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I hate what age is doing to my health, my body and my looks. But I am totally opposed to the alternative of ending it because I am no longer young and beautiful ( If indeed, I ever was beautiful!)
 
I fight mentally to stay "young," "interested," "interesting" and sometimes it is easier than other times. Yes, I am attracted to young beautiful men. So, fortunately, I am able to buy them. The best of them even convince me that I am attractive to them. At least for the short term.
 
It has been my experience that all too many gay men define themselves by their looks. That is sad to me because they are missing out on all of the benefits of age....and there are many! Experience, empathy, more money to enjoy life, a wealth of friends and even the ability to buy affection and orgasms.

I feel differently about aging. I generally find life exciting, interesting and funny, but mostly I find myself to be very grateful. I have no illusions about my age or looks. I too am attracted to young beautiful men, but for myself, engaging with young men is a business arrangement...period. They are selling a product, and I'm buying. They can tell me anything they want over dinner and drinks, or when we're out and about. I don't take any of it too seriously, because on any other given night, they most likely would not call unless there is COD....
 
For myself, in many respects, it is the perfect relationship, they make me happy and I make them happy, and I get to live my life as I see fit. I laugh more than I cry, and I'm happy more than I am sad. It's all a blessing...

I hate what age is doing to my health, my body and my looks. But I am totally opposed to the alternative of ending it because I am no longer young and beautiful ( If indeed, I ever was beautiful!)
 
I fight mentally to stay "young," "interested," "interesting" and sometimes it is easier than other times. Yes, I am attracted to young beautiful men. So, fortunately, I am able to buy them. The best of them even convince me that I am attractive to them. At least for the short term.
 
It has been my experience that all too many gay men define themselves by their looks. That is sad to me because they are missing out on all of the benefits of age....and there are many! Experience, empathy, more money to enjoy life, a wealth of friends and even the ability to buy affection and orgasms.

Another vote for fakes.
 
"ask me" for all responses:mad:
 
All pictures over 2 years old

i KNOW some people are going to hate on me for this one, and even I know that I am asking for something that is not always appropriate... but get rid of the ASK ME for rates....

Choke on this!
 
https://78.media.tumblr.com/6d561791ea1925524f7c7b0182c43f32/tumblr_peyk3uVttx1wtyupro1_500.jpg

This. 100%
 
Like I've said before, there's a razor-thin line in this industry between someone being your biggest fan or greatest foe. With those who's MO is control through money, the moment you say no to them, their true nature begins to ooze out.
 
The greatest lesson you can learn is not to understand or reason why, but to cut them off immediately and move forward.

The only questions I ask are to double check. Do you kiss? Or for a masseur, Do you work in the nude? and Is touching allowed? Otherwise I see no need for question after question. If they are not reviewed here I usually pass. If their profile and pics turn me on and there is no negative thread on them here I will go for it if they answer my question(s) in the affirmative. Yes, I have had some clunkers, but more often, good experiences.

The only questions I ask are to double check. Do you kiss? Or for a masseur, Do you work in the nude? and Is touching allowed? Otherwise I see no need for question after question. If they are not reviewed here I usually pass. If their profile and pics turn me on and there is no negative thread on them here I will go for it if they answer my question(s) in the affirmative. Yes, I have had some clunkers, but more often, good experiences.

Question 1: hello... are you available date x/time y or date x2/time y2 for a 2/3-hour in/out call. Also please read my profile and let me know if you think we are a good match (my RM profile has everything a companion needs to know)
Question 2: great, I’m glad your available. Approximately where are you hosting (if an incall) and what is your 2/3-hour rate? I will confirm with you the day before our meeting. Have a great evening/weekend/trip.
 
Additional questions follow if question 1 & 2 aren’t answered - which is surprisingly often (“yes, I understand you are in <city> but in what area”, “No, I meant PM, not AM” and the most common is “please look at my profile and let me know if you think we are a match”.)
 
