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I don't think about this one much until it shows up on my calendar. And it's not that I put it as a recurrent event on my calendar then. I was looking back one time at texts a few years after the fact-and was able to piece it together. So here it is.... Today October 8th 2025 is the 11 th anniversary of the first time I met @Mikegaite. I don't know exactly where he was headed from or to, but he had a several hour layover at Seattle/Tacoma Airport. I saw his ad and was immediately enamored of him. I arranged to pick him up. I reserved us a room at the Sleep Inn just down the way. And then had my way with him-or possibly vice versa. Might have been 2012. But whatever. However, that October meeting led to multiple subsequent meetings with the last being around Valentine's Day 2016 for an overnight. I knew that was probably going to be our last meeting-financial problems, and I was very sad. I didn't mention that to Mike though. In fact as I recall, I was only planning an hour visit, but it ended up being an overnight. We again stayed at a hotel in Seatac although this time not the Sleep Inn. I can't say anything about Mike now as I haven't seen him since 2016. But of everyone I met over the years, he's probably in the top 2 with the other guy he would need to duke it out with for number 1 being Andrew Justice.

I looked at Hooboy and Rentboy all the time and had for years. I was going bananas about not having sex. I didn't want to be gay. But I wanted sex. And these guys were so handsome. I'd look in a mirror and literally say to myself-beggars in India don't have anything. Yet they are probably having sex, and I can't. Or I'd think about my one nephew-then a young 21 year old aged college student, and think about the fact that there was a good chance he had had sex by then. I was seeing a male psychiatrist at the time-straight as far as I knew/know-but really hunky. I think he was a skier. It's difficult for me to remember -but I think I brought up in a round about way that I was thinking about hiring. I think he gave me tacit approval. Or maybe assuming I did actually bring it up obliquely, he only scratched his head. And I interpreted whatever gesture the way I wanted to. I don't know. But I took the plunge. As I recall Dallas was staying at a Best Western right over the Ohio River in Kentucky.The one across the street from the round Holiday Inn. I was so nervous. I circled the parking lot once or twice to see if there were any police cars I could spot. When I got up to his room, his door/room was right next to another room-I know unusual for a hotel-right. But I was worried there might be some kind of undercover operation listening in from the next room. But I took the bullet anyway, knocked on the door and entered in. Who knew that inauspicious October 2002 afternoon meeting with Dallas Taylor would lead twenty-three years later to my subsequent fame as one of the respected, and with no false modesty might even say 'beloved,' Grand Masters of our Forum here today? Exeunt!!

It was 23 years ago this month that I had my first experience of sex-any type of sex as I was a total virgin at the age of 41. I was also taught how to Fr. kiss at the same time. It was with porn star Dallas Taylor. He lived in Dallas but was visiting the Cincinnati area where I was living at the time. I was familiar with him because I had been looking at Rentboy and Hooboy's sites for years. He even had a website as I recall. I will be eternally grateful to him for being so nice. I wonder what he's doing now, or even if he's still alive. If he is still alive, I hope he's doing well.

And well they should-she (and you) should only be so lucky to taste my ambrosia. But for some reason, I was thinking my unknown friend was female.

Even if it took the same amount of time to make a Virgin Mary vs a Bloody Mary, in the end wouldn't they be making more money (assuming they charged the same) as one would be without liquor?

And now he's shuffled off this mortal coil-or if not that, at the very least his ad has expired.

This happened a few years back. But I was at a restaurant/sports bar. I asked for a Virgin Bloody Mary. The waitress (sorry waitperson) tells me the management won't let them serve 'Virgin' drinks. WEIRD, hunh?

Years ago I arranged to meet a guy off one of apps one night (probably around 9 pm) at a hamburger place. The business was crowded and noisy. We had barely met-hadn't even sat down yet-and he said why don't we go to this other place where it will be less noisy. I said ok. I get there in my car. He's nowhere to be seen. I wait a few minutes. Then he texts me-says he realized it wasn't going to work out. I never saw him again-on the other hand that may he because I blocked him.

Here we have a complete stranger from Toronto wanting to come down to Texas to go to a dental appointment (which I didn't even know I had ). What a country!! What a people!!

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Thank you, @Wanderoz I didn't realize the name of the band until I searched for the song. So it was very fortuitous. But maybe this provider is really DAMMIT!!

