You can keep blaming the messenger(s), or you could take a deep breath and think for a moment why your decisions are making folk (many folk, as evidenced by this thread) uncomfortable with your site: listing guys without their consent or even knowledge, bedding escorts with the promise of some sort of favoritism, etc. Claiming you've changed your methods based on our feedback while simultaneously belligerently defending said actions shows that you still just don't get it and casts a long shadow over your endeavor and fundamentally your judgement.
I suspect people want to hear "we now understand why that was a bad idea" rather than "you're dead wrong, but if it'll shut you up we'll stop".
Kevin Slater