine and he withdrew the cash and handed it to me. Next time he wanted to book I was busy. I don’t need chancers like that.
Guys, have payment ready, cash, card or PayPal. It’s not difficult.

No he wasn’t even very good! He wouldn’t have known that though, I make him feel that he was good. That’s the job ?

I feel awkward if my client pays up front. It usually happens if they’re an inexperienced hirer. I just ask at the end how they’d like to pay if they haven’t offered the payment after an appropriate time (usually when they’re dressing). When they book I let them know I can take credit cards so they can either do that or pay cash.
 
Never had any issues except one guy who said afterwards that he didn’t have the cash and had no card. I said I’d walk with him to the cash machine do he could withdraw it. I think he thought I’d say that he was such a good fuck I’d do it for free!

I always ask at the end. It’s important my clients get satisfaction before they pay. I’ve never had anyone refuse or ask for a discount afterwards. Just one guy who said he didn’t have cash and didn’t want to pay by card...so I think he was hoping I’d say “don’t worry about paying then because you were so hot”....
He wasn’t hot and he wasn’t going to have it free. So I said I would walk with him to the cash point which was about a 5 minute walk away. It was a very awkward walk and I half expected him to run. I’m trained martial artist so he wouldn’t have got far....Anyway, we arrive at cash machine and he withdrew the cash and handed it to me. Next time he wanted to book I was busy. I don’t need chancers like that.
Guys, have payment ready, cash, card or PayPal. It’s not difficult.

I always ask at the end. It’s important my clients get satisfaction before they pay. I’ve never had anyone refuse or ask for a discount afterwards. Just one guy who said he didn’t have cash and didn’t want to pay by card...so I think he was hoping I’d say “don’t worry about paying then because you were so hot”....
He wasn’t hot and he wasn’t going to have it free. So I said I would walk with him to the cash point which was about a 5 minute walk away. It was a very awkward walk and I half expected him to run. I’m trained martial artist so he wouldn’t have got far....Anyway, we arrive at cash machine and he withdrew the cash and handed it to me. Next time he wanted to book I was busy. I don’t need chancers like that.
Guys, have payment ready, cash, card or PayPal. It’s not difficult.

I answer the door in shorts and t shirt because there could be someone else at the door or I meet someone on the stairs. Then, once inside my studio I remove my top.
 
I give my client the choice of me starting naked or removing my shorts (or whatever I’m wearing...some guys ask me to wear a jock or backless pants or cycling shorts) during the massage. I always end up naked by the end of the massage so that they can touch me or suck me (or more) if they want to.
 
A lot of my clients like to feel my cock through the shorts and enjoy not knowing when or if they’ll come off. I’m extremely hung so it sometimes sticks out of the side or bottom of the shorts and they like to feel it as I massage them.
 
There are a lot of dynamics going on with massage that can be used to heighten the sexual tension for the client. Being part undressed is just one of them.

I feel awkward if my client pays up front. It usually happens if they’re an inexperienced hirer. I just ask at the end how they’d like to pay if they haven’t offered the payment after an appropriate time (usually when they’re dressing). When they book I let them know I can take credit cards so they can either do that or pay cash.
 
Never had any issues except one guy who said afterwards that he didn’t have the cash and had no card. I said I’d walk with him to the cash machine do he could withdraw it. I think he thought I’d say that he was such a good fuck I’d do it for free!

The terminology might have slightly different nuances depending on whether sexual services are legal in a jurisdiction.
 
I think in my experience in the UK ‘sensual’ always includes a happy ending, and therapeutic definitely doesn’t. I advertise sensual and include words like “release” and “intimate” in the description if the medium of advertising requires discretion so that my clients are in no doubt about the sexual nature of the service. The rates for sensual are usually higher than therapeutic because of the sexual activity involved, especially if the provider is fine to go further than a hand job. It should be clear from their pitch how far they’re prepared to go.

The terminology might have slightly different nuances depending on whether sexual services are legal in a jurisdiction.
 
I think in my experience in the UK ‘sensual’ always includes a happy ending, and therapeutic definitely doesn’t. I advertise sensual and include words like “release” and “intimate” in the description if the medium of advertising requires discretion so that my clients are in no doubt about the sexual nature of the service. The rates for sensual are usually higher than therapeutic because of the sexual activity involved, especially if the provider is fine to go further than a hand job. It should be clear from their pitch how far they’re prepared to go.