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Can someone recommend masseur in Manhattan or NJ  with real massage skills who might bottom?  I'm traveling from NJ.  Thanks

I cant please everyone.  I was counting money and dealing with  closing issues with the bar. We try and do a good job putting this together.  Adonis is collapsing.  And dancers need to work somewhere. I been trying to weed out the trouble makers. Our drink prices are no different than most of the Gay Bars. No matter what I do or what we do at red eye it's not going to be enough for some of you guys on here that's obvious. So I'm not going to be talking about this anymore. We try very very hard putting this together and it ain't easy. Daniel who owns Red Eye and myself a part of the gay community here in New York City not some straight guy looking to take advantage of you guys. I don't take advantage of anybody. So maybe you'll come and visit us again. And I'll tell you what you see me at the door and I'll let you in for nothing.

Even if someone were to compile a list of the best masseurs in the best spas, it would be obsolete within 2 months. New guys join all the time, older guys leave, many guys move to a different spa if they think they can get a better deal, some setup shop independently in their own apartment, etc...

You're definitely not alone. So many of the these HE guys are "mileage may vary" types, you just never know what can happen if the masseur decides he likes what is lying on his table. Back when sex was important to me, I always went to a massage appointment ready for anything. More often than not, I received a surprise. Many of these guys are great at teasing, so if they're willing to go there, even for extra money, I'm happy to be prepared. The preparation almost always worked out in my favor. I once had a straight masseur who saw I was fully erect, and that damn thing was going nowhere, clearly getting in the way. Without touching my cock, he decided to work his finger-pressure technique around my groin area, and he made me orgasm. He cleaned me up, and went on with the massage. Not a word spoken. Needless to say, I tipped him well. He moved out of NYC, otherwise I'd still be seeing him.

It took a little while to organize but suddenly everything clicked - I experienced a combo massage with MindfulMasseur and his partner RomeoAntonio today!
I had hired MM for more than 20 times prior.  RA was a first time encounter, but I have been admiring his work on OnlyFans.  In other words, his anatomy was not a total surprise.
The venue was at the couple's comfortable apartment on the UWS.  After a brief chat, I was naked on their heated massage table while the guys stripped down to skimpy underwear that left nothing to the imagination.  I was familiar with MM's body, front and back.  I did marvel at the physique and the personal charisma of RA - the curled black hair, the smile, the perfect chest, the muscular legs.  Starting out as a solid therapeutic experience, RA took off his briefs and made sure I knew it.  He has extremely strong hands that went deep into my glutes as the massage evolved into a fully erotic experience.  While the details need not be disclosed on a public forum, let me say that I felt surrounded by masculine beauty and skill.  The couple, at some point, became very interactive between the two of them which was a sight that will be hard to forget.
I have no hesitation to recommend MindfulMasseur and RomeoAntonio separately but if you are so inclined, the duo combo will blow you away. 
 

No problem.  I was known as a client to MM who said 'I am a fun client to work with'.  Which is why the guys gave me a good rate, which basically was MM and RA's individual one-hour incall rate combined.  No premium pricing for the combo session.  Keep in mind that RA and MM are partners.  There is no awkwardness between them about being naked and about engaging in play together and with a client.
I did, happily, tip well for an amazing experience.

I had my first session with Amaziah and posted this review in RM:  The session with Amaziah was an amazing continuum of therapeutic and sensual, body to body massage, intimate connection, the kind of experience that must be lived to appreciate it. Besides, he is a delightful man, kind, personable and attentive.

Any recent feedback?

Love Alexi!  I've become a regular with him.  Great conversation, great body, good massage... very detailed to the whole body... more of a light massage.  The extras are extra nice.  Always offers a glass of wine to relax.  Place is clean too

I went to Epic men spa on 63rd and Lexington, for a Brazilian. 
 
As Jeremy was shaving my balls, I had a big hard on (it would be hard not to, when a man is holding your cock in his hand) Unfortunately he didn’t offer to help with that. I didn’t want to leave with blue balls, so I asked if I could get a massage with one of his guys (hoping they would be more helpful).
I had Pete who gave me a thorough Thai massage but he kept my private parts under a towel at all time, clear sign that he doesn’t want to do anything else. 
So I left with clean shaven - but still very blue - balls and quite disappointed. 

I am writing off epic men spa as a purely therapeutic place and won’t try again. 

Super nice guy, handsome AF, gives a great massage. Studio is really nice and makes you feel really comfortable. Check him out!

