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Yes! I've become so familiar with my one regular that I know from his face when he's getting close. He usually has my ankles in his hands while going to town on me. The hottest thing is watching him climax and then collapsing on me and making out.

I will completely and unashamedly admit that I’m a cum whore. I love getting a guy off, especially when he busts a huge nut and can shoot far. Part of me wants to see it fly all over me, but the other part wants to feel it explode in my mouth. Nothing like feeling the underside of a guy’s cock pulsate on my tongue as he shoots or simultaneously climaxing in each other’s mouth and snowballing. However, as others have posted, if I’m riding solo, as soon as I cum that switch flicks and I lose all urge to eat it. It’s not the taste. If it was, I wouldn’t do it with other guys. One of the universe’s greatest mysteries! ?

95% of my messages on Adam4Adam are from guys who are 5,186 miles away who claim to be from various locations throughout the States. Oklahoma City seems to be a popular choice. To make matters worse, they post profile pictures of beefy, muscular men then list their physical description as something that’s not close to the picture. I’ve had some with physical descriptions of 6’6”, 130 lbs, with a 39” waist. If you’re that height and weight you’re emaciated. I’m really curious to know where this magical, mysterious land of gay men exists that 5,186 miles away from me. I’ve also seen a huge increase in bot taps on Grindr in the last month or so. They’re probably friends with the Adam4Adam guys and are also 5,186 miles away.

As someone who lives alone and is from a tight knit Italian family who would get together often for meals and visits, I’m having difficulty dealing with this as well. I saw them last month for the first time since February and at that, it was outdoors. I haven’t seen friends in person since before this all started either. Taking advantage of the limited businesses that are open is frustrating and difficult due to the restrictions imposed on them and because people are on edge and appear to be too confrontational with others. It’s really house arrest with no end in sight. I understand the need to continue this course but you can’t discount the mental and emotional toll it’s taking on everyone.

Free balling, especially when you’re making out and feeling each other up through a pair of shorts or sweats and can feel he’s going commando. I always free ball at home, which means I’ve been that way for 98% of the time since lockdown started. For sleeping I have a strict “no clothing allowed” policy in my bed. It’s strictly enforced for myself and whoever is sharing it with me. ?

I think it varies for each guy and their “look.” Clean shaven works on a guy next door look, while stubble or a very trimmed beard is hot on more ethnic guys like Latinos. I’m not a fan of ZZ Top or Grizzly Adams type beards.

It’s a very interesting documentary. Plus, it was a trip down memory lane seeing those performers again.

Hot, but no oral? ??‍♂️

He was interviewed for the documentary “Circus of Book” on Netflix. He’s aged, but he still looks good. I read online that he was still cashing in on his porn career running websites selling replicas of little (or big) Jeff. He has a 30 year old son. Wonder if he got in on that gene pool. ?

He’s the only person who can answer that question.

Never had it, but it makes sense. If he’s making $10/hr at his job, he’d probably have to work 30 hours to take home $250.

I agree, it is expensive. I need to compare the ingredient list to Metamucil. I can put the savings toward a session. ?

I use Pure, but if I know ahead of time I’ll be bottoming, I also douche just to be sure.

While traveling for work to Boston last November, I had a provider cancel on me at the last minute. To make it up he promised to send a couple videos to me, which he never did. Two days after I returned home he texted me at 5:50AM on a Saturday morning saying he was horny, needed to rub one out, and asked if I’d be interested in a cam show. I wanted to see this guy in action and thought he’d give me a good rate considering he cancelled and knew I was really disappointed. I asked how much and he replied $100. I asked how long of a session and he said probably 10 - 15 minutes. As foggy as I was being awakened at that hour, I was able to quickly calculate that if I extrapolated that out, he’d be getting more for an hour of cam time than he would for the two hour in-person session we had planned. I laughed and blocked his number.

Anyone have his RM link? ?

I’m sure part of it is geography, but I find, for the most part, the quality of pros on A4A (as well as Friendboy and Mintboys) to be lacking. Lots of rough trade and guys who would never make it on RM.

I texted him around 10:30AM one Saturday morning in February to hopefully schedule an outcall with him that evening. He replied around 11:15 that he needs at least 24 hours notice for an outcall and offered going to his studio at 1PM. I was busy during the day, which is why I asked for the evening, so I told him that wouldn’t work, thanked him for replying, and said hopefully some other time. Never got an acknowledgement or an “ok” after that. I texted him again last month hoping to set something up, but he never replied to that message at all. The options in Philly are limited and he was one of the tops on my list.

That’s just uncalled for. Great intro of yourself to this forum.

Or plain old ignorance. Imagine the outrage if such a generalization was attributed to a different group of people based on their collective identity.

My first boyfriend back in the mid-80’s did some modeling and used a very subtle foundation to even out his skin tone and concealer to hide his few flaws when going out for the night. I knew he was wearing it and couldn’t tell, so I doubt anyone else did. It was corrective, not decorative.

I think the past several months of quarantine has contributed to that. I work from home during the week, but the lack of activities and excess down time on the weekends is what gets me down. Even taking advantage of what’s reopened is stressful because you’re constantly aware of the precautions and on edge while out there.

I do the same thing sometimes. Tomatoes, red onions, sliced mushrooms, sliced black olives, bacon bits, French fried onions, some crumbled feta cheese topped with Ken’s honey balsamic dressing. If you want a light “summer” salad, Jersey tomatoes and red onions with a dash of salt, black pepper, garlic powder, a drizzle of extra virgin olive oil and red-wine vinegar. You can add some sliced cucumber if you like. That and a nice piece of crusty Italian bread is a great summer lunch.

“Cut me some slack, Jack. Chump don’ want no help, chump don’t get ‘da help!”

Defending Jacob on Apple + TV with Chris Evans. I just binge watched the whole series on Sunday. Intense and somewhat dark but great performances by the whole cast. https://tv.apple.com/us/show/defending-jacob/umc.cmc.5h5mr0shyyqqahqdv55ywyilr

Good ol’ Kalakaua Avenue! It was very cruisy back then.