Studsearcher

Like any job you’re worth what people are willing to pay rather than how much you want/need. If the market justifies higher rates then you’re justified raising your rate, and if it costs you a regular or two, the market will absorb it with new clients. A couple providers didn’t miss me a few years ago when they went from 200 straight to 300. I would suggest tactfully giving notice an appointment or two in advance much like a personal trainer or hairstylist might do.

Just a theory but it could be to deter law enforcement. LE could create fake SB accounts and message SD’s for free, whereas creating an SD account to catch SB’s has a paywall. If they eliminate SD accounts that even mildly suggest solicitation, then LE has no reason to start a fake conversation with them. If that makes any sense.

Just a theory but it could be to deter law enforcement. LE could create fake SB accounts and message SD’s for free, whereas creating an SD account to catch SB’s has a paywall. If they eliminate SD accounts that even mildly suggest solicitation, then LE has no reason to start a fake conversation with them. If that makes any sense.

I don’t get Lucky Horseshoe. Every time I’ve been, the dancers are latched on to a couple of regulars or hanging out with each other and ignoring everyone else. I don’t know how they make any money.
 
Corner Pocket in New Orleans usually has several who will visit your hotel. Though I’m not sure you’d want most of them to.

@Studsearcher Sometimes you crave the grunge of the Corner Pocket in New Orleans. It’s just something about the place I love ?

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

If an escort ever asks me for my stats and pic, here it is...
 

Didn’t he start out by touring with the Jason Sparks group? I’ve always thought he was a butter face. Maybe if his boyfriend was in the business...

The last year or so I’ve noticed a trend of the full time RM guys getting dressed and ready to leave or for me to leave, but they always seem to get dressed almost immediately after. I think part of this is because I’d been hiring traveling providers who are trying to fit as many appointments into the evening as possible.
 
Guys from other avenues, such as Seeking, have been more accommodating for pillow talk afterwards.
 
If I’m especially attracted to a guy, there is time remaining, and we’re at his place, I will awkwardly stay put until we use the remaining time. I’m awkward enough as it is so this isn’t a problem for me

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

The last year or so I’ve noticed a trend of the full time RM guys getting dressed and ready to leave or for me to leave, but they always seem to get dressed almost immediately after. I think part of this is because I’d been hiring traveling providers who are trying to fit as many appointments into the evening as possible.
 
Guys from other avenues, such as Seeking, have been more accommodating for pillow talk afterwards.
 
If I’m especially attracted to a guy, there is time remaining, and we’re at his place, I will awkwardly stay put until we use the remaining time. I’m awkward enough as it is so this isn’t a problem for me

A fascinating thread. Thanks to all.
 
I’m in my 60’s. Years ago I hired frequently, and this included weekend and extended travel. Doing this now intrigues me not at all, as I just don’t have the free time! I find myself as busy as I want with my social life, travel, music and other cultural pursuits which I don’t really need nor require a companion to enjoy. To be sure, worrying about whether my companion is bored, confused (or whatever) would reduce my own enjoyment of these outings.
 
Cost has gotten out of hand. Many NYC and LA escorts are now at $400/hour. This limits my enthusiasm. Compounding this is a vein of escort behavior that tends to treat clients as an ATM. (Happily, not all providers do this.) I’m assuming a significant economic downturn will change this pricing and maybe even this behavior.These gents are, of course, free to set their prices as they wish; I am equally free to demur.
 
I’ve always preferred clean-cut jock/muscular types (of any ethnicity). These are harder to find. I’m just not a huge fan of ink nor a rougher look.
 
And, the hookup sites offer plenty of decent fellows for free. Yes, it can be a crapshoot, but so can hiring escorts who 1) have inaccurate pics, 2) excessively shave their ages, or 3) whose actions aren’t in sync with the narrative of their ads.
 
For me, I find my money better spent elsewhere most days. I have significantly increased my annual charitable giving over the past few years, and doing so gives me joy. Saying “yes” with my time to friends and organizations asking for it gives me joy. Having a dose of “alone time” gives me joy. Hiring escorts lately has rarely brought me joy.
 
Ultimately, I wonder if my active hiring was a phase of my life best relegated to that earlier time.

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I’m also meeting with escorts less and less. I think for me it’s the lack of quality escorts that are my type in my area. Occasionally there is a hot traveler but not often. If I’m going to pay 200-300 dollars for an experience they had better be very good looking, not in anyway average. Which I think in my city there are just too many average guys. I still like to look at the Nyc rentmen ads, because there are so many hot guys that are my type there.

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!