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Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Updated version of cruising in the park. Just skipping all the exchanged glances.

This is not an inexpensive endeavor. In time, you may find more satisfaction from known solid hires and the occasional dice roll on an unknown sampler. Everyone rolls slightly differently depending on what else they have going on.

When I get asked, I usually don't mind since I know what they look like (if pics are theirs) so it is fair they know what I look like. Makes acknowledging each other a whole lot easier in the hotel lobby. Often get told I'm handsome after they see the pic. Not sure if that is just foreplay flattery or sincere. Nothing worse than opening the door and realizing the person you expected isn't at all who is in front of you. That's when your no solicitor reflex should kick in high gear. Not interested! 😆

New tools are allowing people to edit their photos without needing to know Photoshop anymore. Seeing more full AI profiles on IG as the tools become easier to use. A few instances, it's is putting AI profiles based on real profiles you follow. They focus on the AI persona and leave the background the same. Some are very good. IG seems to be uneven in flagging AI content. Ultimately if the person that shows up for the meet isn't who you thought, you are under no obligation to meet them much less pay them.

The thought is what counts. I happy bday text is always welcomed. Anything more is above and beyond. Totally up to the individual.

For some, the shared cultural baggage can be oppressive (boy bias for babies, tiger moms, Asian F complex, shame vs guilt as cultural bludgeons, being a doctor is revered, being a lawyer is tolerated, being an engineer is just right, be an accountant if you can't be the first three, familial piety, etc). For others, its a shared bond. It can push and pull Asians from or toward each other. It just depends on how tolerate of an environment your family happens to provide you when growing up. We all have our personal ideals. Finding and pursuing what that ideal is up to each of us.

100% agree. The inter-racial mixing over the generations has produced some stunning results. Not unlike the Philippines and some parts of Asia. Thousands of years of great empires and conquests. Koreans are some of the tallest and have some of the beautiful angular faces (Mongol like traits thanks to Genghis Khan raids) that have made the world swoon thanks to BTS and other K-Pop bands. K-beauty industry is changing the global industry because the Korean market changes so much faster than anywhere else for the past 20+ years. Lets be honest some of our personal bias is environmental. I grew up surrounded by Latinos and for a LONG time never considered them attractive. Baggage. Some of the guys I find now hot AF all happen to be Latin. Funny enough, Brazilian in particular. They are just a very sexual people. And because they are so used to being around many people of different races, they don't exhibit a lot of racism.

It really depends on you and where the thrill is for you. Some find the thrill in the hunt. Others find the thrill of the known and removing the chance of a meh meeting. First time meeting can be awkward as each party is trying to figure things out and what works or doesn't. I find subsequent meetings to be more enjoyable because we are more more comfortable with each other. When the connection is strong, it is a great feeling.

Despite the nature of the business, providers are not just pieces of nice meat to choose from though it can feel like that at times as we compare a guy's pros and cons. They are human and have baggage like we all do honestly. If you or they choose to open up about personal stuff, that is a personal choice. What you do with this or go from there is up to you. Some have become friends beyond or after the sexual connection, but that is more the rarity than the norm tbh.

Met him. Communication was a bit off/on. School and regular job take up much of his time. Pictures are accurate. Looked slim with the baggy clothes. Once he was naked, the boy is lean and ripped. Not in the usual muscular way. Rock hard abs. If u tried to pinch his skin together, you wouldn't grab much. VERY new to the work. A little shy at first. Good kisser. Way exceeded my expectations. Would recommend and repeat.

The bidding war you're referencing is limited to high demand areas like the Marina, Fillmore, Pac Height and Russian Hill. Largely being driven by tech workers being pulled here by AI companies. They are paper rich. There are many other areas where it is very apparent the city still hasn't recovered from the remote work exodus during Covid. SF has by far still the highest rate of remote of any major city. It still baffles me that traffic on Fri sometimes feels like weekend traffic in the financial district and there is no one about. New mayor is doing well to try to pull people back into the city but it will take years. Union Square has so many empty shop front. So many retail and food places collapsed during the Covid exodus. There are more guys asking for $400. It doesn't mean they won't accept less. If you don't ask, they won't tell so you will never know. Everyone is tightening their belts so depending on how much demand they have, they are open to mtg for less.

He has a professional job and flies back east to the corporate HQ a few times a year. He's doing well. Happy for him. I tend to avoid political talk as a rule. There are much more interesting things to talk about. One of the nicest guys. Laid in bed talking and laughing until he fell asleep. He kicked the comforter off and slept on his stomach. he didn't mind me cupping his 🍑 Has among the best feeling skin I have ever laid my hands on.

there seems to be more start quoting $400 in SF. However, most are open to offers for less. Just depends on how much interest there is from clients at $400. A few of the providers have noted clients in SF don't negotiate as much as in LA and NYC. Everyone bargains and asks for deals in Vegas apparently. Was interesting to hear their perspectives.

Met him a few months ago. Outcall only. Has a good desk job so availability after 5pm and on weekend is better. He sent face pic. He isn't as cut as in the photo he sent. Was fit though. Very clean and fully interactive. Amazing 🍑 Did something unexpected. 💦 hands free By the look of surprise on his face he didn't expect it either. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Would recommend.

Photos are altered. Two of them have the EXACT same head and facial expression. Angle of head is not merged well with the rest of the body. Head ratio is too large on body for gym photo.

Had a meet setup. He decided to change the terms agreed upon earlier that day. Said demand from clients was too high. I said no since we had already agreed to things. I was thinking with the head on my shoulders. Don't like it when people don't keep their word. Starts things off on the wrong foot. What else could change? He said my loss that I was cheap and couldn't afford him. 😆 Bullet dodged.

OT: Yes, quiet familiar with that corner. I actually eat at Mong Thu Cafe once a month just around the corner. One of the better hole in the wall Vietnamese food places. Cash only, but reasonably priced. I've been there before they open at 7am before the sidewalks are hosed down and never felt unsafe. The ladies that run the place can be more scary than any of the unhoused folks if they think you're being rude to them. Always chuckle at how they could be their Soup Nazi reality show. Plenty of hidden gem food places in that neighborhood.

Met up with him last week (twice). Very easy on the eyes. Better on the lips. Found him to be smart and charming. His accent is SEXY. Shared a meal and conversation was great. Passionate and fun meet. Would recommend and will be repeating. A keeper.

Not that uncommon for him. Escorting isn't his main job or focus. He does to help his other endeavors. The hit and miss in communication some have noted is due in large part to this. If things align with when he is available, he's definitely worth meeting.

Similar interaction others had. Felt like a bad Chinese menu. I passed because I could see it being pulled up endlessly during the meet. Mood killer.

Outcalls only in LA due to sharing a place with others. He's a student. Very tall. Nice guy.

Pictures are accurate and his. They don't do him justice tbt. His eyes are stunning. One of the best looking guys I've ever met. Very limited availability due to Easter holiday. May be better now. Worth the time and money. Hoping to see again before he leaves.

Obviously subtly or taking a job is lost on you. Chill out. Just as we have the right to refuse a provider that doesn't look like the posted photos whether its really old photos of them or someone's completely, they have the same right to choose who they meet with. YMMV

Replying to RM message is NSFW in the company of family gatherings. Our 🍆 make us lose patience. Move on to other providers if u need immediate release.