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themsg got a reaction from + glutes in Chris in Fresno
I took the dip.
The massage was C+, the guy was rushed and somewhat socially awkward (felt not like he's unfriendly, more that he doesn't know how to be friendly).
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themsg reacted to + Gar1eth in FabioGiovannini in Seattle!!
It’s a shame about his face. I wonder if a good dermatologist could help.
Gman
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themsg reacted to Jamie21 in Massage Review Site
In the UK there is no legal gray area of escorting. It’s lawful here. Masseurs offering sensual / erotic are not doing anything unlawful. You might want to allow different details to be included depending on what’s lawful in each jurisdiction. I work as a sensual masseur in London and include sexual services in my massage. Clients need to know what’s included in what they’re purchasing.
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themsg reacted to Rod Hagen in Massage Review Site
Pushing back on the kissing question, mutual touch is a reasonable checkbox in an erotic massage questionnaire. Kissing is an escort thing. You, easygoingpal, may have had lots of luck seducing masseurs into it :-) and that's great, but masseur kissing is not a common expectation; it would fall in the category of an over-expectation.
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themsg reacted to + LS299B in Massage Review Site
Great idea Radio Rob! In addition to the above, I would also add:
Massage skills rating (novice to Pro)
Time booked vs. actual time spent
In call vs Out call. If in call - ambiance, cleanliness, and ease of access.
Amenities offered (water, shower, massage table vs bed, music, choice of massage oil/cream)
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themsg reacted to SamMiller213 in Newer Vegas Guys
I’ve seen Nas and would recommend. Nice guy, looks like pics, and is comfortable with what you’re likely looking for (at least was with me). His actual massage skills are just okay, though.
I’ve considered Tory and would like to try at some point but haven’t seen any reviews on him or if he’s real.
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themsg reacted to Tristatedude in 411 on Marco Polo of Bakersfield (traveler)
So he said he had availability at the last minute and I went ahead and booked an appointment. I definitely won't repeat and would never recommend.
It was supposed to be 60mins but total was 40 of which 30 to 35 was the actual massage. He kept on checking his phone or computer, which I don't know if he realized I could tell.
The massage was not good and I'm pretty sure he isn't trained. There was a portion where he was slapping my legs and I was like, WTF?
When I inquired about the massage beforehand he said "Massage is mutual touch and sensual." and then the next sentence said "An erotic massage."
MT by the way means over his clothes, which were on for most of the session. And his MT is by putting on gloves at the end, which well... gloves?!? And then he was like do you want to finish? Touch on him is very limited and he'll move your hand away.
The only pro is he looks like the pictures but at the end I couldn't wait to get out of there. I should have realized what I was getting because he was staying at a La Quinta, but I already drove all the way there.
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themsg reacted to maninsoma in Why aren't most masseurs/escorsts doing Only Fans?
To have a good Only Fans page -- one that's worth subscribing to because new, worthwhile content is regularly added -- requires work. I guess from the outside it might look like "easy money" to some since part of the work involves having sex, but recording and editing that sex so it's interesting to watch requires effort. Even without subscribing you can tell a lot of guys' pages are not worth subscribing to due to the infrequency of content being added. Some guys add content regularly but it's more of the same -- here's another photo of me, here's a quick video of me jerking off, etc. I doubt that many subscribers stick around for more than their initial subscription period if that's all they are getting; I know I don't.
I'd love to subscribe to a masseur's Only Fans page who posts full videos of erotic massages, but I assume that many masseurs wouldn't want to post their sessions even if they could get their clients' consent and probably even fewer clients would consent to their sessions being posted online, even if they got a cut of the action.
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themsg reacted to RickD1980 in Why aren't most masseurs/escorsts doing Only Fans?
Not at all easy money. That's the mistake a lot of guys make when they decide to get into OF - they think it's just going to be some hot sex and posting once in a while but you have to keep people interested. Videos of a model jacking off every day quickly get boring and they have to promote and produce their own content constantly as well as trying to get subscribers. It's not at all easy. Plus, most masseurs aren't interested in doing porn. Totally different thing. And many escorts prefer to remain as anonymous as possible also - only doing it for their clients rather than putting themselves on the internet. It takes a LOT of time and energy to do an OF.
