Midwestern Guy

Perfect message....
"Hi, saw your ad on RM. I am into (xyz) and am available to meet up (state when you are looking/availability). I am in (general location) and able to (whether you can host travel or both).
If this sounds like a good fit for you, let me know your rates for (length of time you are looking for).
Love your ad and looking forward to hopefully meeting you!"

I spent a couple very pleasurable hours with Scotty this afternoon. He looks exactly like his pictures except he is blonde now. He is fun and eager to please. Recommended
PM if questions.

He was a really in the moment when I met him. i had a chance to talk with him a bit, and he was pretty personable and open. Photos very accurate, and his eyes are so expressive. He really seemed like the boy next door type of guy.

I can understand the impulse to assume the worst about a companion, but maybe it’s just someone without much experience with this sort of an travel arrangement / someone relatively new to the werqin’ world.
 
on the other side, I try to give guys hiring me the benefit of the doubt because it can be a nerve wracking thing for newbies to “take the plunge” - call me naïve maybe, but it’s served me well not always assuming the worst in people
 
 

You didn’t have any problems with the first session, right?
 
1) we aren’t machines
2) consider yourself lucky that he enjoyed himself with you (and remember how this made you feel versus some lukewarm future hire where the guy feels like he is going through the motions)
3) ask him to leave / stand your ground
 
this post is wild lol -
 
Maybe he was hypomanic/manic...? ?

Act now! Pay double for the first half of the session, second half is free!

Just some levity:
 

Go Blue!
Could this be the year....

Alright, quick post here from Barcelona. More to follow with a little trip report later, but I was inspired to post this because of a nearly disastrous experience yesterday.
 
Alright....both clients and escorts alike...we’ve probably had moments where some bonehead little thing interfered with the ability to have a session, etc. The bane of my existence has always been....RAZORS. I typically try not to shave just before appointments, in the event I cut myself. However, multiple times now...I’ve had it happen where I stick my hand into my bag of cosmetics / toiletries and literally run a five bladed razor across my fingertip...and now it’s bleeding like a fountain. OR, multiple times I’ve nipped the corner of my lip and now I’m bleeding and don’t feel comfortable going through with a session, because of open cuts(my rule of thumb is always a no no).
 
Well, the other day...I’m with a great guy, repeat that I would consider a friend...and as I’m climbing into the shower half asleep...my dick flips out and across the tip of the razor I’m carrying in my hand. GUSHING from the tip within seconds. Totally had to adjust the type of play, and I tapered down the price as well, since we weren’t able to do a quarter of what I/we like to do....but had this been any other client and not as understanding...this session would have been lost.
 
What’s everyone else’s bonehead story, that could of or DID ruin the day...?

Thanks for looking our for us @tristanbaldwin

Throwing this out there. Many of you know I’ve posted before for people who don’t feel comfortable having an electronic trail back to them. Almost ALL of those have been positive reviews, such as for YourBoyYouKnow, and several others from the Cleveland area.
 
Well, this lovely gem named above burned a guy I know HARD. Not only are the pics old dated he’s an outright thief and blackmailer. I don’t even care if he reads this board and sees me openly calling him into question- anyone who knows me knows I have a direct tie to law enforcement, so I’m really not scared of anything he does in response. I already did my due diligence on him; he’ll wake the fucking dragon if he does.
 
Have little respect in this industry for parasites who rip off older men who don’t have the resources to do this all the time. When they do this...it’s a special event...and you want it to be remembered and enjoyed. I cannot even imagine the feeling walking away from a session empty handed, burned. Makes people never want to do this again.
 
Headed to bed in Barcelona, but it’s been eating at me that my friend got burned; do with this as you will.
 
Regards,
 
J.(“T.B.”

For those who haven’t experienced Tristan, wait in line because his website says he is in California now. I’ve seen him numerous times and he is the best! PM for details.

I got to meet @tristanbaldwin yesterday...everything said is absolutely true! He’s an amazing person. It was definitely like hanging out with a buddy. I’m glad I came across this post, and it worked out for us to meet!! Until our next visit ?

I got to meet @tristanbaldwin yesterday...everything said is absolutely true! He’s an amazing person. It was definitely like hanging out with a buddy. I’m glad I came across this post, and it worked out for us to meet!! Until our next visit ?

Such positive feedback on Tristan...I’m going to have to make a point in meeting him!!

I got to meet @tristanbaldwin yesterday...everything said is absolutely true! He’s an amazing person. It was definitely like hanging out with a buddy. I’m glad I came across this post, and it worked out for us to meet!! Until our next visit ?

I got to meet @tristanbaldwin yesterday...everything said is absolutely true! He’s an amazing person. It was definitely like hanging out with a buddy. I’m glad I came across this post, and it worked out for us to meet!! Until our next visit ?

TB is a good guy and goes out of his way (sometimes to his detriment) to be accommodating to most people who contact him. I say most people because some times people are jackasses. LOL!!!
 
He is one of my favorite people and that has nothing to do with his profession.

Tristan is that guy you envied in high school - billboard good looks, captain of a varsity team, dated the head cheerleader - masculine, affable, and wicked smart. You never reached out because you just didn't think you were in his league - and besides, you were gay.
 
Then you worked hard and did well and went back to your Class Reunion to find Tristan doesn't age and that he's the same great looking leader of the pack - surrounded by guys and girls just like he always was - plus you now learn he's gay too.
 
So now you have that vanishingly rare in life second chance to relive some fantasies and maybe make a good friend. There aren't many real deals in this life - the industry chews up weaker guys and spits them out. The reason Tristan survives and prospers is that he's better than the industry.