Agreed.
Even IF there wasn't a legal matter involved...I personally PREFER to meet people for a massage first.
I have never been a fan of fucking somebody based on a few photos and never having met in person. I also like a bit of foreplay, unlike so many gay men who go from Zero-to-Sixty in under two minutes. A relaxing massage gives me time to feel the moment as well as giving my companion a chance to get comfortable instead of needing to provide sex-on-demand.

I hope you know that PrEP is for tops too. Everyone should be on it. Doxy PEP as well.
In 2025, this is just responsible healthcare for sexually active gay men, regardless of position.

I’ve seen Tim in his nice Jersey City apartment
https://rentmasseur.com/TimSPA/
 
I’ve gone back twice. No cuddles but certainly sensual. Always left happy. PM for details.

Any extras with Yobany?
 

Received an out-call massage from DiamondTyger a few days ago...after one or two failed attempts at connecting. Worth every penny of $250 for 60min. Was even better than the first massage I had from him years ago. As of this comment, ALL  of the pics are accurate and are of him; i.e., not borrowed from elsewhere on the web. 
Massage A- technique, with a variety of strokes, including a bit of stretching toward the end, and satisfying sensual elements. Massage is not DiamondTyger's main livelihood, so pinning down a day and time might, might, be a challenge.
To summarize, the profile, pics, and massage service are all legitimate and meet the advertising promises.
Note: $250 for 60min is pain point for me...but this time the service was worth the money. Yes, I would repeat, funds permitting.

Sean is (was) one of my all-time top experiences, highly recommend!
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That’s how I do it with virtually every massage if given the option to do so by my client. I don’t start naked, they start with a towel on. It begins just like a therapeutic only massage. For example if it’s a two hour session (the best duration to do a proper job) the towel is still on him after 30 minutes, I’m still fully in shorts and top, no oil has been applied, no touch has been made to his bum or cock or anywhere near and we’re already 25% of the way through the session…..that might sound like nothing erotic has happened but that’s such a misunderstanding of the situation! There’s all sorts of cues and hints one can do to build the sexual tension 😉. Everything has happened…in his head because I’ve put it there. 
This, in my view is the best kind of session because I focus my attention on his biggest sex organ, his mind… and there’s so so much one can do there. Most guys might have had what I call a rub and tug style ‘sensual’ massage. It’s an average therapeutic massage with a jerk off. I think the majority of providers advertising do that kind of session. It’s like fast food, briefly satisfying and can serve a purpose. Sometimes clients want just that, a quick massage or even to climax in the first 10 minutes and then relax into a nice therapeutic style massage. I do those kind of ‘happy start’ sessions for a few guys who just can’t wait and can only relax once they’ve cum.
However when clients experience a proper sensual massage over 2 hours, where the masseur works their body and their mind…well that’s gourmet and after that they don’t want to go back to fast food. 

Agree. Saw him a few times but not recently. Friendly and welcoming guy. Nice space. Very nice body and *assets.

But just to remind everyone that it's a small world and that everything is related:

I have met both Strong Strokes and John Tauranac! Was massaged and more by the former (earlier this year); edited the latter's book, back in the 20th century. (Which was the occasion for the NY Times piece that Dutchal quoted).

From the New York Times on October 17, 1979:
To walk a block or two without encountering a request for a handout from a passerby is unusual; and since John Tauranac is no different from the rest of us, he was not surprised as he strolled up Broadway past Lincoln Center to encounter a casually dressed man who seemed a trifle confused.
“Excuse me,” the man said, “but am I heading the right way for Grand Central?”
 Top that, guys!  LOL

Reviewed favorably by forum member papichampu.
Outcall is less than an incall, which usually indicates incalls are at a rented studio.

Some providers like morning appointments because it's easier to get hard or it fits their schedule. Some travelers like booking an extra client in the morning before check-out time.
I would only request an early morning appointment the night before out of courtesy.

I disagree completely. 
Quite the opposite. Clearly this person knows him better than anyone. Personality is important in a business like massage / escorting . So any insights are helpful . Especially one with a great deal of experience, whether positive or negative. 

It’s weird because he’s still saying he’s therapeutic only, but I know people who’ve gone to him recently and they’ve provided details that go way beyond therapeutic. So someone’s either confused or lying their ass off.

He's sooooo MY type. 🤩
So I immediately assumed this is TGTBT