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Considering consent can be withdrawn retroactively, this is bullshit. To be clear, what happened to Brazilian is shitty and the guy who did it should have some kind of consequences but given the laws against sex work in the United States and in many places you cannot use the legal definition. It would be like a bank robber claiming the bank security guard assaulted the bank robber. Not saying it's the way it should be but that's is the way it is.

I once paid a $100 deposit to a provider on RM with glowing reviews on this forum. The day of, he said his mom was sick and cancelled. Never heard from him again.

ChatGPT is not a lawyer, a judge, or a person. It's in the disclosure of the product that you should not use ChatGPT for legal services. Anything you get from ChatGPT should be held to the highest scrutiny. Also, sex work is illegal in the United States and if you took this case to a DA they would not prosecute the client but they would prosecute the provider. So please don't give legal advise when you're not a lawyer.

He's a great guy. One of my favorites.

Gay men pay too much attention to body type. I've had encounters with chubby guys that are more gratifying than fit/muscle guys. I have a congenital birth defect that was somewhat corrected with surgery. Many guys get the ick when they notice it and the chemistry evaporates. I don't disclose this to guys because many people didn't notice it and I often forget that I'm a little different. I've only had one provider break things off because of it. Lastly, I've gone from fat to chubby to fit several times in my life. Honestly, I get more action when I'm chubby. Fit muscle guys that are model hot are extremely picky so even when I'm slim and well muscled they won't want me because I'm mid 40s or my congenital defect or they only want black guys or Latin or some other fantasy they have in their head. Bottom line: do what makes you happy and ignore the haters. They are just jealous that we get to eat carbs and ice cream. If a provider can't accept your weight that's his problem.

Point taken.

Los Angeles seeks to shut down massage parlors in Eagle Rock, North Hollywood and Wilmington - Los Angeles Times Los Angeles seeks to shut down massage parlors in Eagle Rock, North Hollywood and Wilmington SHARE.GOOGLE The Los Angeles city attorney’s office is trying to ban a group of massage parlor owners from operating within the city... This article is from 2017 but makes it clearer that the authorities see massage parlors as one of the many sources of human trafficking.

😳🥰🥹 https://x.com/Squaresky21/status/1558198693492318209?s=20 That ass!

Love the savage love cast. I didn't listen as much as I used to because much of his advice is repetitive.

If you read the article, you'll see that they were targeting massage parlors. They arrested a few of the owners for pimping and human trafficking, but then they also arrested the providers of the massage for prostitution.

https://ktla.com/news/california/weeklong-human-trafficking-sting-operation-nets-547-arrests-across-california/

Wasn't there a crackdown on jack shacks in LA county this year?

Just this morning I had a scammer reach out to me on sniffies. He was using the profile of a hot muscle guy from Peru. I reversed image searched his photo and that led to an Instagram of a guy who was very clearly not in my city or country. So deposits have to be looked at with a high degree of scrutiny.

Anything a provider tells you is meant to keep you as a client. Try asking for a date without paying and you'll see what he really thinks. From the alternative perspective, if he thought you were a gross old man then he wouldn't have done the extras. Lastly, you should never value yourself based on other's opinions. 😘

NYC has many jack shacks. Just Google massage and read the reviews. If the reviews are mostly from men then there's a good chance a HE is included.

Seriously, most of the massages I've had that weren't at a professional retail environment have included some kind of extra service 😘. Usually it's head (giving or receiving) but sometimes they want to fuck me (I have a big ass) or ride my 7" cock. I've only had a handful freelance masseurs who could match the quality of a Burke Williams massage, $250 including tip. If a freelancer wants to charge the equivalent amount they need to be better than a BW massage or offer something I can't get at BW. I find it really annoying that freelance massage providers think they can charge $300 for a 60 minute massage with no extras when I can get an okay 60 minute massage for $50. I feel bad for freelance massage therapist that are pressured into moving past their boundaries. However if you're charging $250 or more for a 60 minute massage you need to be better that a trip to BW.

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With loan terms so long you may as well be renting.

If he's new to this, he probably gets nervous about his nudes being publicly available.

I'm chatting him up. We might setup a rendezvous in a month or two.

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