NoahMathews89

Life is a paradox. Or a series of paradoxes. This guy appears to have it all right? So hot. So confident. So desirable. But once you start reading his writing and getting a glimpse into HIS view of the world suddenly he's not desirable at all. To me at least. And I've noticed this with a lot of super hot guys on the rent sites. They want a perspective client to send them pictures? As if it's a date? How dumb are they? They fail to connect that they are charging ($400 in Carlos' case) to see someone yet they want to approve their appearance before they agree to see them? As if the client is asking them out on a date? Dumb. Dumb. Dumb. So Carlos appears to have it all. But if he can't figure out this simple pay-for-play equation, you gotta wonder what other straight forward concepts have eluded him his entire life? And the tragedy is - it's such a missed opportunity here. He's a personal trainer and a nutritional coach right? If he was smart, he would WELCOME the fat, the unfit, the undesirable with OPEN ARMS so he could potentially sign them up as clients and have a booming business. And you know what? It wouldn't surprise me at all if he's refused personal training clients based on their lack of fitness. He just seems that stupid to me. When I was in my teens and early twenties I used to think that looks were EVERYTHING. But they're really not. How you make people feel is EVERYTHING. And the handful of masseurs I use again and again and again (who are OFTEN not available when I am because they book up FAST and have oodles of repeat clients like myself) are not conventionally good looking like Carols. But they make me FEEL amazing. Not just physically amazing. But they're so welcoming and kind and I always leave with a plan to book them again as soon as possible. 

Life is a paradox. Or a series of paradoxes. This guy appears to have it all right? So hot. So confident. So desirable. But once you start reading his writing and getting a glimpse into HIS view of the world suddenly he's not desirable at all. To me at least. And I've noticed this with a lot of super hot guys on the rent sites. They want a perspective client to send them pictures? As if it's a date? How dumb are they? They fail to connect that they are charging ($400 in Carlos' case) to see someone yet they want to approve their appearance before they agree to see them? As if the client is asking them out on a date? Dumb. Dumb. Dumb. So Carlos appears to have it all. But if he can't figure out this simple pay-for-play equation, you gotta wonder what other straight forward concepts have eluded him his entire life? And the tragedy is - it's such a missed opportunity here. He's a personal trainer and a nutritional coach right? If he was smart, he would WELCOME the fat, the unfit, the undesirable with OPEN ARMS so he could potentially sign them up as clients and have a booming business. And you know what? It wouldn't surprise me at all if he's refused personal training clients based on their lack of fitness. He just seems that stupid to me. When I was in my teens and early twenties I used to think that looks were EVERYTHING. But they're really not. How you make people feel is EVERYTHING. And the handful of masseurs I use again and again and again (who are OFTEN not available when I am because they book up FAST and have oodles of repeat clients like myself) are not conventionally good looking like Carols. But they make me FEEL amazing. Not just physically amazing. But they're so welcoming and kind and I always leave with a plan to book them again as soon as possible. 

Interesting. Even more interesting is the fact your account was created mere hours ago. Hmmmm. 

Hired him when he was in Los Angeles recently. He’s got phenomenal massage skills. Very deep. Which is great. But he’s kind of a stuck-up asshole. Actually brags about how great a masseur he is. It reminds me of a conversation I was having with a coworker the other day where I said to him, "It doesn’t really matter how talented you are. If you’re an asshole, and nobody wants to work with you, you’re not gonna go far in this business."
And I agree with a previous commentor. He spends a lot of time trying to arouse you, and then says at the end, “you can finish yourself off." which if you think about it and analyze it, it’s really the asshole thing to do.
I was so aroused at that point I did finish myself off. And the rough part came in where he started choking me. And I had to have him loosen his grip. So I suspect that’s the rough stuff that was alluded to previously in this thread.
So yes, he’s got incredible massage skills. But he’s so full of himself and outwardly cocky that he comes off like a dick. 
Now we all know those behaviors are just a cover for an incredibly low self-esteem searching for love and validation. I hope he figures that out one day and changes. 
And if he ever reads this thread. My message to him is this: You need to let your work speak for itself. Constantly telling people how great you are has the opposite effect than what you intend. And figure out how to be nice. You have the potential to be great. But you’re sabotaging yourself with your behavior.
 
 

Thanks for the update. I’ve seen that amazing cock of yours. I’m not surprised.