I'm assuming he actually meant to ask 'inside' and not 'up'.

I remember these style of covers very well. Reading the synopsis of the book made me tear up.

"I’m 22, built, and hungry to serve. I’m a versebottom with a body made to bend, take, and deliver whatever your specific taste demands" Do y'all really think he's actually 170 something pounds? I mean I know he's 6 feet tall. But he looks awfully slender. So I have to doubt he's #175.

I've always been quick to the finish line unfortunately. I've always been amazed by guys who can endure stimulation for long periods of time without cumming. There was a massage/escort guy I used to see in Seattle. I didn't see him weekly or anything -but probably over 10 visits in 4 or so years. I never saw him cum. I think he told me it was difficult for him. Or take Andrew Justice or an old fbud of mine. They could pretty much cum at will. My fbud would wait for me, and then cum immediately after. I remember Andrew once asking me if it was ok for him to cum yet. I was always so envious.

Ok I just took the Klein test. I actually prefer Kinsey. Klein gave me a 6.8 --gay but incidentally straight because I answered a few questions about in the past wanting a relationship not exclusively same sex. I think maybe the question should be reworded. I was only talking about a friendship relationship not a 'relationship' relationship. INCIDENTALLY STRAIGHT!!!! I'LL GIVE YOU INCIDENTALLY STRAIGHT. HERE's YOUR INCIDENTALLY STRAIGHT As Mrs. Strakosh sings in Funny Girl, "When a girl's incidentals are no bigger than two lentils, then to me it doesn't spell success." That lyric has stayed with me for years since I first saw the movie around age 11. If that doesn't prove I'm a total Kinsey 6, I don't know what does.

Well that def lets me out of the running. I say I've never been aroused by a woman. For the most part that's true. I have a vague memory of one or two dreams as a teenager where I might have gotten hard. But really -I can probably claim with around 99.8% accuracy that I've never been aroused by or at the thought of a woman. My mom had a difficult time during her pregnancy with me-placenta previa-and maybe other problems. I've often wondered if she was given any antenatal steroids -and whether this might have affected my sexuality.

(A parenthetical post to this thread) My thread that I posted this morning about Mr. Alencar through the Grace of the moderators has now been merged into this 2-1/2 year old thread. 😢😢😢. But I see this thread was started by member @glycine. He hasn't logged in for 14 months. I hope we haven't lost another member.

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Very nice. Who knew you were such a polyglot?

He's got to be one of the most masculine looking 'masseuses' I've ever seen. (Maybe I should explain I mean by pictures only. I've never see a female massage practitioner in person-well maybe once 20 years ago. But I can't remember for sure.)

I'm not a paid member, and the site frequently blocks non-paid members from accessing it. But I've been locked out for over a week. The lock outs are usually over much quicker. A few years back it never let me in. I stayed off it for several years. Then finally made a new profile to get back in. And in case anyone asks why I don't just join-years ago when I tried my bank wouldn't let the charge go thru. Something about they don't trust the European credit card processor. They said, if I recall as it's been years ago, that they had had a lot of fraud with this processor. I recently applied for a credit card that I could use for it which I didn't have before. But really I don't need another bill at this point. (I just signed up for Peacock, so I could watch The Voice).

Did you mean PM you on here or on RM. The ad is still expired, so I don't know if PMs from RM would reach you.

It sounds like this post is talking about the same kind of profiles that I am (I didn't have a senior moment and write this one too, did I-well looking back, I guess I did have a senior moment and write that one too. But they seem to be getting more prevalent). Usually on my point #3 above, it won't list NSA but will list something like friends, boyfriend, or husband. And when they sometime do reveal their distance, and it's 1000's of miles away, they text back some runt about distance not being a detriment to true love. They also often want to talk to you on Whatsapp or Telegram. At this point anyone asking me to do that, I consider it to be a fake profile. I might be missing out on some real people. But I'll bet it's only a very, very few. I've seen similar profiles on Scruff and Grindr (although Grindr is almost useless these days unless (I'm assuming) you have a premium membership which I do not.)

I always thought his dad was handsome. I don't know if he was as buff as Robert. My memories place Steve as being more husky/bulky. Of course I'm thinking he was probably older than Robert when I first became aware of him. Who knows what he looked like at Robert's age?