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I always wonder about bisexual guys who advertise as strict tops. For all intents and purposes they might actually be straight and only claiming bisexuality to make themselves more acceptable to us. Gman

But couldn’t the term ‘red-flag’ also be a personal warning sign? In this case I took it to mean that it was the type of behavior that didn’t appeal to @Kyle Clinton. Although for me personally as long as it wasn’t too intrusive, and of course depending on how I liked the experience, I probably wouldn’t mind an occasional discreet inquiry from an escort. Gman

You might get a better response in The Spa. The Deli is more for escorts as opposed to masseurs. Gman

It was 2002. I was 41. I had kissed probably less than 10 girls/women in my life. I don’t think I had ever kissed a guy other than a chaste kiss to a relative. I had never French kissed anyone. I had never copped a feel of a breast or a tallywacker. While I was accomplished at masturbating, I was never part of a circle jerk. I had looked at the escort websites for 5 or 6 years, but I didn’t want to be gay (still don’t really. But I’m better). And I thought I would never be brave enough to hire. I thought there was a good chance I was going to die without ever experiencing sex-not die from not having sex-just that I was going to die before I ever became brave enough to have sex. For many of you who first had sex in your teens or twenties, you probably remember being nervous before your 1st time. Well imagine me. I had twenty something more years of being nervous, and knowing that most everyone my age had already had sex. I was like an older and less cute Steve Carrell. Finally I felt like I had to have sex. I talked -or at least hinted-to my psychiatrist at the time that I was thinking of hiring an escort. My recollection is that while he didn’t say go ahead, he gave me tacit approval. So I saw that an escort, former porn star whose website that I had looked at for years was coming to Cincinnati-Dallas Taylor. http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pw4eLkzpxcU/UbP4WZEVxaI/AAAAAAAAQZw/EUP-R-L5IfA/s1600/DallasTaylor_AllWorlds_BearNecessities_001.jpg My remembrance is that he was staying at the Best Western Plus. It’s just over the Ohio River from Cincinnati in Covington, Ky. I made an appointment. Initially I made a one hour appointment. Then I called him back and extended it to two hours. When I arrived at the hotel, I tried looking in the parking lot for police vans in case it was a sting. I was also worried when I got to his room because there was another room right next to his. I thought that if it was a sting, they could be listening in from next door. Luckily it wasn’t a sting. I had told him this was my first time. He was probably thinking-great-at my nervousness. But he was very calm and gentle. He first taught me how to kiss. I remember him telling me that I was keeping my lips too firm. Before this I thought the idea of French kissing was gross. Why would I want my tongue in someone else’s mouth or his tongue in mine. I soon found out why I wanted both. I also learned that my ears and neck were an extreme erogenous zones. I totally found the truth in the old saying, “Blow in my ear, and I’ll follow you anywhere.” We showered together. It was great showering with this stocky muscular guy. He wasn’t as pretty as he had been when he was younger. But he was definitely handsome. I also remember thinking he had the largest tallywacker I had ever seen in my life. And even after being a bit more experienced nowadays, his is probably still one of the largest. After we showered we got into bed. He had two beds. I asked him why two. He said one was for work and the other was for him by himself. So after showering together we got into bed. There I was gone down on the first time. That felt incredible. Then he sat on top of me, so I could top him. That was a bit painful. But finally I wasn’t a virgin anymore. I’ll always be grateful to him. Gman

I’m not saying we don’t all need to be careful. I was scared before my 1st hire. I actually drove around the hotel parking lot a few times trying to look for police cars. But if you consider how much more frequently stings are done using female officers, then you most likely are on a lot safer ground. Also while nothing is certain, and any provider could be forced into participating in a sting, why don’t you look more at well-known guys? Constantly looking at unknown guys and wondering whether they are part of a sting operation would be very wearing on me. Gman

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How do you know? Gman

You’ve really never been to a health club/gym? I’m in horrible shape, but I’ve occasioanlly been to a gym although currently it’s been years. I think the last gym I went to had stalls. And what about bathhouses, most of them -or at least the ones I’ve been to-have open areas to shower. In junior high we were all around the pole. I remember they made us shower in 7th grade. I was a fat kid, and I hated it. Plus in 7th grade, the guys in competitive athletics still took normal PE. So there were some -albeit just entering puberty guys-in pretty good shape. After 7th grade, the competitive athletic guys had a last period PE just for them which then led directly to after school athletic practice. I don’t remember them being as strict on us showering when I was in 8th and 9th grade. And in 10th grade my last year of PE, I’m pretty sure the shower was open. But I don’t remember ever taking one. I probably should have. Soccer wasn’t an official sport in my school system. There was a soccer star who had to take regular PE. I don’t remember him being particularly muscular-but he was in my PE class, and I think he used to take showers. As for college, we only had a one year PE requirement. I took bowling and taekwando. I think the taekwando was off campus. But I never showered there even if there were showers available, which I can’t remember. Gman

