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    Rick M got a reaction from + Pensant in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    Recently I engaged the services of a well-reviewed escort for (what I anticipated would be) an hour of intimacy. He arrived in a fluster, so--to calm his nerves--we started off by talking, sitting side by side, as a host might entertain a party guest. We talked... and talked... and talked. I began to wonder when the main event might occur. Two hours passed--pleasantly enough--until he made "we should wrap this up" noises. When I asked what happened to the intimacy, he said he had just given me the Boyfriend Experience, and had stayed longer than his (not insignificant) fee warranted. I let him go, but then I realized that he had NOT given me the BFE, but rather the Platonic Friend Experience, since I could have spent exactly the same amount of time chatting with an everyday acquaintance for nothing! Having gone years at a stretch without physical contact, I don't want pleasantries over tea, I want barriers-down commingling, however brief. In an attempt to justify his evasion, he added: "Sometimes women hire me just to talk. It's non-threatening." Quite the cunning maneuver to avoid sex yet still collect his paper salad. My post-non-coital emotions ranged from anger to humiliation and finally to resignation.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + goosh69 in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    Recently I engaged the services of a well-reviewed escort for (what I anticipated would be) an hour of intimacy. He arrived in a fluster, so--to calm his nerves--we started off by talking, sitting side by side, as a host might entertain a party guest. We talked... and talked... and talked. I began to wonder when the main event might occur. Two hours passed--pleasantly enough--until he made "we should wrap this up" noises. When I asked what happened to the intimacy, he said he had just given me the Boyfriend Experience, and had stayed longer than his (not insignificant) fee warranted. I let him go, but then I realized that he had NOT given me the BFE, but rather the Platonic Friend Experience, since I could have spent exactly the same amount of time chatting with an everyday acquaintance for nothing! Having gone years at a stretch without physical contact, I don't want pleasantries over tea, I want barriers-down commingling, however brief. In an attempt to justify his evasion, he added: "Sometimes women hire me just to talk. It's non-threatening." Quite the cunning maneuver to avoid sex yet still collect his paper salad. My post-non-coital emotions ranged from anger to humiliation and finally to resignation.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + jessmapex in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    Recently I engaged the services of a well-reviewed escort for (what I anticipated would be) an hour of intimacy. He arrived in a fluster, so--to calm his nerves--we started off by talking, sitting side by side, as a host might entertain a party guest. We talked... and talked... and talked. I began to wonder when the main event might occur. Two hours passed--pleasantly enough--until he made "we should wrap this up" noises. When I asked what happened to the intimacy, he said he had just given me the Boyfriend Experience, and had stayed longer than his (not insignificant) fee warranted. I let him go, but then I realized that he had NOT given me the BFE, but rather the Platonic Friend Experience, since I could have spent exactly the same amount of time chatting with an everyday acquaintance for nothing! Having gone years at a stretch without physical contact, I don't want pleasantries over tea, I want barriers-down commingling, however brief. In an attempt to justify his evasion, he added: "Sometimes women hire me just to talk. It's non-threatening." Quite the cunning maneuver to avoid sex yet still collect his paper salad. My post-non-coital emotions ranged from anger to humiliation and finally to resignation.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + glutes in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    Recently I engaged the services of a well-reviewed escort for (what I anticipated would be) an hour of intimacy. He arrived in a fluster, so--to calm his nerves--we started off by talking, sitting side by side, as a host might entertain a party guest. We talked... and talked... and talked. I began to wonder when the main event might occur. Two hours passed--pleasantly enough--until he made "we should wrap this up" noises. When I asked what happened to the intimacy, he said he had just given me the Boyfriend Experience, and had stayed longer than his (not insignificant) fee warranted. I let him go, but then I realized that he had NOT given me the BFE, but rather the Platonic Friend Experience, since I could have spent exactly the same amount of time chatting with an everyday acquaintance for nothing! Having gone years at a stretch without physical contact, I don't want pleasantries over tea, I want barriers-down commingling, however brief. In an attempt to justify his evasion, he added: "Sometimes women hire me just to talk. It's non-threatening." Quite the cunning maneuver to avoid sex yet still collect his paper salad. My post-non-coital emotions ranged from anger to humiliation and finally to resignation.
