Massageislife

Three times in my career I’ve showed up and the provider was a different person than in the ad. It was flabbergasting, but it “worked,” I guess, since each time, I was so confused that I just went through with it and never came back. I’ve figured out now how (such as using this site) to reduce the chance of that happening again, but, wow! This profession has enough challenges for providers already. You gotta nerves of steel to greet someone at the door that you’ve catfished!

I think one should definitely pay attention to how providers advertise. That’s a basic professional courtesy. This is not to say that many (most?) providers of private massage aren’t open to more intimacy than they advertise. Reading their Rentmasseur reviews or posts about them here, checking out the text and photos in their ads can give you additional information about the latitude of their services, but there’s no need to go to someone who is only offering therapeutic massage, if you want something more. There are lots of options out there. For what it’s worth—and from considerable personal experience—here’s how I see these categories: Therapeutic: massage intended for health, both physical and mental. These guys are often professionally trained and just prefer the independence of not working in a “legit” spa. The only consistent difference I have seen from the health spa experience is that there is, mercifully, no prudish draping. Sensual: massage focused on pleasure, without introducing more conventional aspects of sexual expression. These guys tend to be self-taught and have recognized a market for men who will pay for the luxury of being touched by another, usually handsome man. Erotic: massage incorporating the interactive and more explicitly sexual possibilities of massage. I would be disappointed if I hired someone for an erotic massage and he stayed fully clothed throughout, sent signals that he did not want me to touch him, and that HE was not available. I’ve had rare instances where this happened, but I just didn’t hire them again.

I’ve posted a reply about Cristianok before, but as I just saw him last Saturday, I thought I’d throw in again that he still is one of the very best private masseurs I’ve ever had. Besides being shockingly good-looking, he’s a kind soul and intensely focused on providing a pleasurable experience. I didn’t get a tiered pricing message when I first starting seeing him when he visited NYC about 5 years ago, so we’ve got a long understood payment arrangement. One other thing: I don’t really get or like the use of “YMMV” (like above) on this site. I don’t see its value in these communications. Since it’s only ever used, from what I’ve seen, to describe extras beyond what I understand to be the generally understood expectations of “erotic” massage (masseur naked (at some point), MT, and HE), I feel like it’s a given that one can’t predict if the masseur will offer more. That’s an aspect of humanity and individuality that’s beyond legitimate expectations for this job. I really only want to hear what guys on this site did or didn’t experience with a masseur. It’s genuinely unhelpful to tell me that I might not get the extras that others got. I know that already!

I saw him once and can vouch for his sweet personality. He gave a just okay massage but then let me massage him, which ended up being pretty fun. He did let me know that he identified as straight, though, which, no matter how open a masseur or escort is, isn’t appealing to me.

I can’t find any information on this guy (just one review on his page). Is he real? AmirXXAmir on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I love this guy. Sweet, sensual, and unbelievably good-looking. Close to my all-time favorite.

Met Liam and wanted to report back a really good experience. He is the guy in the ad (some repliers seemed to express doubt about this) and a genuinely nice man. The first half hour (of 90 min) of the massage included such a good conversation that I almost forgot what I had come there for. He was easing me into a very blissful and, finally, intense massage experience, however. Given this thread (all that I could find in him) and the scanty reviews on his ad, I had kept my expectations low, but, honestly, it couldn’t have been better.

Anybody taken the plunge with this guy?: Nybeardedmasseur on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

My all-time favorite, any city: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/3199/ https://rentmasseur.com/Irajmirage

There’s no need for that. Let’s be kind here. I like Louis a lot and enjoyed our time together. He wasn’t responsive to my small hints for a more erotic experience, and that’s fine. I respect his boundaries.

That is not my experience with Louis, and I read well

Couldn’t disagree more. I met Paulo, and his pictures and age are accurate. His FB and Instagram both reflect that. I really liked his massage and sweet personality as well. I always hate to hear that providers look at phones during the massage, but, fortunately, that was not my experience. The only downside was that neither of us could host, and renting a room adds too much to a rate that is already high.

I love Louis. He’s a sweet, interesting person, and gives a great massage without his shirt on—what a pretty body🥰—but I’m always a little frustrated by the lack of interactivity. My general goal is not sex or even a happy ending, but I moved to private massage for a less passive experience.

On Rentmen too: https://rent.men/Paulo_Col

Crushingly sad. ☹️ He was a really sweet guy. Any word on what happened?

On Rentmen too: https://rent.men/Santiagovl

Any experiences with this handsome masseur?: https://rentmasseur.com/Paulo_Col

https://rent.men/rafael_brny

He’s on Rentmasseur as well: https://rentmasseur.com/DarioEnzo Any experiences?

He quoted me (and I paid) $450!

I fooled around and found out. Rafael, is a nice guy, looks just like his stunning pics, and is, indeed, versatile. Expensive but worth the splurge.

Your post is unnecessary. Everyone has preferences in what they desire, and no one is trying to change anyone else’s. The point here is civility. We’re a community of people of various sizes, ages, and genders. Those areas can be addressed without verging into insult.

It doesn’t happen a lot on this site—which is a treasure, by the way—but I’m always stunned on the rare occasions when commenters use right-wing language like “woke,” “canceled,” or, in an instance on a past thread, “social justice warrior.” These terms are all meant to diminish efforts to protect and honor people who have been and continue to be subject to every kind of abuse and violence—like the queer men this site primarily serves! I don’t know what commenters would get out of throwing out insults about someone’s weight, age, etc., which add an unnecessary toxicity to this place of deep, human pleasure. Thank you all who call it out every time. ❤️

I’m also interested if he was nude and allowed/encouraged MT. $200 is too high, if not.