Gar1eth

You are correct, Sir. It wasn't a professional profile. The reason I started the thread was to see what people who are/were experienced A4A Users thought about the veracity of the profile.

That will be easy. I've lost my wallet. I have no fricking idea where it is. I'm screwed. And not in a good way.

I find the profile that I'm going to post problematic. Usually on Adam4Adam, I'm fairly sure if it's fake. Usually the pictures are of a guy too handsome to usually be interested in me. And they always state they are looking for a relationship. This guy is extremely handsome. I won't show his pictures on the slim chance he's real. But he also puts in his profile that he's interested in NSA which scammers don't usually do. And when I asked about meeting-he said not today. But he didn't suggest going to WhatsApp or Telegram before meeting. So I just don't know. Here's the profile.

"Hook up" culture is a straight people thing. Gay men have always had tons of casual sex. And we're not doing what escorts are doing. I disagree. I definitely have been known to 'hook-up'. And now since I can't afford to hire, if I didn't occasionally hook-up, I'd never have sex.(Although for the last several months I have had a 'buddy'. It's certainly nice not to have to always be searching for strangers.) I love how supportive we are of each other. Although I have to admit that I'm no angel. Overly feminine males put me on edge (as do overly macho women). But just because I'm uncomfortable with it doesn't make me right and them wrong. But all of us ought to work at being more charitable of our fellows.

What 'way' did you need to look?

This a picture from his X Account that was posted in February. If he showed up looking like this, I wouldn't have anything (lookswise) to complain about

Why do escorts say one thing in their ad copy and list something else in the Stats Section? The las word in his ad copy is 'Top.' But in the Stats Section he lists 'Versatile/Top.'

Are there a few you could mention that you've seen and don't want to see again? That way you're less likely to get useless recommendations.

I am speaking from my experience as a client even though for the most part I haven't hired since 2017 ( I hired one guy in 2018), and I've had something like 4 erotic massages. But the last one was probably in 2019 or 2020. So while it's been awhile, and my memory is not perfect, I'd have to say that an awful lot of my hires were same day. If they couldn't host, back then I had a career that I could afford a hotel or motel. Now often once I met them, the escort might become a semi-regular for me. But still they were often same day appts. Of course if the escort was traveling to my city, then I'd often contact therm beforehand. And obviously if I was planning an overnight or a weekend, I'd set it up beforehand. But it sounds like because of your daily schedule, where you live or travel, and possibly your expectations of how meetings should occur, that same day doesn't often work for you. But unless things have changed I'm sure there are still reputable escorts who advertise their availability on short term notice.

I was wondering if it was maybe because he has so little info on what he will do that he hasn't had a lot of clients. Less clients less opportunities for reviews.

The 'man-bun'--is it truly 'manly' and is it truly a 'bun'? Now go discuss!!

On RM he advertises as versatile. On the A4A he describes himself as a versatile bottom.

A Dallas area Sam's was $3.16. I went to a nearby Murphy's where it was also $3.16. But being a Walmart+ member I got it for $3.06. I think last week I paid $2.81.

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From last week's SNL-not laugh out loud funny. But I thought it was amusing.

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Just as an FYI-my understanding-at least for chlamydia and gonorrhea-is that they don't 'resolve.' The symptoms may go away. But you'd still have the bacteria in your throat. As for where to get the test done more quickly-plus to make sure they don't screw up the specimen if they are unfamiliar with the test (the proper swab and transport media need to be used), I'd see if there is #1 A county/govt STD Clinic of some type. #2. In my area Planned Parenthood sees males for STD evaluations. #3. I'd check to see if Quest Diagnostics or LabCorp are in the area.

I don't think my Mom made Hamantaschen, but I remember the wife of the rabbi we had during my formative years made them. I love both the apricot and prune ones. There's a local non-kosher deli/restaurant chain in the area called Cindi's. It's owned by a Vietnamese family. They make giant Hamantaschen. But I think I've missed out on getting them this year. The Hamantaschen are only ok. But their egg bagels are excellent!! I didn't go to a Purim party this year. But I picked up dinner for my Mom and myself. On the way I stopped at Burger King and picked up two crowns for us to wear to celebrate the holiday. That's my Mom on the left. I'm the devastatingly handsome forehead on the right

Possibly it is in your area. I don't know. I was on it years ago and then stopped. I recently re-enrolled when a guy I thought was going to turn into a nice f-bud relationship -or if not that then a platonic friend said he was on it. Dan, the guy, turned out to be a dud-said he was interested. Then pretty much ghosted me. But I've met one guy off of Silver Daddys that I really like. And we've vo-do-de-oh-doughed several times. He's nice to be around outside the bedroom too. So that was a silver lining from the Dan-The-Dud Experience.

With a slight change in sex of the partner, I think we can all relate!! https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1GLKyqKg7j/?mibextid=wwXIfr

I thought Canadian Customs Officials could make similar demands. Hasn't it been talked about before here on the MC that it may cause trouble to have texts or emails to Canadian escorts on your phone when trying to get across the border into Canada?

I forgot to mention they questioned the escort privately too. I wish I could remember #1 if I was particularly worried about whether they would find out about us having a paid weekend together and #2 whether it happened both times or just once. In case anyone is interested one of the escorts I took was Brock Hart. The other guy was an escort from San Francisco. I can't remember his age. He was a tall younger thin guy probably mid to late 20's. In my recollection from back then he might have resembled a more handsome PeeWee Herman. He wasn't normally my type. But he had just had a recent photo shoot, and he looked darn good. I think he said he had dieted for several weeks before the shoot. He was either working on an advanced degree in something like psychology/social work/human sexuality-or was planning to. The time that I went to Victoria with the guy from SF, we went on a winery tour. And I ended up buying some type of berry wine. When we were going back to Seattle, whatever computers they use to check with the United States-possibly this was US Customs-but it was in Victoria-were down. They rushed us on the Clipper Ferry. I don't think I had to pay any customs duties on the wine.

I'd prefer them to actually be masculine and not just look it.