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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from Lookin41 in To douche or not to douche   
    The bottom line here is you should douche if you’re going to engage in anal sex. You should plan to “clean out” a couple hours before the appointment. This allows for the water to fully absorb and prevents a runny residue situation.
     
    Buy an over the counter enema product, pour out the saline and refill with plain warm water. To do this properly is not a one and done process. You may have to repeat this a few times to get a “clean” result.
     
    I’m a top (stop laughing) in most of my encounters and I still douche before an appointment. I love getting rimmed and it’s just common curtesy to offer a partner a fresh and clean playing field for a guy to burry his face.
     
    I’d advise the provider that you’re a novice bottom so he’s able to adapt his approach so to speak. Also, don’t hire someone who’s exceptionally endowed if you’re not a well adapted bottom. The last thing you need is to have pain and discomfort in this situation.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from SlimJim in Happy Birthday SF Westcoaster!!!   
    Happy Birthday!!
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + sf westcoaster in Happy Birthday SF Westcoaster!!!   
    Happy Birthday!!
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Happy Birthday SF Westcoaster!!!   
    Happy Birthday!!
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + Oliver in Happy Birthday SF Westcoaster!!!   
    Happy Birthday!!
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from musclestuduws in Post a song that makes you HAPPY   
    For me it’s the Peter Gunn Theme by Henry Mancini. The subtle drum rhythm and bass building to horns, trumpets, and trombone capture a aura of Jazz sophistication that brings out fond memories of a bygone era.
     
     

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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from tennisjock in Paddy OBrian   
    Let’s keep in mind he’s using an agency for his bookings and thus a percentage of the rate is going to them. Could be as low as ten percent or up to twenty five. Paddy has always been a favorite of mine, I’d pay the two hour rate.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + WilliamM in DC Forum Gathering - Canceled   
    @nate_sfIve been away from the forum for a while and just learned on this gathering last week. Thank you for your efforts to make this event happen.  As an organizer of previous DC Forum gatherings, I’m well aware of what goes into making this event occur. 
     
    Given the circumstances regarding Covid cancellation makes sense. Frustrating as hell but sensible none the less.  I’m wondering if the entire MAL event will get canceled before the date arrives anyway.
     
    My plan is to monitor the situation and depending on various factors I may swing by the Hyatt.  I’m more concerned about the asinine draconian overreacting restrictions put in place by DC government than the virus anyway. I will save my rant on this subject for another place and time.  
     
    Sorry to see this event impacted by Covid again.  This gathering has been incredible in past years.  I’m saddened that I won’t get to see Forum members and old friends this year.  
     
     
     
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from nate_sf in DC Forum Gathering - Canceled   
    @nate_sfIve been away from the forum for a while and just learned on this gathering last week. Thank you for your efforts to make this event happen.  As an organizer of previous DC Forum gatherings, I’m well aware of what goes into making this event occur. 
     
    Given the circumstances regarding Covid cancellation makes sense. Frustrating as hell but sensible none the less.  I’m wondering if the entire MAL event will get canceled before the date arrives anyway.
     
    My plan is to monitor the situation and depending on various factors I may swing by the Hyatt.  I’m more concerned about the asinine draconian overreacting restrictions put in place by DC government than the virus anyway. I will save my rant on this subject for another place and time.  
     
    Sorry to see this event impacted by Covid again.  This gathering has been incredible in past years.  I’m saddened that I won’t get to see Forum members and old friends this year.  
     
     
     
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from rn901 in Any of you hire Brent Corrigan?   
    He certainly has had a crazy life. It’s not every gay porn actor who starts out as underage; has two people commit murder over them; assists the FBI in a sting to catch the killers; testifying at the trial; tries their hand at legitimate acting; then return to porn all before the age of thirty.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from coriolis888 in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + Coolwave35 in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from Epigonos in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + Oliver in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from BabyBoomer in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + WilliamM in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    I have never considered the word “succinct“ in association with a Steven Kesslar post.
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    + ArVaGuy reacted to + sam.fitzpatrick in Forum Steering Committee - Volunteers Needed   
    We're jumping the gun here. None of us are the owners of the site. (Yes, the site does have an owner, albeit one that is deceased.) We should probably wait for an administrator/administratrix of the estate to be appointed by the state of Nevada. Once that is done, that individual would be in a position to direct the next steps.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from Phil_musc in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + Pensant in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from dcguy20 in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + bigjoey in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from liubit in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + harey in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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    + ArVaGuy got a reaction from + Hoover42 in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy   
    This is very sad news. I will always remember Daddy/Guy fondly having first met him at a DC Forum event as well as Palm Springs and having lunch in Las Vegas several times. Some of us first knew him as Daddy, others as Guy Fawkes on this forum. A few even knew him by his name IRL. He certainly was no wall flower with his boisterous personality.
     
    Guy was a mentor to many an escort and client offering sage advice about this business and hobby. He kept this site alive and vibrant from its early days under Hooboy and his own subsequent management. How he achieved this for so long under so many adversities we will never comprehend. He did all this out of his sense of community and for all the members of this site, working guys and hobbyist.
     
    Certainly there were conflicts with individuals and groups of members from time to time. Administering this site was no easy task. Guy was accused of many unkind motives, some may have been true, most were certainly not true. Critics always have a better idea yet never step up to provide assistance.
     
    Through all of the many controversies and fighting Guy continued to maintain this forum despite criticism. Guy maintained a true libertarian perspective of allowing many here a tremendous amount of leeway. When situations or behaviors became intolerable for him and the integrity of the community he took action and moved on.
     
    I would never have had his level of tolerance for many of these issues and would have shut it all down had it been my prerogative. Guy had a live and let live attitude that many should emulate. This forum allowed me to become a better client. It gave me an appreciation for the men who choose escorting. And it allowed me to build friendships with several clients and escorts that will always be a part of my life. Daddy/Guy made all that possible and I’m grateful to him for his dedication and perseverance.
     
    RIP Daddy/Guy.
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