Life is a paradox. Or a series of paradoxes. This guy appears to have it all right? So hot. So confident. So desirable. But once you start reading his writing and getting a glimpse into HIS view of the world suddenly he's not desirable at all. To me at least. And I've noticed this with a lot of super hot guys on the rent sites. They want a perspective client to send them pictures? As if it's a date? How dumb are they? They fail to connect that they are charging ($400 in Carlos' case) to see someone yet they want to approve their appearance before they agree to see them? As if the client is asking them out on a date? Dumb. Dumb. Dumb. So Carlos appears to have it all. But if he can't figure out this simple pay-for-play equation, you gotta wonder what other straight forward concepts have eluded him his entire life? And the tragedy is - it's such a missed opportunity here. He's a personal trainer and a nutritional coach right? If he was smart, he would WELCOME the fat, the unfit, the undesirable with OPEN ARMS so he could potentially sign them up as clients and have a booming business. And you know what? It wouldn't surprise me at all if he's refused personal training clients based on their lack of fitness. He just seems that stupid to me. When I was in my teens and early twenties I used to think that looks were EVERYTHING. But they're really not. How you make people feel is EVERYTHING. And the handful of masseurs I use again and again and again (who are OFTEN not available when I am because they book up FAST and have oodles of repeat clients like myself) are not conventionally good looking like Carols. But they make me FEEL amazing. Not just physically amazing. But they're so welcoming and kind and I always leave with a plan to book them again as soon as possible. 

I’ve heard he’s on the short-list for a Nobel Peace Prize for his humanitarian efforts in the Sudan.

Yeah, maybe I’m in the minority here, but this is crazy to me.  
 
One of the benefits of hiring is - or should be? - that you’re free of having to offer yourself up for evaluation and approval in order to have a sexually rewarding experience.  Isn’t that part of what you’re paying for?
 
And isn’t our #1 job skill an ability to find the actual sexiness in all men and reflect it back to them?  An escort asking for pics … I’d wonder if he has that skill at all.  

Agree 100%

There’s no reason a masseur or escort needs your face or body photos. It’s a red flag that they’re probably cherry picking clients based on whatever preferences they have. I suggest clients pass and move on to the professionals with no hangups about how their clients look.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/21805/
Had a chance to meet Danny for a massage earlier this week and had a good experience.  I noticed he was mentioned in an earlier thread thats closed but I pasted the link below.  He had some mixed reviews but maybe it's because he has more ecperience I think his technique was very good.  Yes he's quiet as mentioned but it is due to the fact that english is not his first language and he's very reserved.  He has a great relaxing place, uses a table and provides a shower and bottled water afterwards.  Mutual touch allowed  and HE with no upselling.  I'll be seeing him again on my next visit to LA.
 
 

Interesting. Even more interesting is the fact your account was created mere hours ago. Hmmmm. 

Interesting. Even more interesting is the fact your account was created mere hours ago. Hmmmm. 

Hired him when he was in Los Angeles recently. He’s got phenomenal massage skills. Very deep. Which is great. But he’s kind of a stuck-up asshole. Actually brags about how great a masseur he is. It reminds me of a conversation I was having with a coworker the other day where I said to him, "It doesn’t really matter how talented you are. If you’re an asshole, and nobody wants to work with you, you’re not gonna go far in this business."
And I agree with a previous commentor. He spends a lot of time trying to arouse you, and then says at the end, “you can finish yourself off." which if you think about it and analyze it, it’s really the asshole thing to do.
I was so aroused at that point I did finish myself off. And the rough part came in where he started choking me. And I had to have him loosen his grip. So I suspect that’s the rough stuff that was alluded to previously in this thread.
So yes, he’s got incredible massage skills. But he’s so full of himself and outwardly cocky that he comes off like a dick. 
Now we all know those behaviors are just a cover for an incredibly low self-esteem searching for love and validation. I hope he figures that out one day and changes. 
And if he ever reads this thread. My message to him is this: You need to let your work speak for itself. Constantly telling people how great you are has the opposite effect than what you intend. And figure out how to be nice. You have the potential to be great. But you’re sabotaging yourself with your behavior.
 
 

Interesting. Even more interesting is the fact your account was created mere hours ago. Hmmmm. 

Interesting. Even more interesting is the fact your account was created mere hours ago. Hmmmm. 

Hired him when he was in Los Angeles recently. He’s got phenomenal massage skills. Very deep. Which is great. But he’s kind of a stuck-up asshole. Actually brags about how great a masseur he is. It reminds me of a conversation I was having with a coworker the other day where I said to him, "It doesn’t really matter how talented you are. If you’re an asshole, and nobody wants to work with you, you’re not gonna go far in this business."
And I agree with a previous commentor. He spends a lot of time trying to arouse you, and then says at the end, “you can finish yourself off." which if you think about it and analyze it, it’s really the asshole thing to do.
I was so aroused at that point I did finish myself off. And the rough part came in where he started choking me. And I had to have him loosen his grip. So I suspect that’s the rough stuff that was alluded to previously in this thread.
So yes, he’s got incredible massage skills. But he’s so full of himself and outwardly cocky that he comes off like a dick. 
Now we all know those behaviors are just a cover for an incredibly low self-esteem searching for love and validation. I hope he figures that out one day and changes. 
And if he ever reads this thread. My message to him is this: You need to let your work speak for itself. Constantly telling people how great you are has the opposite effect than what you intend. And figure out how to be nice. You have the potential to be great. But you’re sabotaging yourself with your behavior.
 