 
One comment... I’ve not hired a handful of guys, more recently than in the past, because I’ve gotten really terse, minimalist responses, especially to this last question. Not long ago I had a pretty negative experience where I cancelled an appointment made weeks in advance because he was simply unresponsive. The most words I ever received from him were in his angry rant after that. My view is that I’m not making a dental appointment - I’m making an appointment to spend quality time with someone that’s really personal (not to mention several hundred dollars) and if we’ve never met then it’s reasonable to expect someone to take the time to send a full sentence and read a profile.

The only questions I ask are to double check. Do you kiss? Or for a masseur, Do you work in the nude? and Is touching allowed? Otherwise I see no need for question after question. If they are not reviewed here I usually pass. If their profile and pics turn me on and there is no negative thread on them here I will go for it if they answer my question(s) in the affirmative. Yes, I have had some clunkers, but more often, good experiences.

When I contact an escort for the first time, I always make sure I've read their profile first, seen their pictures and read reviews if there are any, so asking questions that I've already seen online are a time waster and just make me look stupid. It's always a gamble when meeting someone for the first time, but that's part of the excitement, and except for a couple of mediocre sessions, I've always been very happy with the guys I've hired. I generally start out by saying where I've seen his profile and asking about his availability, then I'll offer a few details about myself and the rest I find out when we meet.

The number of questions, calls, texts beforehand are inversely proportional to the likelihood of them ever booking.
 
I answer the first few, but when he hits me back with another slew of questions (is my right testicle larger than my left...) or tries to initiate phone sex, I tell him I'll need a small deposit to keep this conversation going. Most often that ends the conversation, but he was never going to book in the first place. Inevitably, the jacker off moves to the next guy down on rentmen and starts the process all over again and has never actually paid an escort in his life. I could spend untold hours jacking these guys off over the phone and perhaps get one single booking out of it, but that's not a productive use of my time.
 
Kevin Slater

Mona Lisa didn't do much for me either.

If all the artwork in the world was to be destroyed and I could save only one piece, there is no question it would be The David. Hairs on end, lump in the throat and swelling of the heart. This is what I experienced the first, second and every time I have been in the presence of this masterwork. The only other piece of artwork that has ever come even close is Frederick Hart's "Ex Nihilo" which graces the tympani over the entrance of the National Cathedral in Washington, D.C.
 
https://fineartamerica.com/featured/cathedral-ex-nihilo-susan-isakson.html

Hot as hell

I find this Handsome Young Man to be VGL and while all of him is nice:) His Eyes & Smile captivate me --
 
Doesn't mean you will feel the same:)
 
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1139735065

LMAO, if good looks are not subjective then why are their a number of unattractive guys with Ads on Rentmen?

This in my opinion totally negates the idea of what a higher cost escort should be. An escort's job is to provide a sexual encounter. A good escort will provide more. i.e. the illusion that they are enjoying the client and the experience. The higher the rate, the more the requirement to give a reasonably satisfying experience TO THE CLIENT! What the client looks like should make no difference as long as the client is clean and non-threatening.

This in my opinion totally negates the idea of what a higher cost escort should be. An escort's job is to provide a sexual encounter. A good escort will provide more. i.e. the illusion that they are enjoying the client and the experience. The higher the rate, the more the requirement to give a reasonably satisfying experience TO THE CLIENT! What the client looks like should make no difference as long as the client is clean and non-threatening.

Bummer he does not kiss. No kiss, no hire.

Sexymonk I'm afraid we are going to have to agree to disagree on this one. When dealing with escorts I am the the buyer not the seller. I am totally opposed to sending my photograph to a potential hire. I have always believed, and still do, that truly professional escorts do NOT require photographs of their potential clients. An outstanding escorts must be able to deal successfully with clients of different ages, different sizes and different ethnic groups. As far as I'm concerned prima donnas NOT excellent escorts want to cherry pick their clients. They want the best of all worlds -- clients who interest them and PAY -- who could ask for anything more?

Gracias. Much appreciate the compliment
 
I took some time away from 15MM, but have recently redesigned the look and gotten back into writing over the last couple of months.
 
It's been fun sharing my life again in longer form than just a twitter post.