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themsg reacted to QTP2T in Dan in Sacramento
BUYER BEWARE! Dan initially canceled the first time with me due to him complaining of “not feeling well.” But I’d thought I’d give Dan another try and was hopeful when I was able to book an appointment with Dan a week in advance. Just to be on the safe side, I confirmed with Dan the night before our scheduled appointment. I drove the 2 hours to Dan’s home for an incall session. I was even 5 minutes early. I ran the doorbell 3 times, left 2 voicemails, and simply got no answer. The guy just ghosted me. My final text to him was stating it was totally unacceptable to give all indications that an appointment was set, and not provide an explanation or even a response to my inquiries, wasting 4 hours of my time driving the 2 hours back home. For someone who prides himself with being a professional, don’t be fooled by the bio and pictures on his ad. This was the most unprofessional thing I have ever experienced by someone who doesn’t give a damn about his clients.
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themsg reacted to + 7829V in 411 - Dorian - Portland
If it's not for my comment, I don't recall seeing this masseur... Haha.
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themsg reacted to + E.T.Bass in Worst Ever Massage
Yup! I'm certain I know who that is. Was my worst too. Everything you said was same for me. In addition, he took a break during my session. I didn't ask him but it seemed he went in the other room to play a video game. I expect he does have a certain kind of client that returns, but I am not one.
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themsg reacted to Redwine56 in MassageByMezzo
Really? Just because the umbilical cord was not cut that close, that's a turn off. It wouldn't even come to mind for me. The guy is hot.
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themsg reacted to Bluefin in 411 BodyworkbyWill in San Francisco
The whole point of these 411 questions is why this forum exists.
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themsg reacted to + Axiom2001 in 411 BodyworkbyWill in San Francisco
Thanks for apprising me of the above. I apparently was completely oblivious to my prior request. The one post where the word "delete" appears was correct. I'd wanted the delete the entire post but had difficulty, so I just deleted the content. Regarding your last sentence, I do plan to "bite the bullet" soon and will write a review on RentMen as well as posting a few words here about my experience.
I've written many reviews at "Daddy's Reviews" as well as at Rentmen and Rentmasseur. The reviews have encouraged others to meet the men whom I've met and have enjoyed. Some men here have contacted me personally to inquire about a particular escort/masseur, and I've done likewise, and I am quite cognizant that each individual experience might not mirror the one that the reviewer had, but at least the 411 receive can help.
I saw a masseur prior to COVID. The experience paled as to what the masseur had written in his ad. The experience was slightly disappointing. A month or so ago, an individual sent me a private message asking about the time that I had with the masseur. I responded candidly but ended the communication with: "Everyone's experience will not mirror another's." And I encouraged the man to "take the plunge." I also wished him well.
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themsg reacted to Cliff in Sounds you don't want to hear during a massage
The constant pinging of incoming texts from the masseur’s cell.
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themsg reacted to TracerMain in Sounds you don't want to hear during a massage
The sound of a masseur’s fingers tapping (texting) on his phone.
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themsg got a reaction from Wanderoz in 411 for AValleyGuy in Fresno
Now with new name HotValleyGuy:
https://rentmasseur.com/HotValleyGuy
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themsg reacted to MisterMike in Fullwer in SF?
This is the only red flag I need. When asked for this I send the following photo:
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themsg reacted to + Axiom2001 in 411 zohar in sf
The manner in which some posters responded to your initial question bothered me. If the guys who responded haven't had any direct contact with Zohar, they should have saved themselves the time in their posting. It certainly did NOT help you, and I would have been pissed.
When I've inquired about a certain escort or masseur-- I have written that I would appreciate not receiving any words from those who have not seen the man personally. Thus, it saves my time as well as those who presented their unsolicited comments.
GUYS, try returning to the original question: "411, Zohar in SF?"
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themsg reacted to elsalvador92 in 411 zohar in sf
this thread took a wild turn i did not anticipate haha
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themsg reacted to SamMiller213 in What is in the water?? Crazy clients
Most people have gone a year plus without a massage and maybe even physical contact. Those now recently vaccinated are coming out of the woods.
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themsg reacted to + Yellowrod in Onlyfans / Just4fans / Are any worth the price?
With the amount of $$ some of these guys are raking in, I wish they would up their production value - lighting, angles, set up some go-pros....
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themsg reacted to big dale in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.