 

Hired him when he was in Los Angeles recently. He’s got phenomenal massage skills. Very deep. Which is great. But he’s kind of a stuck-up asshole. Actually brags about how great a masseur he is. It reminds me of a conversation I was having with a coworker the other day where I said to him, "It doesn’t really matter how talented you are. If you’re an asshole, and nobody wants to work with you, you’re not gonna go far in this business."
And I agree with a previous commentor. He spends a lot of time trying to arouse you, and then says at the end, “you can finish yourself off." which if you think about it and analyze it, it’s really the asshole thing to do.
I was so aroused at that point I did finish myself off. And the rough part came in where he started choking me. And I had to have him loosen his grip. So I suspect that’s the rough stuff that was alluded to previously in this thread.
So yes, he’s got incredible massage skills. But he’s so full of himself and outwardly cocky that he comes off like a dick. 
Now we all know those behaviors are just a cover for an incredibly low self-esteem searching for love and validation. I hope he figures that out one day and changes. 
And if he ever reads this thread. My message to him is this: You need to let your work speak for itself. Constantly telling people how great you are has the opposite effect than what you intend. And figure out how to be nice. You have the potential to be great. But you’re sabotaging yourself with your behavior.
 
 

Life is a paradox. Or a series of paradoxes. This guy appears to have it all right? So hot. So confident. So desirable. But once you start reading his writing and getting a glimpse into HIS view of the world suddenly he's not desirable at all. To me at least. And I've noticed this with a lot of super hot guys on the rent sites. They want a perspective client to send them pictures? As if it's a date? How dumb are they? They fail to connect that they are charging ($400 in Carlos' case) to see someone yet they want to approve their appearance before they agree to see them? As if the client is asking them out on a date? Dumb. Dumb. Dumb. So Carlos appears to have it all. But if he can't figure out this simple pay-for-play equation, you gotta wonder what other straight forward concepts have eluded him his entire life? And the tragedy is - it's such a missed opportunity here. He's a personal trainer and a nutritional coach right? If he was smart, he would WELCOME the fat, the unfit, the undesirable with OPEN ARMS so he could potentially sign them up as clients and have a booming business. And you know what? It wouldn't surprise me at all if he's refused personal training clients based on their lack of fitness. He just seems that stupid to me. When I was in my teens and early twenties I used to think that looks were EVERYTHING. But they're really not. How you make people feel is EVERYTHING. And the handful of masseurs I use again and again and again (who are OFTEN not available when I am because they book up FAST and have oodles of repeat clients like myself) are not conventionally good looking like Carols. But they make me FEEL amazing. Not just physically amazing. But they're so welcoming and kind and I always leave with a plan to book them again as soon as possible. 

Traveling guys may differ from normal. They tend to have a captive audience depending on where they’re going and how long they’re staying. If few good options are normally available in a given market, that can drive up demand, and with it, prices.
When I travel, I keep my prices constant and have no lack of appointments filling my schedule from morning to night. At least twice as many same day requests I have to turn down because I’m booked. I could easily charge more based on that high demand but I prefer having plenty of others ready and willing to snatch an appointment when someone else cancels or no-shows. Pricing is not a barrier to seeing me as much as availability is, so I fill in those spots very quickly with same day requests. Suddenly people get a lot less picky about start time when there’s one spot left, take it or leave it.
$200+ for (1) hour of *actual* massage is bonkers. At that rate bracket, I would expect a lot of extras, rip-off schemes, unskilled massages, time shorting, or other unprofessional shenanigans. I charge $195 for 90 mins and it’s truly an excellent massage.
My 60 min massage is $140. A lot of other pro masseurs hover between $120-$160. Much more than that and something is not right. Either that, or you’re getting much more than massage and you’re paying for it. Which is fine by the way, it’s just not fair to compare with regular massage sessions. It’s a different service. Apples and oranges.
I acknowledge local markets differ. NYC, LA, SF and others will naturally be much higher across the board.

Ok. Had a session with Ben. It was enjoyable. MT and HE. Might repeat.   

Ok. Had a session with Ben. It was enjoyable. MT and HE. Might repeat.   

Ok. Had a session with Ben. It was enjoyable. MT and HE. Might repeat.   

Ok. Had a session with Ben. It was enjoyable. MT and HE. Might repeat.   

Ok. Had a session with Ben. It was enjoyable. MT and HE. Might repeat.