You’ve really never been to a health club/gym? I’m in horrible shape, but I’ve occasionally been to a gym although currently it’s been years. I think the last gym I went to had stalls. And what about bathhouses, most of them -or at least the ones I’ve been to-have open areas to shower. (I don’t go very often. I mainly went when an escort couldn’t host. And since I’m not hiring now, QED. ) In junior high we were all around the pole. I remember they made us shower in 7th grade. I was a fat kid, kid and I hated it. Plus in 7th grade, the guys in competitive athletics still took normal PE. So there were some -albeit just entering puberty guys-in pretty good shape. After 7th grade, the competitive athletic guys had a last period PE just for them which then led directly to after school athletic practice. I don’t remember them being as strict on us showering when I was in 8th and 9th grade. And in 10th grade my last year of PE, I’m pretty sure the shower was open. But I don’t remember ever taking one. I probably should have. Soccer wasn’t an official sport in my school system. There was a soccer star who had to take regular PE. I don’t remember him being particularly muscular-but he was in my PE class, and I think he used to take showers. As for college, we only had a one year PE requirement. I took bowling and taekwando. I think the taekwando was off campus. But I never showered there even if there were showers available, which I can’t remember. Gman

In his ad he says he’ll Facetime. I wonder, if he’s not really the guy in the pictures, how he handles that. Gman

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Love facial hair!! Of course I love clean shaven too. Gman

I’ll second that Woof!! Gman

It’s so sad these beautiful guys have marred their bodies so. Maybe you can guess that I’m a member of the no tattoos camp. And if someone has to have them, I would prefer one or two discreet SMALL ones. The guys that are just inked all over their torso, I particularly dislike. Even worse would be piercings on top of tattoos. I hate earrings and pierced nips too. Aside from their unattractiveness, why would I want to taste metal while nibbling? Gman

He’s very cute. The two things that might stop me if I were still hiring are the earrings and being a bisexual with children. Gman

Thank-you. I’m familiar with the office just not the abbreviation. If I’m not mistaken, Canada has one too. Gman

Thanks. I used a different browser where I’m not signed into RM, and I perused to my heart’s content. I just thought it was unusual. I mean my profile is pretty innocuous. It says something like-‘I don’t know what to write’. Then below that it says, ‘Didn’t you read what I wrote above?’ Gman

I don’t think I checked him out multiple times. Even if I had, I might have been an interested peruser. It seems counterproductive to me. Gman

I was windowshopping on Rentmen. I’m not hiring anymore, but no harm in looking-or so I thought. I then looked at my account-at the ‘Who Saw Me’ Section. An escort named Jamezdean from San Jose, saw that I had perused his ad. While I remembered seeing his ad, I wasn’t 100% sure that I had actually clicked on it. So I decided to look at it. When I clicked on the link, it came up ‘Profile Unavailable’. Now I didn’t contact this ‘pornstar’ in any way shape or form. And I don’t think I really have anything offensive on my Rentmen profile. In fact I don’t think I really have much info on there at all. So I’m not really sure why he blocked me. I’m very befuddled. Gman

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Unless I misread, the OP said that he was a top. Gman

When is equal marriage planned to go into effect, @mike carey and @westernsyd? Gman

I’m glad as most of the previous thread seems to concentrate on him as a masseur. His ad says ‘BFE’. But he doesn’t mention anything about kissing. Gman

The only person I can think of right off the bat in all my years of hiring that I actually ended up hiring who wouldn’t give me his personal info and wanted to make the reservations himself was Steven Draker. That probably should have been a warning sign that I shouldn’t have done it. As for emailing the tickets, I usually cut and pasted the pertinent info and then emailed the ticket to the escort myself. If I had the airline send the email, it often had some of my personal information that I preferred not sending to the escort-things like my name and possibly my address. I usually had a nom-de-hiring name that I used with the escort prior to hiring. Once we actually met, I had no problems with telling them my name, but I was careful beforehand. Gman

In my experience, flights with layovers can sometimes cost as much or more as direct flights. As for whether you should book a layover, sometimes it’s necessary depending on where you live. For example, I once lived in Corpus Christi, Texas. Unless I was bringing someone to me from Texas, there was almost always going to be stopover in either Dallas or Houston. As for whether you should book a flight with a stopover when you could, book a non-stop, you have to gauge the expense vs the escort’s comfort. I certainly wouldn’t book a stopover of two hours or more unless I had to. Remember flying all day can be exhausting. If the escort is all tired out because of an arduous flight schedule, you are adding factors that might lead to a less than successful meeting. Take an average weekend hire. The escort comes in on a Friday and leaves on a Sunday. You are going to have less than 48 hours of actual face time due to flight schedules. If the escort is exhausted by the flights, that’s just less quality time you have to spend with them. Gman