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Vin Marco - annually... be still my heart
MacksPower - frequently (he's close by)
Billy Herrington back in the day
Jake Gianelli back in the day
Colton back in the day
Giovanni Volta - as recently as late last year
BigMaxMuscle - probably 5 years ago
Vinny (mentioned above) - been at least four years since we "got together"
I've been with each of these guys several times.  Sadly, Billy and Colton have passed.  Vinny stopped seeing people a while ago, although he continued to see me for a while.  I haven't been in touch with him in a couple of years, but man, did we have some great times.
Yeah... I kind of have a type!  💪🏻
 

Hi Everyone! Bi_rugbyjock here! I am indeed away in Atlanta playing rugby, although I will be back in Canada in December.
It warms my heart to hear such nice things said about me! I do my best to offer people the best experiences and meet all their needs. Hence why I ask questions about their wants, needs and likes. I do this work for the warm feelings it gives me to make people happy. If I don't know what you want, I cannot provide it. 
 
Now, this user has stood up both me and a friend. Both my friend and I, on two separate unique occasions,  waited in the lobby of his supposed hotel for 30 minutes, on time for our set appointment. He never answered my messages and said he fell asleep. For my friend, Archbishop said "I'm parking...I'm walking over...I'm Here..." all while my friend was standing at his hotel room door. It was a complete lie/scam. We know it's him as he claimed to be a bishop in our past messages. It's the only client that I displaced myself to a hotel only to be stood up. 
He makes new profiles periodically and tries to message us again. We are wise to his scam and we are not the only ones. I have never bailed on my clients.
See Attached Pictures.
I have run my won business for years and I focus on people's experiences. I found that having a process not only helps me provide a 5 star experience, it also protects me from any dangerous situation or scam. Doing this kind of clandestine work puts both parties at risk and I do my best to minimize risk. My process is not for everyone and that's okay! Those who do not mind have made for fantastic experiences for both the client and myself.

A few other fantastic choices.   
Drako 
Tony Pitt 
Dr Mike 
Ridge 
Rick Hammersmith 
 

Ken Sparks was one of my favorites.

Big C / Colton - Sadly no longer with us, the best muscle worship experience I've ever had
Solidaceguy - Believe he was last working from Los Angeles, retired a few years ago
Joey Van Damme - Stopped advertising many years ago, but seems to be enjoying life & I believe meets with regulars
Alain DeBerry - He did make a brief return from retirement but I would have loved to have met him.

I've mentioned Haus Weston before. One of my very earliest provider meets and I was nervous, which limited my comfort with it all - shoot. In perfect shape, masculine ex-Army, subtle southern accent. Years later, during a visit to the DC area, I dropped by his memorial (he was cremated) at the National Veterans Cemetery on the Eastern Shore in Maryland, just a few miles from where he grew up.

My favorites to this day were Strongpower aka Vinny from Springfield Mass who once drove from Springfield to my house in Central Jersey just to meet with me ended up seeing him several times before he vanished from RM 
the other was the Amazing Tony Callandro who was brawn brains and sweetness combined a classy muscle guy
one who I missed but always wanted to meet was Dr Mike from CT his YouTube videos were astonishing and his body and voice were incredible 
 

I have met him IRL when he lived in ATL.  He’s a decent looking guy. He had a sugar daddy here who I guess set the bar.  He’s a stereotypical 20 something kid who thinks the world is here to serve him. Wish him well.  

Hooked up with him off Grindr.
Nice looking / all American boy.
Nice body -( he's a stripper with a traveling group).
Wouldn't repeat. Session was just ok.
 
 

This is all very interesting.
I hired him for a fuck session, it may have been 5-6 years ago.  I was apartment sitting at a very, very swanky Park Avenue coop in the 80s, owned by one of my friends.  He believed this really was my apartment.  He was clearly in awe.  He got naked right away, I played with his ass, which he clearly enjoyed, then I fucked the living shit out of him.  When I was done, I threw him $250 and told him to leave.
He has perfected his scam techniques since then,  I noticed he teamed up with another NJ shore Guido - I forgot his name - who is currently serving a 15 year sentence upstate NY. Fraud, theft and assault,
According to his IG, he is currently in Medellin, Colombia.  He had to flee his last abode in the USA, which was Miami, FL.  I do hope he doesn't pull tricks in Colombia because the guys there DO know how to take care of a problem.
 
 

I paid him and sent him home.
I liked his rentmen ad... he only does outcall, etc. so I set up a time at my place.  He arrives 30 minutes late (fine.) He has a strong Russian accent but speaks good English. His photos are at least 10 years old and 25 pounds ago.  Then, he spent a little too much time looking over my 'things.' It was very deliberate.  The vibe was not right, so, I paid him his fee and showed him the door.  
https://rentmen.eu/BigVadim
 

To paraphrase Kipling, you’re a braver man than I, MakeMeCowboy! 