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    Rick M got a reaction from sexymonk in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    Recently I engaged the services of a well-reviewed escort for (what I anticipated would be) an hour of intimacy. He arrived in a fluster, so--to calm his nerves--we started off by talking, sitting side by side, as a host might entertain a party guest. We talked... and talked... and talked. I began to wonder when the main event might occur. Two hours passed--pleasantly enough--until he made "we should wrap this up" noises. When I asked what happened to the intimacy, he said he had just given me the Boyfriend Experience, and had stayed longer than his (not insignificant) fee warranted. I let him go, but then I realized that he had NOT given me the BFE, but rather the Platonic Friend Experience, since I could have spent exactly the same amount of time chatting with an everyday acquaintance for nothing! Having gone years at a stretch without physical contact, I don't want pleasantries over tea, I want barriers-down commingling, however brief. In an attempt to justify his evasion, he added: "Sometimes women hire me just to talk. It's non-threatening." Quite the cunning maneuver to avoid sex yet still collect his paper salad. My post-non-coital emotions ranged from anger to humiliation and finally to resignation.
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    Rick M got a reaction from MikeBiDude in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    As someone else pointed out, I have been hiring (since March 2019) with variable results; I intend to post a statistical summary of success (vs not) in February. I'm still making up for a mostly vacant sexual life before then. In the meantime, I'm signing off this thread.
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    Rick M got a reaction from CuriousByNature in The BFE is a smoke screen   
    Recently I engaged the services of a well-reviewed escort for (what I anticipated would be) an hour of intimacy. He arrived in a fluster, so--to calm his nerves--we started off by talking, sitting side by side, as a host might entertain a party guest. We talked... and talked... and talked. I began to wonder when the main event might occur. Two hours passed--pleasantly enough--until he made "we should wrap this up" noises. When I asked what happened to the intimacy, he said he had just given me the Boyfriend Experience, and had stayed longer than his (not insignificant) fee warranted. I let him go, but then I realized that he had NOT given me the BFE, but rather the Platonic Friend Experience, since I could have spent exactly the same amount of time chatting with an everyday acquaintance for nothing! Having gone years at a stretch without physical contact, I don't want pleasantries over tea, I want barriers-down commingling, however brief. In an attempt to justify his evasion, he added: "Sometimes women hire me just to talk. It's non-threatening." Quite the cunning maneuver to avoid sex yet still collect his paper salad. My post-non-coital emotions ranged from anger to humiliation and finally to resignation.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + easygoingpal in What's your brothel budget?   
    My investments have been good to me, and my needs are few, so I don't mind spreading the extra cash around. I feel the money is particularly well-spent if I meet someone interesting who will converse and exchange ideas in addition to romping in the sack.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + Just Sayin in What's your brothel budget?   
    My investments have been good to me, and my needs are few, so I don't mind spreading the extra cash around. I feel the money is particularly well-spent if I meet someone interesting who will converse and exchange ideas in addition to romping in the sack.
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    Rick M got a reaction from Rvarghcrna in What's your brothel budget?   
    My investments have been good to me, and my needs are few, so I don't mind spreading the extra cash around. I feel the money is particularly well-spent if I meet someone interesting who will converse and exchange ideas in addition to romping in the sack.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + keroscenefire in What's your brothel budget?   
    My investments have been good to me, and my needs are few, so I don't mind spreading the extra cash around. I feel the money is particularly well-spent if I meet someone interesting who will converse and exchange ideas in addition to romping in the sack.
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    Rick M got a reaction from liubit in What's your brothel budget?   
    My investments have been good to me, and my needs are few, so I don't mind spreading the extra cash around. I feel the money is particularly well-spent if I meet someone interesting who will converse and exchange ideas in addition to romping in the sack.
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    Rick M got a reaction from + Hung_Cody in What's your brothel budget?   
    My investments have been good to me, and my needs are few, so I don't mind spreading the extra cash around. I feel the money is particularly well-spent if I meet someone interesting who will converse and exchange ideas in addition to romping in the sack.
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    Rick M got a reaction from JamesMorris in New kid in town: DCHotboy   
    Met him earlier today. Just relocated here to Washington, DC. A polite, quiet--one might say shy, but friendly--attractive Southern blue-collar guy who gets right down to business. I submitted his first review to RM.
    https://rent.men/DChotboy
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    Rick M got a reaction from gersonides in 411 on Chris Daniel in NYC   
    I'm scheduled to meet him later this week in DC. Only 3 Big Bens, not 5. I've had great encounters without kissing, so that won't be an issue with me. I'll let this thread know my opinions afterwards.
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