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This is absolutely what should happen from both client and provider. I never ask for upsells as a client either (though if something happens naturally then that's fine). But I have been really into a good masseur and after the session I might say, "Hey I really enjoyed the massage and definitely will come back for that but was curious if you add anything extra for a bit more money?"

I do know of one provider that has a lot of reviews but it's partially because he is quite agressive with his clients and asks them to review him during the sessions.

I think in many cases, an escort has many reviews by the same clients. I know I review almost every time I meet with an escort and am personally responsible for the majority of reviews for a few guys. So even if they have like 100 reviews, it really could be maybe 60 actual clients making multiple reviews.

Unfortunately I don't make enough money to be a Sugar Daddy. Would you settle for a Papa Stevia?

Honestly he's probably just testing the waters. But yeah he won't find much success with what he is presenting and asking for currently.

Agree to disagree on this one. We had a set rate for a massage and he added extras without asking for anything else. The first time this happened I genuinely didn't have any extra money to give him but told him that I would definitely meet with him again. Next time I specifically asked what his rate was again for the same type of massage and he quoted me the same rate as before. This time I was prepared with some extra money which I gave him. I never argue about a provider's rates whether they are too low or high. I know that when it's all said and done this guy deservedly got thousands of dollars from me as a very regular client and that his services were worth every penny. Last time I saw him I actually did give him $350 just to show my appreciation for the years that he helped me and send him on his way to California.

I don't because we still agreed to a price beforehand. But I always have a bit of extra cash for a good tip and they definitely will be the one I go back to again and again. In fact, I had a guy like this in Denver until he recently moved to California. I saw him probably at least once a month. That's doable when it's $200 (I still typically paid $220-$250) then when it's $300. If he asked for escort rates then I would have paid them but he never did with me possibly because I was such a frequent customer.

I agree especially with masseurs. I kind of like to be suprised and see how far it goes. I've had everything from just a regular massage, to hand jobs, to oral to straight-up fucking. And usually they are charging $50-$100 less than escorts. For that lower price, I'm inclined to let what happens, happen.

Yeah I think you might be right about staying in Colorado Springs. Suprisingly a lot of Denver escorts don't cross list to Colorado Springs even though it's only an hour away. I think the fact that you're a masseur will help too. Denver has a lot of escorts (mostly a lot of recent Latino immigrants) but actually not as many masseurs. Currently there are If you 89 escorts on RM but only 16 on Rentmasseur in Denver. There used to be more but maybe when Rentmasseur upgraded a lot fell through. My go to also moved to San Diego so I think some just left town too. I think if you stayed in Colorado Springs, it woudln't be hard to drive to Denver for a client or two. As long as the weather is okay which in winter can be somewhat hit and miss. Good luck on your trip!

I think in some cities, air travel is probably better than driving. Denver is a good example. We're 500+ miles from any other large city. The closest is probably Albuquerque and that is still a 6 hour plus drive. But DIA is one of the world's busiest airports and there is a lot of competition on routes. I just got tickets to San Diego in December for only $150 round trip. I rarely pay over $300 domestic. If an escort has a good frequent flier program and/or hotel program, I think that would probably be the way to go if you're a Denver escort wanting to travel. But people out east with lots of cities close by, definitely driving would be a better option.

I think this is more common then we think. You have to remember that for many escorting is one of the few jobs that some people can do to get money quickly when they can't have a regular job for whatever reason. "Homeless" also could mean that they don't have a permanent place to stay but rather couch-surf or go from place to place. I've hired a few escorts that I suspected were homeless. I know a lot of the recent immigrant escorts like live in large groups and like maybe aren't technically homeless but like it's 5-6 guys living together in a one-bedroom apartment or even a hotel for a long period of time. It's very hard for recent immigrants to get an apartment because they have no credit. While many can legally work, it seems like a lot of them opt for under the table jobs like escorting or construction or whatever. Maybe they can make more money short-term that way but since they don't have any obvious "income" from a regular job and no pay-stubs, it ends up being even harder for them to get an apartment in the longrun. But even non-immigrants escorts are homeless. I know are a couple very popular escorts who have 50, 5-star reviews that are technically homeless. Travelling from city to city only in hotels and occasionally a clients home for an overnight is still homeless even if that seems like a glamorous escort. Some of them have drug addictions and mental health issues that make it hard for them to have a regular 9-5 job and the stability of a home so they choose the escorting lifestyle instead. I straight up asked one very popular escort where home is and he told me it's with whatever client he is with that night. I'd be curous if any escorts on here think of themselves as homeless. From my perspective, many are.

