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Congrats on making a sizable life change. You sound like you're doing great!
 
PS: I wouldn't recommend EVERYONE quitting alcohol. If you can regulate your usage, it's perfectly safe and enjoyable. Vices- under control- are important things. It's all a part of a healthy balance in life. We cannot live completely 'without' as human beings.

I had for an extended period of unemployment been taking Celexa, a mild serotonin uptake inhibitor. I stopped it a couple years back, but had the prescription refilled after last November's election. It helps to curb bouts of depression and sleepless nights--very few side effects. My doctor suggested I stop watching the news, profoundly unhelpful advice. I did go back to work part time which really has helped--more human interaction.

Without a doubt, remembering this quote saved me from making a colossal fool of myself. And all escorts I've hired for similar excursions have negotiated extremely fairly with me because of that. This allowed me to know that I was approaching things from a "good place." If it worked out, fantastic. If not, it just wasn't meant to be and I moved on.

Without a doubt, remembering this quote saved me from making a colossal fool of myself. And all escorts I've hired for similar excursions have negotiated extremely fairly with me because of that. This allowed me to know that I was approaching things from a "good place." If it worked out, fantastic. If not, it just wasn't meant to be and I moved on.

It's called a photo vault

I can’t wait to read the lies.

I gladly tip for each session. And I never do it in a condescending manner. Any other gifts or signs of appreciation are separate. I don't tip out of a sense of "what can I receive from it." Tipping works for me. And based on the comments I've received afterwards, it is graciously appreciated...and is graciously remembered.

Absolutely correct. Benjamin wasn't saying that he didn't benefit from privilege. He was saying that given whatever else his background afforded him, his parents didn't add to that by funding his college.

But the problem with your point is that that is not the kind of person this thread is about. It's about a kid from a financially secure family who feels entitled to handouts into his adulthood. If Benjamin (or I or anyone else) had posted similar comments in a thread about a poor former foster youth who was using GoFundMe to try to attend college, your critique would be warranted. Here -- not so much.

Why, black or Asian or Latin origin people can have money too. Yes that gives you a safety net as opposed to a child of a single parent on drugs or who abandoned their kid or a kid in foster care. But still it looks like they didn't give any money sans basic support and he figured out how to do it right up till masters?

Haha. No, afraid I’m a bit more respectful of the time and effort which is required of being an escort. Besides, the size of my balls notwithstanding, they aren’t nearly large enough that I’d walk in bragging about my idiotic schemes on how to “work” the system. I like my balls attached thank you ?

Haha. No, afraid I’m a bit more respectful of the time and effort which is required of being an escort. Besides, the size of my balls notwithstanding, they aren’t nearly large enough that I’d walk in bragging about my idiotic schemes on how to “work” the system. I like my balls attached thank you ?

Haha!! Good one. And it would be easy for me to remember ?

Hi guys. Once again, tapping into your excellent wisdom. I can readily appreciate that Cash Is King. Yet, I have to ask if other forms of payment are accepted...or perhaps even desired? My own concern is in transacting larger amounts for extended/travel sessions. I can be mugged in the best neighborhoods before I enter into the hotel lobby. I’m open to options as well as insight into how to change my POV to continue my own evolution. As always, thanks guys ?

Just like in any other service industry I’ve worked in, it always feels good to be tipped. I don’t expect it, and it stands out a lot. I remember which clients tip me, and I will always accept feedback; especially if it’s positive feedback about why you decided to tip me.
 
Hiring me again is the best feeling, though. Regardless of being tipped, being a regular means we are building a long relationship together.

Just like in any other service industry I’ve worked in, it always feels good to be tipped. I don’t expect it, and it stands out a lot. I remember which clients tip me, and I will always accept feedback; especially if it’s positive feedback about why you decided to tip me.
 
Hiring me again is the best feeling, though. Regardless of being tipped, being a regular means we are building a long relationship together.

Just like in any other service industry I’ve worked in, it always feels good to be tipped. I don’t expect it, and it stands out a lot. I remember which clients tip me, and I will always accept feedback; especially if it’s positive feedback about why you decided to tip me.
 
Hiring me again is the best feeling, though. Regardless of being tipped, being a regular means we are building a long relationship together.

I never expect tips but am very appreciative when I receive a tip... I usually interpret that as a sign the client really enjoyed our time together.

Your business model reflects your generous persona, which is why you have rarely been stiffed. I always enjoy your posts!

I think Tag Adams got caught and sent to jail on Manhunt, I don't think apps existed at the time, or maybe they weren't even popular.
 
Just use your common sense: PNP, minors, no age, bring party favors across state lines, ask someone to come to you for $ with a friend, etc. big red flags!

Amazing...this just happens to be a major blip on my radar. Currently scheduling a few long range plans with my regular escort for early 2020 events requiring advance ticket purchases. He is unable to attend one event, so I suggested the option of hiring an escort only to accompany me to the event and on to dinner afterwards...no sex, just companionship for a hopefully mutually enjoyed evening. My regular is kindly arranging a shortlist of options for me to approach and inquire. If all of my investments had generated such dividends, I’d be an even happier mature man than I am. ?

All very good points. I guess it does not matter. As you said, I probably put too much stock into him being pleased with the encounter. I will keep that in mind.
 
Thank you for your kind response.

UPDATE... I recently completed a multi-day session with an escort. Thanks to your spot on advice, the event far exceeded my hopes. And, we are in the midst of planning another multi-day event before year end. The truly amazing thing, it just seemed to flow incredibly naturally. We did excellent pre-planning together. We established rules and boundaries regarding things like "personal time," and the nights and days flew at automatic pilot. Now that the initial trip has taken place, I am in a better position to thank you properly. Your kind help gave me back at least 20 years. Thanks much, your advice is greatly appreciated...

UPDATE... I recently completed a multi-day session with an escort. Thanks to your spot on advice, the event far exceeded my hopes. And, we are in the midst of planning another multi-day event before year end. The truly amazing thing, it just seemed to flow incredibly naturally. We did excellent pre-planning together. We established rules and boundaries regarding things like "personal time," and the nights and days flew at automatic pilot. Now that the initial trip has taken place, I am in a better position to thank you properly. Your kind help gave me back at least 20 years. Thanks much, your advice is greatly appreciated...

UPDATE... I recently completed a multi-day session with an escort. Thanks to your spot on advice, the event far exceeded my hopes. And, we are in the midst of planning another multi-day event before year end. The truly amazing thing, it just seemed to flow incredibly naturally. We did excellent pre-planning together. We established rules and boundaries regarding things like "personal time," and the nights and days flew at automatic pilot. Now that the initial trip has taken place, I am in a better position to thank you properly. Your kind help gave me back at least 20 years. Thanks much, your advice is greatly appreciated...