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Interestingly, I just had a conversation with one of my “go-to” guys about reviews. I wondered if potential clients saw multiple reviews by the same client as questionable or a positive reflection (and a good resource for further detail) on the provider. My guy was indifferent. He’s never asked me to review him, but has always expressed gratitude when I have. We go into these situations with a healthy skepticism regarding the validity of some reviews. The last thing I’d want to do is make a potential client not hire him because he’s questioning the legitimacy of my reviews.

My last haircut was February 22nd, so I’m at 4 months now. I have a standing appointment every 4 weeks under normal circumstances. Let’s just say I’ve passed the Heat Miser stage and have graduated to troll doll. Thankfully, hair salons can open this Friday in Pennsylvania with obvious restrictions and limited capacity. Between preparing the salon, acquiring the required supplies like sanitizer, disinfectant, masks, and gloves, they won’t be “open for business” until the 30th. Between the later start, 4th of July holiday, and all of the clients desperate for an appointment, the earliest I can get in is July 11th. That day can’t come fast enough.

All good looking guys, but Fitness by a mile. I’ve had him on my RM Buddy List for a while so I can easily see if he visits my city. He pushes all my buttons. Dominant, verbal, and a great kisser are my requirements too. He doesn’t list kissing in his “I’m Into” section, but if you VPN the review page you’ll see several comments about his kissing abilities. I’d still confirm with him to be sure he’s not selective in that area.

Some providers re-lock their private gallery regularly, especially if it has face pics not available in their public profiles. One of my regular providers does this every couple weeks. I don’t think it’s personal, just cautious. I’ve had a couple providers whose private gallery is accessible to premium clients without requesting it, contact me once they see I opened their gallery, and if I don’t reply quickly or do with a “thanks, but not interested at this time“ type of reply will completely block their profile. That’s a bit over the top.

Visiting cemeteries is like grieving when a loved one passes away. We all grieve differently. We all have reasons for visiting (or not visiting) cemeteries. I would take my mom on the “cemetery tour” near the holidays to visit her parents, my dad’s parents, and eventually my dad’s graves. I never got anything out of the visits and did it solely for my mom. For me, I was standing on a plot of land looking down at a headstone with my family members’ names. It didn’t provide comfort, reflection or remembrance. When my mom started deteriorating, she became friendly with a Catholic nun who was also a registered nurse. She would visit with my mom, bring pastries, have tea with her and give her Communion. She was indispensable during that time and became a trusted family friend. After my mom passed, I told her how I felt about visiting the cemetery. She had, what I thought, was a very unexpected reply for a Catholic nun. She said, “you visit with your family every time you think of them,” while touching her index finger to my chest and temple. I’ve come to terms with my belief. I’d visit the graves for a few years after my mom passed, partly out of guilt, but have since stopped. I’d question why I was doing it each time. Even during the visits, I’d see the crying and praying by visitors to other graves and wonder why I wasn’t experiencing the same emotions. Like most things in life, do what works for you.

He rings more than just my bells. Wow. @big-n-tall and @dutchal can either of you provide his Twitter and Instagram handles? Private me if preferred. Thanks.

In fairness, the “daddy” reference is in his I’m Into section, just as muscle and jocks are. I don’t think he’s describing himself as a daddy. He describes his style as twink.

So, it’s not like you have the option of going to his place. He can’t host, and charges a $50 travel fee? Is there a mileage charge as well?

Wow, what a body! He’s been busy. Profile created three days ago and he has three reviews already. A two hour session on the 14th and two three hour sessions yesterday. The reviewers are established RM clients, so he may be the real deal.

LOL @Charlie No, my friend. Not when I look like a brown-haired Heat Miser when I get out of bed each morning. . My idea of the “natural look” is when I don’t shave my nuts for two weeks.

Same here in PA. I’m pushing four months without a haircut. Under normal circumstances I’m once every 4 weeks. It ain’t pretty. ?

Odd reaction? ? One man’s bad moment is another man’s logical moment.

On second thought, is this @Benjamin_Nicholas shower? ?

Are you his agent? You seem determined to defend this guy. Split hairs all you want over using the term ‘a la carte,’ I’m not subscribing to cable TV. This should be a simple transaction. I don’t want to spend time doing a deep-dive analysis of any provider’s pricing. Tell me your rates (timely) for one hour, two hours, overnight and that extended sessions can be discussed. It’s fine to have a pricing structure planned, but as a client, if I’m going to buy a “package,” it’s going to be after several sessions to be sure I’m compatible with and trust the provider. Its not going to happen with the first session.

Or it’s possible that clients, along with providers, have an aversion to time wasters. If you want to run this as a business, you don’t leave a potential client waiting a week and then provide your a la carte menu. And just as providers don’t like being low-balled, perhaps clients don’t like being quoted rates that are well above market. And yes, as a provider, he has every right to ask whatever rate he wants. As a client, I have every right to decline and move on. Are the people who contacted him and got the same response not supposed to share their experiences on a thread about him? I’m all for treating providers and their time respectfully, however, I expect the same in return.

Agree with this 100%. I get off on getting someone else off, so much so that it literally gets me off. I love to have both of us climax simultaneously, but short of that happening, I prefer my partner to bust first since it’s such a turn on and brings me over the edge.

Just add a step-ladder and a container of Albolene and there’s a fun Saturday night.

And hard men are very, very good to find. ?

I’m thinking of opening and slide but it has nothing to do with PowerPoint. Well, at least not Microsoft PowerPoint. ?

If you can afford to pre-pay 3600, 4800, or 7200 upfront, chances are you’re not worried about a “discount.” I’d hate to be the guy who pre-pays and Mr. Ivy League disappears before all of your time is used. Regardless, his prices are exorbitant.

If you can afford to pre-pay 3600, 4800, or 7200 upfront, chances are you’re not worried about a “discount.” I’d hate to be the guy who pre-pays and Mr. Ivy League disappears before all of your time is used. Regardless, his prices are exorbitant.

Comcast’s tiered services pricing structure is less complex than this guy’s.