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What if getting a massage is my hobby?

What if getting a massage is my hobby?

Jacking off usually works...

The whole time

I'll second, third, and fourth Mark!!
You'd have no problems at all with ANY kind of massage you were in the mood for!
(Sorry for the dangling participle or whatever it is - LOL)

Yes, I had a massage with him a few days ago. Pictures are accurate. I think that he actually looks better in person. You could bounce a quarter off his butt. Real midwestern cornfed beef from Nebraska. Excellent massage on a table. Bells and whistles reserved for just the last few minutes, but well worth waiting for. Super sweet guy too. One of the best I've had in LA. I will repeat.

I used to be just like the OP in so many ways. I am usually in the spa not here, as I hire masseurs and not escorts. But this topic is close to my heart and I felt compelled to weigh in. I was 130 lbs overweight. Short, bald, smaller package, not the ideal man bait. I had weight loss surgery 10 years ago. Lost 100 lbs, but put 30lbs back on. Left me down a net 70. Still 60lbs overweight when I enteted the massage scene. I picked what I thought was the hottest guy in my area. We have become regulars. He has built me up, encouraged me, and motivated me. By sharing myself with him, I have now lost another 30 lbs and my massage experiences are now incredible. Many masseurs are used to dealing with guys with confidence issues and if you find the right one, it can really help. Dont stop trying. Put yourself out there. If you connect with right guy, it can change your whole life. I credit the 2 masseurs I see regularly with my new found self acceptance. They both say, in total honesty, it's the energy the client brings that determines how they respond to you, much more than the physical attributes. Go get em tiger!

I used to be just like the OP in so many ways. I am usually in the spa not here, as I hire masseurs and not escorts. But this topic is close to my heart and I felt compelled to weigh in. I was 130 lbs overweight. Short, bald, smaller package, not the ideal man bait. I had weight loss surgery 10 years ago. Lost 100 lbs, but put 30lbs back on. Left me down a net 70. Still 60lbs overweight when I enteted the massage scene. I picked what I thought was the hottest guy in my area. We have become regulars. He has built me up, encouraged me, and motivated me. By sharing myself with him, I have now lost another 30 lbs and my massage experiences are now incredible. Many masseurs are used to dealing with guys with confidence issues and if you find the right one, it can really help. Dont stop trying. Put yourself out there. If you connect with right guy, it can change your whole life. I credit the 2 masseurs I see regularly with my new found self acceptance. They both say, in total honesty, it's the energy the client brings that determines how they respond to you, much more than the physical attributes. Go get em tiger!

Damn!!! Something about him drives me crazy! ?

Assuming you're looking for the ad for Mark from North Hollywood, here it is.
 
https://rentmasseur.com/GreatHandsLA

I think this falls right in line with the other recent thread on the meaning of YMMV. Too many details posted here puts the masseur in an awkward position if they don't want to provide exactly the same "details" to a different client.

I think this falls right in line with the other recent thread on the meaning of YMMV. Too many details posted here puts the masseur in an awkward position if they don't want to provide exactly the same "details" to a different client.

I think this falls right in line with the other recent thread on the meaning of YMMV. Too many details posted here puts the masseur in an awkward position if they don't want to provide exactly the same "details" to a different client.

I was asked on two different occasions (by different masseurs) not to share details of my experience specifically on this board. In both cases, it was actually very positive.

NEVER

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I can only offer second hand information. I know 2 people who have told me they had excellent recent experiences. Nude and lots of extras and it was recent. I trust these sources.

I agree with nycman's definition. I use it when I feel my experience was somehow outside this masseurs norm.

I know that I have read some negative reviews about him. But I serached for them and couldn't find them now. Hopefully GayGamer323 can give you more info.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

Sounds like we come from similar backgrounds. I feel like I have a lot of catching up to do. Although my current go to says that daddys are pretty popular with some. Sure hoping that's true.

This is a great thread! Thanks to all who weigh in.
 
As for me, the answer is yes, it can be addicting and get out of control emotionally and financially. But I will say this: in my nearly ten years of getting massages I have met some of nicest most interesting guys and I would not trade it for anything. I’m friends with some now and see others occasionally. Yes there are bad, if not hilariously awful experiences, but those are few and far between. If one is careful and learns how to read ads so as to choose the good ones and avoid the bad, it can be a rewarding (sometimes expensive) way to interact with people and have genuinely good experiences.
 
Regardless of motives on either side, we are all still people looking for connection. If we treat others respectfully then the chances of the encounter being mutually rewarding are much higher. I’ve experienced this several times. Massage can turn into a genuine connection.
 
What I’ve also found is that I like giving massages as much as receiving them now. A good masseur can teach you a lot about how to receive the massage as well as how to give a good one. I have had more than one masseur tell me they are going to give me the massage they would like to have.
 
I think at the end of the day it all depends on what you are in it for and what you want to get out of it short term and long term. I see massage as a language of touch, a way to converse. Receiving touch is like listening to someone. Some masseurs have a lot to say I want to hear, others not so much!
 
Enjoy it!

Try Mark in North Hollywood.
Becomes very sensual/erotic fairly soon and continues thru entire massage.
Inner thighs and adjacent neiborhoods all included, thoroughly.
He's pretty open so be open with him.

I guess I am fortunate. I am in L.A. and have found 2 so far that consistently treat me the way I want to be treated. I am relatively new to this scene, so I don't have a long list. I hope to find a third, and then rotate between the three. I assume you have not been as fortunate?

I admit that I am new to this scene having only been getting massages through rentmasseur for about a year. I guess I have been fortunate. I always book for an erotic massage and they have always ended in a very SEXUAL experience if I want it to go there. I have also never been upsold. I dont go to inexpensive masseurs as I think I would be upcharged. Nonetheless, I would be highly disappointed if I bokked erotic and he wasnt naked, HE, etc. I guess that's why Im hesitant to expand my circle. I have mostly relied on PMs here.