While I 100% get the attraction based on his profile, even the pics, but those pics are so oddly cropped, and blurred, I’d need to see more, you know? 

I’m glad the bad vibe was all that went down, and thanks for the intel for your fellow hobbyists 👍🏻
 
Cheers,
BBD 

Don't roll your eyes at me, Lazarus - Jesus wept for your namesake.  That's probably the best post I've ever contributed to this forum and I only wish every provider would read it and understand how difficult it is for some of us to be spontaneous in the kind of interaction that we prefer to plan out.

I think providers who request "same day" appointments are completely unreasonable.  Some of us like to plan everything (including sex) days, weeks, and sometimes months in advance.  It's not just a preference; it is ingrained into our personalities.  We are not all Myers-Briggs (P)erceiving types, who are known to be much more spontaneous.  I happen to be an INTJ, so I prefer to spend about six weeks (at least) planning out every detail of every possible human interaction that I'm going to have during a vacation.  
For Christ's sake, I repeatedly go on Google Maps months before a trip just to memorize the street view so that I know every highway entrance/exit ramp, intersection, parking lot, even the sides of buildings the doors are on, so that i know where I'm going every second of the way.  A lot of these providers then expect me to wait until the day I want to meet them to plan something?
Nope.

I was going to say just the opposite.  In my experience, families fall apart and tend to be more judgmental.  My chosen family (friends) is always there for me.  

so I think that my experiences are different than most 
I DO NOT hire for penetration sex as I mostly do muscle worship and wrestling domination with mostly straight guys but over the years several of them tell me that a gay admirer appreciates their muscles and physique more than women i.e. ( their girlfriends or wives) because the women want all of the attention on them and really don't care about the guys muscles
  I like straight guys who enjoy flexing and being physically worshipped by having their muscles rubbed kissed and that flex nude and yes they will get turned on by the rubbing the praise and the body contact and make me  submit to him 
I have met with plenty of NY/NJ based straight muscle escorts who after 40 minutes of muscle worship and domination will jerk off or let me suck them off until they cum like geysers. 
Everyone is allowed their own personal preference and fantasy 
If you only hire gay men more power to ya!!! 
I simply prefer a dominant alpha muscle guy who loves to flex and show off his muscles

Do you believe any of the escorts you hire are "attracted to you" ?
 

Desiring a man who is confirmed to never fully be attracted to you is nonsensical.
But I think the bigger issue is WHY so many gay men chase self-proclaimed straight guys. 
 
I’ll dive a bit deeper by making this observation:
 The straight men they desire are never effeminate straight men, soft straight men or cuckolds.
This observation leads me to believe that the desire to have a straight man, is connected with an idea of “authentic masculinity”, which many gay men believe cannot be achieved by another gay man. 
 
What’s unfortunate about this is that a paradigm is created where straight men can play with the minds of desperate gay men, seeking the “real man”, of their fantasies, by giving them glimmers of hope of making them his “ultimate bitch.” 
 
I see the lust on many sites, especially onlyfans, where straight guys are playing fools out of their pockets for the sheer idea of a fantasy. 
 
To each his own, but why waste money on hope? 
I would never:
Subscribe to any of their OnlyFans
or hire for the services of any straight man, ever…
I don’t want to play myself, nor do I want to give any straight man the satisfaction of believing that every gay man wants him. 
 
NO WAY…. 
 

Not weird at all. Different strokes for different folks. If you go to Rent.men, guys typically indicate if they’re straight, bi or gay. Personally I’ve had very good experiences with guys who identify as straight. 

No don’t cancel Please confirm it’s the guy in the pictures. I also thought these pictures were stolen, but I think someone said they were not. He’s had like 5 different names. 

Not to actually search for contraband lmao…as a role play type scenario. Put his hands up against the wall, and feel every inch of his body….I can’t be the only one!

I made a similar thread a while back but it expired. Was wondering if anyone ever gets with an escort and gives him a thorough frisk before getting “frisky” lololol 

I’m eh on them. I don’t see the appeal. When I’ve used them, I’ve found them uncomfortable. And when I find out a guy’s been wearing one all night, it feels like a pushup bra to me…But I also don’t need him to be erect to appreciate his dick. A flaccid penis unconcerned with the world has a certain erotic appeal, don’t you think?

I had a great session with Dolph recently. Yes he’s straight and has limits but he was cool with everything I wanted to do. Uber handsome and masculine and very muscular if that’s your thing. 

All I ever get at Panera is the "bread bowl".....🤔