Todd Jenkins

I got lap dance from him at Adonis Lounge. His ass 😍
I'm also 6' and shorter guys kinda turn me on but also tall guys or maybe I'm just a slut. 

Another very hot interaction I've had...
Went to eat at a Chili's with 3 friends one night. We had an EXTREMELY muscled up server. I was not out - AT ALL.
The 3 friends get up to go to the bathroom at the end of the meal. Muscle server boy comes over and I say "Hey, I hope this doesn't offend you but you are AMAZINGLY HOT!! Look, my friends have NO CLUE but I am gay. If you ever want to make a little bit more money, text me and let me know."
Gave him my number and he said "sounds good, I'll text you when I get off."
A few hours go by and I get this "Hey bud, this is ____ from Chili's. I'm down for taking you up on your offer. What you looking to do?" My reply: "best discussed with a phone call." Phone rings.
He came over the next day after the gym and I spent several months helping this guy out and he helping me out. 
Damn, that was ONE HOT ITALIAN!!!!!

I don't find this controversial at all. In fact, it makes COMPLETE SENSE!!!!

I don't find this controversial at all. In fact, it makes COMPLETE SENSE!!!!

300 is MAX for me. I've been quoted 400 and 500. To which I reply, "I won't go over 300." It's AMAZING how quickly they go "OK!"

I don't find this controversial at all. In fact, it makes COMPLETE SENSE!!!!

How about Alanwentwent?
 

@Todd Jenkins reports that Alanbigbig is now Alangonegone as his ad is no longer posted.

Ad gone. 😞

Well, this also could be the provider playing out a roleplay. I used to play with a guy I found on Craigslist – he used to act like he was the DOM DADDY setting up his married boy to play with guys and in all reality, it was the guy himself setting it up. 

Well, this also could be the provider playing out a roleplay. I used to play with a guy I found on Craigslist – he used to act like he was the DOM DADDY setting up his married boy to play with guys and in all reality, it was the guy himself setting it up. 

I'm a pig - I like it all - love men's holes. 

just learned a new term today! thanks!

Another very hot interaction I've had...
Went to eat at a Chili's with 3 friends one night. We had an EXTREMELY muscled up server. I was not out - AT ALL.
The 3 friends get up to go to the bathroom at the end of the meal. Muscle server boy comes over and I say "Hey, I hope this doesn't offend you but you are AMAZINGLY HOT!! Look, my friends have NO CLUE but I am gay. If you ever want to make a little bit more money, text me and let me know."
Gave him my number and he said "sounds good, I'll text you when I get off."
A few hours go by and I get this "Hey bud, this is ____ from Chili's. I'm down for taking you up on your offer. What you looking to do?" My reply: "best discussed with a phone call." Phone rings.
He came over the next day after the gym and I spent several months helping this guy out and he helping me out. 
Damn, that was ONE HOT ITALIAN!!!!!

You are not alone. 
You are called a side.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side

LOL I am not upset. I am scoffing at your faux morality on a site explicitly dedicated to the discussion of the oldest profession.  And no, this thread is not "about people who are in a vulnerable position being exploited." You made that up.  It's about non-providers being tempted to provide.  

Why don't you go off and play church lady somewhere else? Or, to put it another way, what are you doing on a site dedicated to this particular line of commerce? 

What a scold.  I wouldn't "choose" to show up at my job if it wasn't for financial pressure LOL. And I have news for you: even if we gays were all in church 7 days a week feeding soup to the homeless those "anti-gay forces" would still twist things to make us look bad.  Don't be so naive. 
As long as a person is an adult and mentally competent, they are and should be free to enter into arrangements as they choose.  When I was young and first living in NY city, I regularly bounced the rent check for the cramped 1 bedroom apartment I shared with three roommates in a shitty neighborhood. My food budget kept me thin. At that point I could easily have rented myself out but chose not to. 

The guys I have "exploited" all have better phones, fancier watches, more expensive colognes, and more active social lives than I do.   The ones I have chosen NOT to exploit: Those who appeared to be on something, or mentally-unwell, or too close to the age line.  I can live with myself just fine.
 

There was a strip club called SWINGING RICHARDS in Atlanta back in the day. It closed last year. MOST of the guys there were VERY straight and would upsell the FUK out of you in the backroom and you got NOTHING, usually.
So, I did not go a lot unless I was with with friends who wanted to go. 
One night, a particular guy caught my eye. I chatted him up and found out we actually had a lot in common. I went back to see him several times. 
One night, I may have had a little more liquid courage than normal, and I just asked him "So, how much would it cost for you to bottom for me?"
He seemed taken aback at first, and I apologized profusely, "I'm sorry man, I didn't mean to offend you." To which he replied "no, no, it's all good. I've never done that. Kinda new here. And I've only JO'ed with another guy. Not saying no, but how about you text me and we can discuss it via text."
Long story short, my next trip into Atlanta, I got a hotel room and he came to see me for an hour. I WILL NOT ADMIT to how much I paid for this VERY STRAIGHT GUY to let me inside him...but it was WORTH EVERY PENNY. The strange thing is, I could tell he was NOT having a good time but he was VERY intent on ME having a good time – it was a weird dynamic but weird in a good way, in my favor. 
 

There was a strip club called SWINGING RICHARDS in Atlanta back in the day. It closed last year. MOST of the guys there were VERY straight and would upsell the FUK out of you in the backroom and you got NOTHING, usually.
So, I did not go a lot unless I was with with friends who wanted to go. 
One night, a particular guy caught my eye. I chatted him up and found out we actually had a lot in common. I went back to see him several times. 
One night, I may have had a little more liquid courage than normal, and I just asked him "So, how much would it cost for you to bottom for me?"
He seemed taken aback at first, and I apologized profusely, "I'm sorry man, I didn't mean to offend you." To which he replied "no, no, it's all good. I've never done that. Kinda new here. And I've only JO'ed with another guy. Not saying no, but how about you text me and we can discuss it via text."
Long story short, my next trip into Atlanta, I got a hotel room and he came to see me for an hour. I WILL NOT ADMIT to how much I paid for this VERY STRAIGHT GUY to let me inside him...but it was WORTH EVERY PENNY. The strange thing is, I could tell he was NOT having a good time but he was VERY intent on ME having a good time – it was a weird dynamic but weird in a good way, in my favor. 
 

I've done it. I am just scared that one day . . . 

Gloryholes have ALWAYS scared the CRAP out of me! I have a HUGE FEAR of sticking my cock through a hole and getting it slashed, cut and cut off. 
I just can't get over the fear of it. 

You are not alone. 
You are called a side.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side

You are not alone. 
You are called a side.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side

Welcome to the forum!
From a provider's experience, I can tell you that you are not alone. Lots of guys have a good sense of what they like, and what they don't like, and that's okay. It is not unusual for a client to tell me specifically what they like and what they don't like, and for guys I see regularly I know what's on the table and what's not. We're all wired a bit differently, and as others here have commented that wiring can change over time. But you're under no obligation to like what others like just because it is presented as a norm.
So whether you're seeking a provider or a hookup, that kind of specific direction can be really helpful. Don't be shy about what you like, this is supposed to be fun.

Just a crack
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