There are many pre-paid plans like Mint Mobile that you buy $45 at once for 3 months or whatever. You can also get pre-paid credit cards with cash. You can also get a P.O. Box pretty easily and get bills sen there if need be. Some homeless shelters will also allow homeless to use that as an "address."

You might try starting with his social media. Here is his X account: https://x.com/jagger_rambo

I often ask guys if they would like a review on RM or on CoM and very few have ever heard of CoM. But I have told a few about it and they definitely check this site out too. I'd say most (75%+ do not regularly visit this site. Maybe a few more than that know it exists).

Yeah unfortunately it seems to be more common these day to price sex "a la cart" so to speak. Haha.

Maybe. I just don't go above $300 for a new provider period so anyone who quotes me above that I just say that's too much. It's up to the provider to choose to accept a lower rate if they want. I never suggest or negotiate a lower rate unless they ask me to.

I've honestly had better luck with the opposite. Anyone who gives me a rate above $300, I just politiely say, sorry that's not something I can afford right now. Often they will ask what I can afford and I say, "I usually go for $250 per hour." If they accept that great, but if they want to go to $300 I accept that as well.

That's basically what I figured. Yeah there's one guy who had his Rentmasseur profile in Denver for like a week after his Rent.Men one showed him in another city. I think it makes sense to keep them seperate but also it's nice if guys who have both profiles keep them updated. Oh well. Thanks for your information!

I know they are owned by the same company and have similar styles and platforms. What I more mean are the too apps connected for escorts? They definitely are not for clients as I have two different logins and everything. And I am betting that is the case for escorts as well but wasn't 100 percent sure. Part of this comes from noticing that profiles of the same man on the different platforms have different travel dates with guys shown as being in one city on Rent.men and another on Rentmasseur. It seems like it would be nice if you had a profile on both to just update it once, but I suspect they want two profiles for twice the money. But maybe it is more easy to connect the two platforms for escorts than I realized? For any guys that have both, what is your experience with updating availability and travel on the different platforms?

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Yes actually! Nice guy, doesn't speak a lot of English. He tried to charge me more to come which was a little offputting but that's okay. He looks like his photos. I recommend him.

I think you are going to have a hard time hiring because you're too hung up about potential for STDs. Not trying to be rude, but you seem to be one of these "potential clients" that waste escort's valuable time by answering a bunch of questions that you already know the answer to. Honestly for what you want I think you should be able to have more success on the apps (grindr or Sniffies). There's plenty of guys on there that love giving blow jobs. You're in your 40s and as long as you live in any area that has a reasonable amounf of gay men (and you have decent hygine and a normal dick) , you should likley find someone who will give you a blow job for free. Wait until your a bit more comfortable with that before you attempt to hire any escorts. In my opinion, you are not not ready to hire one. These guys do this for a living and unless you are really serious about hiring, please do not waste their time.

There is a "Twink" filter on Rent.men. In Denver it pulls up 13 guys and I think most of them are pretty "Twinkish." Not my type really so don't know how responsive they are but at least it's a way to start your search.

Believer it or not, I think selecting "Nearby Profiles" on Rent.men actually kinda works for finding guys who are closest to you, assuming that escorts are using their location, which a lot seem to if they use the app on their phone. I base this on the fact that I live in the "gayborhood" of Denver and actually see a lot of these escorts on Grindr, Sniffies, etc. The ones that showup first in "Neaby Profiles" really are the ones closest to me on the apps. This feature also puts those in suburbs or nearby cities at the end of the list. Though of course most put Denver even if they don't actually live here. But even in that case, I know that one escort I see lives about 10 miles away in a northern suburb and his profile usually comes after the ones I know live closer. Try it and see if it works for you.

Flakiness. It's suprising how many guys I contact just take a long time to contact back. If they haven't texted back within 24 hours, I have probably already moved on. It definitely goes both ways here with flaky clients and they ruin it for those who are serious. But when the provider does, it really just shows they may be flaky when they are supposed to arrive at your door.