Massageislife

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I saw him in the subway the other day! He looks just like his current pictures. The info about him on this site, however, is a whole forest of red flags!

Thanks!

What did he quote you for that?

Thanks for the research. You're good!

Going to him was a bit unusual for me, since I generally go for masseurs advertising erotic, but I wanted a good legit therapeutic massage, and his website looked professional. The massage, which lasted for over an hour was excellent. He's definitely trained.

He and CJ seem to have been dating and now not. When I reached out to CJ last year, he said he and "Anjrped," as he was calling himself then only massaged together. Anjrped replied the same thing. Beware of constant name changers!

Yes, there were

I guess a masseur's gender performance is something that some men on this site want to hear about and factor into their decision-making about who to hire, but gender (not sexual)--like race and age--preferences are so linked to (basically they originate from) such hateful forces in our history that I try not to air any that I might have on this site. We all understand (right?) that men who are looking for sensual/erotic massages from other men are considered by many--by that fact alone--"effete/effeminate"?

Yeah, I feel like I've seen him discussed, but I can't find a thread. Here's his personal website: https://www.georgejamesspa.com/ I had a COMPLETE experience with George, starting with an excellent massage and moving on...

Speaking for myself, at the five year mark, it takes longer than five years!

I couldn't either. Wow, he's cute!

Hey, Axiom, I think I confused this thread. That comment was about this guy: https://rent.men/Hhermess

That's him, but don't let me discourage you. There's a lot of comments on him on this site, if you can track down his former names.

Gman, Sorry for not reading more carefully. Yeah, that guy is sexy beyond words, but the talk about him on this site is pretty bad.

https://rentmen.eu/CjBlake

What an interesting thread! The focus of my sexuality has moved through pick-ups and relationships for the first years of my out life to the highly erotic club scene and "circuit" to strip clubs and now to m4m massage (porn has always had some role in my sex life). I haven't really moved on to escorts yet, but I hope to explore that experience someday. Each stage has been deeply rewarding but also complicated. I'm pretty Freudian about this: after the liquid perfection of life in the womb, humans are on a search for a return to that complete, safe, satisfying experience of merging with another person. It's not fully achievable, of course (my mother wouldn't have it! (plus I've grown a bit)), but all those different phases gave me intense moments of connection with another man and of blissful release from the "vale of sorrows" of ours. All of these phases had their expenses--love DEFINITELY ain't free--so I have to use the same economic calculations about massage that I used in my other sexual pursuits. And even the emotional dimensions: it's easy to say that transactional sexual encounters like with strippers, escorts, or erotic masseurs aren't "real," but tricks and even boyfriends/husbands aren't simple emotionally either. We should all attend to our purses and our hearts. The bottom line for me is that life is not easy; there is no solution to horniness or loneliness; rich emotional and sexual experiences are to be found in all kinds of places and all kinds of conditions. Right now for me "massage is life."

On rentmen: https://rentmen.eu/CjBlake

No one is going to make that bet. We all know there are scammers everywhere (Hello, Mr. President!). I value, really value this site for many reasons, and one of them is to hear about who might be a scammer.

Pictures 3, 4, and 5 are all ones used by multiple scammers (or maybe just one chameleonic one) on rentmasseur

Didn't have a 4-habded, but once met Brad. I recommend him

I'd actually okay with that. Sounds like it was fun!

Nude and hard with no HE. My God, that sounds like torture. Please tell me that there was lots and lots of MT!

That makes sense. I haven't caught many advertising in this way. When I see an appealing masseurfinder ad, I cross-check rentmasseur (since I like erotic massage). I stopped my "research" on Miguel, when I didn't see the latter. I was hoping the $150 rate meant (as it should) that the massage would be erotic. Conversely, when I see an appealing ad on rentmasseur (advertising erotic), I cross-check rentmen, since I'm not looking for an escort experience (not that those wouldn't be fun!). Live and learn!

I reported my experience on the other active thread on Miguel